"It doesn't hurt to ask"... or does it?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The people criticizing the nanny who did some shoveling are astonishing to me.

People who CANNOT READ at this age are astonishing to me.

Favor definition : an act of kindness beyond what is due or usual.

Oh my God...

OP was complaining about her employers ASKING for too many favors.

Please stop. I am embarrassed for those you feel the need to keep defending this clear comprehension mistake. I would fire any nanny in a heartbeat who couldn't comprehend a statement as clear as OP's post. Period. The end.

Why do you feel the need to dramatically respond to our posts. Take your meds.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do they pay you extra $$ for all that? If not, you're a doormat.

OP here - no. They are just random favors - switch days off, pick up something for MB while I am out with charge, babysit at night for she or one of her friends (that yes - I do get paid for). I can, and often do, say no - but I hate MB's response to my refusal and I am starting to hate being asked.

Are they still taking advantage of you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The people criticizing the nanny who did some shoveling are astonishing to me.

People who CANNOT READ at this age are astonishing to me.

Favor definition : an act of kindness beyond what is due or usual.

Oh my God...

OP was complaining about her employers ASKING for too many favors.

Please stop. I am embarrassed for those you feel the need to keep defending this clear comprehension mistake. I would fire any nanny in a heartbeat who couldn't comprehend a statement as clear as OP's post. Period. The end.

Why do you feel the need to dramatically respond to our posts. Take your meds.

I am a new poster on this thread and I have to agree that you are embarrassing yourself especially with the "our" - you have been sock puppeting this thread fro your first post.

Please stop.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The people criticizing the nanny who did some shoveling are astonishing to me.

People who CANNOT READ at this age are astonishing to me.

Favor definition : an act of kindness beyond what is due or usual.

Oh my God...

OP was complaining about her employers ASKING for too many favors.

Please stop. I am embarrassed for those you feel the need to keep defending this clear comprehension mistake. I would fire any nanny in a heartbeat who couldn't comprehend a statement as clear as OP's post. Period. The end.

Why do you feel the need to dramatically respond to our posts. Take your meds.

I am a new poster on this thread and I have to agree that you are embarrassing yourself especially with the "our" - you have been sock puppeting this thread fro your first post.

Please stop.

No, you should please stop. There are more than one of us defending the flexible nanny, hence my reference to "our posts". I am not sock-puppeting and you can check with Jeff if you don't believe me.

[Anonymous]

This whole exchange is so strange. I'm always running errands for my MB. Picking up dry cleaning, various items at the grocery, or filling a prescription or whatever. I don't even consider it a favor. I'm out and about. What's it to me? Of I go to the grocery story I pick up a few things for myself. Same with CVS. How is this a big deal for some of you.

I have such a good relationship with my HF. They don't mind if I run my errands as well on occasion. I find that if I don't nit pick with my MB she doesn't nit pick me. See how that works? It's called a healthy relationship.