There are a lot of single women looking

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is the classic hypergamy. Women do not care about men’s struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winner.

If you're a decent looking guy, make a lot of money, be kind to others, and have interesting hobbies such as car racing, play guitar, pickleball etc... you will have endless options with online dating. Congratulation, you are in the top 5%. It is like 95% of women chasing the top 5% men.

Wait, all I have to do to score the babes is be a decent-looking, kind, rich pickleball player?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Tons a single Jewish women in their 30s and 40s

I’m not into them but that’s the majority of my matches on hinge

How do you know that they are single? I’m not Jewish but I’m a married (semi-separated) woman in my 40s on Hinge 😀
I’ve met several men in their 30s and 40s through Hinge who look good and have decent jobs but haven’t dated for a year or more. They say that there is a shortage of women who want to date - many of them ignore their invitations to meet even once.

Late 40s woman. I dated 4 so-called "high quality" men in spring-summer simultaneously. Every single of them had all formal attributes of high value: I would classify them 6-7-7-6. All of them were within 5-10 years of my age, in either direction. Two of them complained they were unable to find a woman who would commit. Anyone they were interested in wouldn't commit to date exclusively

I'm 5'7; 20 BMI ; 48 yo; high NW divorced F.

Did you end up with any of them or what happened?

Also, what's 6776?

6 pack, 7 P, 7 figures income, 6 height. They wanted a GF/cook for them, participate in social calendar, maintain joint household plan retirements together. Exclusive means each wanted me only to date them. Yes, I left all 4 as I didn't fall into any of them seriously. It's very easy for me to date whoever I want and meet men of similar parameters

So you didn't fall for any of them seriously, but know they all have a 7 P?

Overall, lets look at the numbers:

1-2% of men have a six pack (and this include younger men not in the age demo you're describing)
5% or fewer men have a 7 P
less than 1% of men earn 7 figures
14% of men 6 foot or taller

And you found all of these in 4 men? And very easily?

Yes, we believe you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women should marry women to have a raise a family. Can you imagine? Two actual functional adults participating in their kids lives and executing all household duties evenly while excelling in their careers? The sex would be great too because, finally, someone who understands a woman’s body. Total utopia, right?

Unfortunately, when women marry women what follows is an extremely high divorce rate - much higher than a hetero marriage or a male/male gay marriage (which is actually the lowest).

This is likely because women actually experience what its like to be married to a woman.

Women can be hyper-critical - the 95% of things that you do right don’t matter. Only the 5% of things that you do wrong matter and they will build up a toxic level of resentment over those things. Try to fix that other 5% and they will be hypercritical over how you’re fixing it and hate the patheticness of your character who cowtowed. They’ll gaslight you about what a bad person you are (read the posts in this thread above for examples). Then, all of a sudden, they shut off all intimacy and sex (google lesbian bed death) and it makes their skin crawl to even consider sleeping with you leaving you feeling disgusting, not good enough and rejected. After that, its on with the subtle mind games where they try to make sure that everything you find enjoyment in is minimized because there’s nothing they hate more than that stupid smile on your face. Because, she’s a great multi-tasker, she also creates friction in your family on a rotating basis. Your dad, your mom, your ahole brother and snob sister. The only reprieve you get is when her hate is zero’d in on her work nemesis. And she manages to do all of this while her friends feed her self-righteousness while really only hoping to sabotage her life because its too perfect.

Being married to this is not easy for anyone but women should try it first before marrying men.

Someone needs a Xanax stat

Anyone married to a DCUM woman probably does.

No one held a knife to your throat to date or marry anybody, dude. If you’re a bad partner and unhappy that’s on you and you’re the one dealing with the consequences.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women should marry women to have a raise a family. Can you imagine? Two actual functional adults participating in their kids lives and executing all household duties evenly while excelling in their careers? The sex would be great too because, finally, someone who understands a woman’s body. Total utopia, right?

Unfortunately, when women marry women what follows is an extremely high divorce rate - much higher than a hetero marriage or a male/male gay marriage (which is actually the lowest).

This is likely because women actually experience what its like to be married to a woman.

Women can be hyper-critical - the 95% of things that you do right don’t matter. Only the 5% of things that you do wrong matter and they will build up a toxic level of resentment over those things. Try to fix that other 5% and they will be hypercritical over how you’re fixing it and hate the patheticness of your character who cowtowed. They’ll gaslight you about what a bad person you are (read the posts in this thread above for examples). Then, all of a sudden, they shut off all intimacy and sex (google lesbian bed death) and it makes their skin crawl to even consider sleeping with you leaving you feeling disgusting, not good enough and rejected. After that, its on with the subtle mind games where they try to make sure that everything you find enjoyment in is minimized because there’s nothing they hate more than that stupid smile on your face. Because, she’s a great multi-tasker, she also creates friction in your family on a rotating basis. Your dad, your mom, your ahole brother and snob sister. The only reprieve you get is when her hate is zero’d in on her work nemesis. And she manages to do all of this while her friends feed her self-righteousness while really only hoping to sabotage her life because its too perfect.

Being married to this is not easy for anyone but women should try it first before marrying men.

Someone needs a Xanax stat

Anyone married to a DCUM woman probably does.

No one held a knife to your throat to date or marry anybody, dude. If you’re a bad partner and unhappy that’s on you and you’re the one dealing with the consequences.

And the same answer goes for the ladies out here complaining. Its on them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women should marry women to have a raise a family. Can you imagine? Two actual functional adults participating in their kids lives and executing all household duties evenly while excelling in their careers? The sex would be great too because, finally, someone who understands a woman’s body. Total utopia, right?

Unfortunately, when women marry women what follows is an extremely high divorce rate - much higher than a hetero marriage or a male/male gay marriage (which is actually the lowest).

This is likely because women actually experience what its like to be married to a woman.

Women can be hyper-critical - the 95% of things that you do right don’t matter. Only the 5% of things that you do wrong matter and they will build up a toxic level of resentment over those things. Try to fix that other 5% and they will be hypercritical over how you’re fixing it and hate the patheticness of your character who cowtowed. They’ll gaslight you about what a bad person you are (read the posts in this thread above for examples). Then, all of a sudden, they shut off all intimacy and sex (google lesbian bed death) and it makes their skin crawl to even consider sleeping with you leaving you feeling disgusting, not good enough and rejected. After that, its on with the subtle mind games where they try to make sure that everything you find enjoyment in is minimized because there’s nothing they hate more than that stupid smile on your face. Because, she’s a great multi-tasker, she also creates friction in your family on a rotating basis. Your dad, your mom, your ahole brother and snob sister. The only reprieve you get is when her hate is zero’d in on her work nemesis. And she manages to do all of this while her friends feed her self-righteousness while really only hoping to sabotage her life because its too perfect.

Being married to this is not easy for anyone but women should try it first before marrying men.

Someone needs a Xanax stat

Anyone married to a DCUM woman probably does.

No one held a knife to your throat to date or marry anybody, dude. If you’re a bad partner and unhappy that’s on you and you’re the one dealing with the consequences.

*This* post in *this* thread is 🤌

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women should marry women to have a raise a family. Can you imagine? Two actual functional adults participating in their kids lives and executing all household duties evenly while excelling in their careers? The sex would be great too because, finally, someone who understands a woman’s body. Total utopia, right?

Unfortunately, when women marry women what follows is an extremely high divorce rate - much higher than a hetero marriage or a male/male gay marriage (which is actually the lowest).

This is likely because women actually experience what its like to be married to a woman.

Women can be hyper-critical - the 95% of things that you do right don’t matter. Only the 5% of things that you do wrong matter and they will build up a toxic level of resentment over those things. Try to fix that other 5% and they will be hypercritical over how you’re fixing it and hate the patheticness of your character who cowtowed. They’ll gaslight you about what a bad person you are (read the posts in this thread above for examples). Then, all of a sudden, they shut off all intimacy and sex (google lesbian bed death) and it makes their skin crawl to even consider sleeping with you leaving you feeling disgusting, not good enough and rejected. After that, its on with the subtle mind games where they try to make sure that everything you find enjoyment in is minimized because there’s nothing they hate more than that stupid smile on your face. Because, she’s a great multi-tasker, she also creates friction in your family on a rotating basis. Your dad, your mom, your ahole brother and snob sister. The only reprieve you get is when her hate is zero’d in on her work nemesis. And she manages to do all of this while her friends feed her self-righteousness while really only hoping to sabotage her life because its too perfect.

Being married to this is not easy for anyone but women should try it first before marrying men.

Someone needs a Xanax stat

Anyone married to a DCUM woman probably does.

No one held a knife to your throat to date or marry anybody, dude. If you’re a bad partner and unhappy that’s on you and you’re the one dealing with the consequences.

And the same answer goes for the ladies out here complaining. Its on them.

Of course it is. But a lot of men on this thread seem flabbergasted that women don’t want them or aren’t happy with them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women should marry women to have a raise a family. Can you imagine? Two actual functional adults participating in their kids lives and executing all household duties evenly while excelling in their careers? The sex would be great too because, finally, someone who understands a woman’s body. Total utopia, right?

Unfortunately, when women marry women what follows is an extremely high divorce rate - much higher than a hetero marriage or a male/male gay marriage (which is actually the lowest).

This is likely because women actually experience what its like to be married to a woman.

Women can be hyper-critical - the 95% of things that you do right don’t matter. Only the 5% of things that you do wrong matter and they will build up a toxic level of resentment over those things. Try to fix that other 5% and they will be hypercritical over how you’re fixing it and hate the patheticness of your character who cowtowed. They’ll gaslight you about what a bad person you are (read the posts in this thread above for examples). Then, all of a sudden, they shut off all intimacy and sex (google lesbian bed death) and it makes their skin crawl to even consider sleeping with you leaving you feeling disgusting, not good enough and rejected. After that, its on with the subtle mind games where they try to make sure that everything you find enjoyment in is minimized because there’s nothing they hate more than that stupid smile on your face. Because, she’s a great multi-tasker, she also creates friction in your family on a rotating basis. Your dad, your mom, your ahole brother and snob sister. The only reprieve you get is when her hate is zero’d in on her work nemesis. And she manages to do all of this while her friends feed her self-righteousness while really only hoping to sabotage her life because its too perfect.

Being married to this is not easy for anyone but women should try it first before marrying men.

Newsflash: Women can take advantage of other women, too.

But let's get real. I will bet anything those lesbian divorces are far more amicable than most hetero divorces and in a lot of cases, even mutual. How often does that happen for husband/wife marriages? Men will cling to a dead marriage to a wife that hates him because despite that, she still makes his life cheaper and easier, and he's going to have a rough go of it on his lonesome.

And let's get really real. You break up with a lesbian, it's unlikely she's going to come after you or your kids violently. Women have seen their DHs grown-ass tantrums - it is a real risk they will be the target of his rage if they file. Fear is a big motivator in women staying with their husbands, and I bet the hetero divorce rate would be even higher if that wasn't in the equation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women should marry women to have a raise a family. Can you imagine? Two actual functional adults participating in their kids lives and executing all household duties evenly while excelling in their careers? The sex would be great too because, finally, someone who understands a woman’s body. Total utopia, right?

Unfortunately, when women marry women what follows is an extremely high divorce rate - much higher than a hetero marriage or a male/male gay marriage (which is actually the lowest).

This is likely because women actually experience what its like to be married to a woman.

Women can be hyper-critical - the 95% of things that you do right don’t matter. Only the 5% of things that you do wrong matter and they will build up a toxic level of resentment over those things. Try to fix that other 5% and they will be hypercritical over how you’re fixing it and hate the patheticness of your character who cowtowed. They’ll gaslight you about what a bad person you are (read the posts in this thread above for examples). Then, all of a sudden, they shut off all intimacy and sex (google lesbian bed death) and it makes their skin crawl to even consider sleeping with you leaving you feeling disgusting, not good enough and rejected. After that, its on with the subtle mind games where they try to make sure that everything you find enjoyment in is minimized because there’s nothing they hate more than that stupid smile on your face. Because, she’s a great multi-tasker, she also creates friction in your family on a rotating basis. Your dad, your mom, your ahole brother and snob sister. The only reprieve you get is when her hate is zero’d in on her work nemesis. And she manages to do all of this while her friends feed her self-righteousness while really only hoping to sabotage her life because its too perfect.

Being married to this is not easy for anyone but women should try it first before marrying men.

Dude. Post your manifesto on your own website. Can somebody provide cliffs?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tons a single Jewish women in their 30s and 40s

I’m not into them but that’s the majority of my matches on hinge

How do you know that they are single? I’m not Jewish but I’m a married (semi-separated) woman in my 40s on Hinge 😀
I’ve met several men in their 30s and 40s through Hinge who look good and have decent jobs but haven’t dated for a year or more. They say that there is a shortage of women who want to date - many of them ignore their invitations to meet even once.

Late 40s woman. I dated 4 so-called "high quality" men in spring-summer simultaneously. Every single of them had all formal attributes of high value: I would classify them 6-7-7-6. All of them were within 5-10 years of my age, in either direction. Two of them complained they were unable to find a woman who would commit. Anyone they were interested in wouldn't commit to date exclusively

I'm 5'7; 20 BMI ; 48 yo; high NW divorced F.

Did you end up with any of them or what happened?

Also, what's 6776?

6 pack, 7 P, 7 figures income, 6 height. They wanted a GF/cook for them, participate in social calendar, maintain joint household plan retirements together. Exclusive means each wanted me only to date them. Yes, I left all 4 as I didn't fall into any of them seriously. It's very easy for me to date whoever I want and meet men of similar parameters

Are men really out here measuring their penises or is this their unverified claim? Is 7" even a big deal? Of course they wanted a girlfriend to cook for them. That's one thing I'm making a point of never doing again for a man. Great way to weed out men who'll get even lazier once they're comfortable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The slang term "hoeflation" is a blend of the words "hoe" (a derogatory term for a promiscuous person, usually a woman) and "inflation". It is primarily used in online communities and dating forums by men.
The term is used to describe the perceived increase in effort, money, or self-improvement a man must invest to meet the "inflated" standards or expectations of modern women, particularly those considered to be superficial.
The concept essentially suggests that:
Women have an exaggerated sense of their own attractiveness and value in the dating market.
Average men are "left in the dust" because these women only pursue men perceived as high-value (e.g., very attractive or wealthy), who may be "out of their league".
The overall "cost" (both financial and in terms of effort) for an average man to find a partner has therefore increased significantly.

If you're going to import economics into dating, then you should start with the basics.

For instance, there is no such thing as intrinsic value in economics. The value of an item is simply what buyers are willing to pay to acquire it. Sellers who would be successful must price their wares accordingly.

If your target buyers (the women you consider your equals) don't consider you worth acquiring, then you are a lower value item than you would like to think. The simplest answer is to target buyers at a lower end of the market (the women you erroneously think are beneath you). If you insist on targeting high-end buyers, then you must do market research to figure out what other items valuable to these buyers you can include along with yourself in the hopes that the overall package might be of sufficient value for those buyers. Some items of extra value on the dating market include being extremely courteous, being very attentive to her preferences and needs, being very pleasant company, learning the housekeeping and household running skills that everyone can pick up on but men refuse to etc. This approach, however, requires you to first accept that you're actually not good enough as you are, instead of resenting the higher end buyers that don't want you.

You could also wait and hope for a market disruption that will force higher-end buyers to accept lower value goods. For instance, laws that made women property and stole the value of their labor from them for centuries disrupted the open dating market in favor of men. I don't think those laws are coming back, but I guess you can hope.

Very much enjoyed reading this.

+200 Funny how incels don't want to understand this part of economics.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tons a single Jewish women in their 30s and 40s

I’m not into them but that’s the majority of my matches on hinge

How do you know that they are single? I’m not Jewish but I’m a married (semi-separated) woman in my 40s on Hinge 😀
I’ve met several men in their 30s and 40s through Hinge who look good and have decent jobs but haven’t dated for a year or more. They say that there is a shortage of women who want to date - many of them ignore their invitations to meet even once.

Late 40s woman. I dated 4 so-called "high quality" men in spring-summer simultaneously. Every single of them had all formal attributes of high value: I would classify them 6-7-7-6. All of them were within 5-10 years of my age, in either direction. Two of them complained they were unable to find a woman who would commit. Anyone they were interested in wouldn't commit to date exclusively

I'm 5'7; 20 BMI ; 48 yo; high NW divorced F.

Did you end up with any of them or what happened?

Also, what's 6776?

6 pack, 7 P, 7 figures income, 6 height. They wanted a GF/cook for them, participate in social calendar, maintain joint household plan retirements together. Exclusive means each wanted me only to date them. Yes, I left all 4 as I didn't fall into any of them seriously. It's very easy for me to date whoever I want and meet men of similar parameters

So you didn't fall for any of them seriously, but know they all have a 7 P?

Overall, lets look at the numbers:

1-2% of men have a six pack (and this include younger men not in the age demo you're describing)
5% or fewer men have a 7 P
less than 1% of men earn 7 figures
14% of men 6 foot or taller

And you found all of these in 4 men? And very easily?

Yes, we believe you.

I'm myself in 0.001 % by BMI, looks, education and income level. Was very easy to find them: all matched me on the apps within couple weeks of joining.All were within 5 years off my own age. Dated them from March to Sept alternating night sleepovers using protection and STD testing from all of them. A director of a network of medical clinics, a partner in consulting firm, a lawyer, and a CEO of a mid level industrial company. I didn't fall into them because I wasn't completely satisfied sexually and emotionally with either of then. I was happier alone doing my thing instead of dating them
But it was just an example of how easy it is to date for a woman who gets all the likes on the app. I ended these relationships not because I couldn't be their GF but because I wanted to find a better match. "Better" not in a sense of looks, income or any formal requirements, but in a sense of finding ONE MAN who truly makes me happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tons a single Jewish women in their 30s and 40s

I’m not into them but that’s the majority of my matches on hinge

How do you know that they are single? I’m not Jewish but I’m a married (semi-separated) woman in my 40s on Hinge 😀
I’ve met several men in their 30s and 40s through Hinge who look good and have decent jobs but haven’t dated for a year or more. They say that there is a shortage of women who want to date - many of them ignore their invitations to meet even once.

Late 40s woman. I dated 4 so-called "high quality" men in spring-summer simultaneously. Every single of them had all formal attributes of high value: I would classify them 6-7-7-6. All of them were within 5-10 years of my age, in either direction. Two of them complained they were unable to find a woman who would commit. Anyone they were interested in wouldn't commit to date exclusively

I'm 5'7; 20 BMI ; 48 yo; high NW divorced F.

Did you end up with any of them or what happened?

Also, what's 6776?

6 pack, 7 P, 7 figures income, 6 height. They wanted a GF/cook for them, participate in social calendar, maintain joint household plan retirements together. Exclusive means each wanted me only to date them. Yes, I left all 4 as I didn't fall into any of them seriously. It's very easy for me to date whoever I want and meet men of similar parameters

Are men really out here measuring their penises or is this their unverified claim? Is 7" even a big deal? Of course they wanted a girlfriend to cook for them. That's one thing I'm making a point of never doing again for a man. Great way to weed out men who'll get even lazier once they're comfortable.

I never met a single man who didn't know the size of his P. It's like a woman not knowing her bra size.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm myself in 0.001 %

That's adorable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tons a single Jewish women in their 30s and 40s

I’m not into them but that’s the majority of my matches on hinge

How do you know that they are single? I’m not Jewish but I’m a married (semi-separated) woman in my 40s on Hinge 😀
I’ve met several men in their 30s and 40s through Hinge who look good and have decent jobs but haven’t dated for a year or more. They say that there is a shortage of women who want to date - many of them ignore their invitations to meet even once.

Late 40s woman. I dated 4 so-called "high quality" men in spring-summer simultaneously. Every single of them had all formal attributes of high value: I would classify them 6-7-7-6. All of them were within 5-10 years of my age, in either direction. Two of them complained they were unable to find a woman who would commit. Anyone they were interested in wouldn't commit to date exclusively

I'm 5'7; 20 BMI ; 48 yo; high NW divorced F.

Did you end up with any of them or what happened?

Also, what's 6776?

6 pack, 7 P, 7 figures income, 6 height. They wanted a GF/cook for them, participate in social calendar, maintain joint household plan retirements together. Exclusive means each wanted me only to date them. Yes, I left all 4 as I didn't fall into any of them seriously. It's very easy for me to date whoever I want and meet men of similar parameters

So you didn't fall for any of them seriously, but know they all have a 7 P?

Overall, lets look at the numbers:

1-2% of men have a six pack (and this include younger men not in the age demo you're describing)
5% or fewer men have a 7 P
less than 1% of men earn 7 figures
14% of men 6 foot or taller

And you found all of these in 4 men? And very easily?

Yes, we believe you.

Though there's correlation between income and fitness and income and height. Those millionaires are more likely than average to be tall and have a six pack. So I'm sure it's all true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women should marry women to have a raise a family. Can you imagine? Two actual functional adults participating in their kids lives and executing all household duties evenly while excelling in their careers? The sex would be great too because, finally, someone who understands a woman’s body. Total utopia, right?

Unfortunately, when women marry women what follows is an extremely high divorce rate - much higher than a hetero marriage or a male/male gay marriage (which is actually the lowest).

This is likely because women actually experience what its like to be married to a woman.

Women can be hyper-critical - the 95% of things that you do right don’t matter. Only the 5% of things that you do wrong matter and they will build up a toxic level of resentment over those things. Try to fix that other 5% and they will be hypercritical over how you’re fixing it and hate the patheticness of your character who cowtowed. They’ll gaslight you about what a bad person you are (read the posts in this thread above for examples). Then, all of a sudden, they shut off all intimacy and sex (google lesbian bed death) and it makes their skin crawl to even consider sleeping with you leaving you feeling disgusting, not good enough and rejected. After that, its on with the subtle mind games where they try to make sure that everything you find enjoyment in is minimized because there’s nothing they hate more than that stupid smile on your face. Because, she’s a great multi-tasker, she also creates friction in your family on a rotating basis. Your dad, your mom, your ahole brother and snob sister. The only reprieve you get is when her hate is zero’d in on her work nemesis. And she manages to do all of this while her friends feed her self-righteousness while really only hoping to sabotage her life because its too perfect.

Being married to this is not easy for anyone but women should try it first before marrying men.

Someone needs a Xanax stat

Anyone married to a DCUM woman probably does.

No one held a knife to your throat to date or marry anybody, dude. If you’re a bad partner and unhappy that’s on you and you’re the one dealing with the consequences.

And the same answer goes for the ladies out here complaining. Its on them.

Of course it is. But a lot of men on this thread seem flabbergasted that women don’t want them or aren’t happy with them.

Personally, I'm flabbergasted that even one woman wants me, but amazingly, after a few decades of marriage she seems reasonably happy. And after a few decades I remain flabbergasted.