How to find a husband at 30?

[Anonymous]

I’m 30, single, and looking to get married and have kids. I just got out of a long term relationship 6 months ago and I’m ready to find a husband. I’m tired of dating around and I’m ready to get married and have kids. I feel I have a lot to offer a man. I have a great career making $120k/year, own a condo, and have no debt ( have $250k in savings). I’m cute ( not super hot but cute), nice body, and big breasts. I’m laid back, funny and love joking around, respectful, loving, faithful, etc. I love sex, great cook, and good with kids. I have a great career with flexibility for when I have kids. I am somewhat picky with requirements, but I’m looking for a husband and someone that will become the father of my future kids. How can I find a guy to marry?

[Anonymous]

You should be a SMBC

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You should be a SMBC

What is that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You should be a SMBC

What is that?

Single Mom By Choice. Either via a sperm donor or adoption.

[Anonymous]

Dating apps, and friends introducing you to guys who are friends or brothers of their awesome husbands.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You should be a SMBC

What is that?

Single Mom By Choice. Either via a sperm donor or adoption.

WTH? She is 30!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You should be a SMBC

What is that?

Single Mom By Choice. Either via a sperm donor or adoption.

WTH? She is 30!

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You should be a SMBC

What is that?

Single Mom By Choice. Either via a sperm donor or adoption.

OP here. Not for me. I personally wouldn’t have kids unless I had partner and a strong marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You should be a SMBC

What is that?

Single Mom By Choice. Either via a sperm donor or adoption.

WTH? She is 30!

+1. She has time. She’s not 40.

[Anonymous]

Met mine at 33. My cousin died and he was at the funeral.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You should be a SMBC

What is that?

Single Mom By Choice. Either via a sperm donor or adoption.

WTH? She is 30!

+1. She has time. She’s not 40.

Being 40 is not a requirement.

[Anonymous]

So what are your requirements?


What has been your obstacles so far?

[Anonymous]

Why did your last relationship end?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So what are your requirements?


What has been your obstacles so far?

OP here. I have a type but I’m open.

- Looking for 30-40. Open to slightly older if everything else fits.
- No debt or very little.
- Good career making at least $120k/year. He doesn’t need to make $500k, but I do want a man who can match or exceed my salary.
- Be laid back, fun, good in bed, faithful, dependable, etc. I want to feel comfortable and safe with him.
- Be a good partner. Want to be a good husband, dad, and team player. Must want and want to be involved in the raising of future kids.

So much more but I just want a nice guy with a good career who wants to be a husband and father. A guy who takes an active role in being a husband and father and can be dependable, loving, and stable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why did your last relationship end?

OP here. He is also 30 and wasn’t ready to settle down. He wanted to settle down eventually but he didn’t see himself having kids for at least another 5 years. He was fine with marriage but wanted to put off kids until 35+. I want to hopefully have 1-2 kids or be pregnant by 35.