Nanny comes early, then sits

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hope Mirtha Victoria isn't the nanny to that baby in her picture. I'd be livid if my nanny posted a picture on a forum with my child without my permission.

How do you know that she doesn't have permission, genius?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope Mirtha Victoria isn't the nanny to that baby in her picture. I'd be livid if my nanny posted a picture on a forum with my child without my permission.

How do you know that she doesn't have permission, genius?

I would be livid also. My child should not be part of someone else's signature block.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope Mirtha Victoria isn't the nanny to that baby in her picture. I'd be livid if my nanny posted a picture on a forum with my child without my permission.

How do you know that she doesn't have permission, genius?

Because:
A) she removed the picture and
B) I don't know of any mother or father who would be okay with that. This is an anonymous forum you don't have to register for.

[Anonymous]

You want someone to be punctual, but being early is a problem if she isn't helping out? What I typically do is sit in my car until 5 minutes before I am to begin. You can ask her to do the same if it's really a big deal to you. Other than that, if she arrives 15-20 mins everyday, just start paying her for that time so you can have extra assistance.

[Anonymous]

OP doesn't want to pay for additional labor.
She's a freeloader.

[Anonymous]

Mirtha_Victoria wrote:I will honest and tell her what is going on ...

I don't mind if You can early and sit in the couch waiting to 8.00 am but
some mornings I MIGHT need You to start as soon You get home and
I expect You to do it and sure You will be pay for the extra-time .

And if She does not like to do it and just want to start working at 8.00
I will ask her to come in her scheduled time because at less I will have more space to run ,
get crazy , fall down, cry or scream without a witness !!
And 8.00 am I will open the door to her with a
big smile . (nobody need to watch my miseries.)

She's a bimbo mother.

[Anonymous]

The nanny arrives early everyday and that is a problem? I fail to understand certain employers. To the OP, you post is actually ridiculous. You should calm down and stop being ridiculous. She sounds like a model employee, always eager to be there well before her time in order that she will never be late so you won't have anything to complain about her, but wow, how wrong and mistaken she is. For this great thing she is doing, you chastise her. If you arrived early at your work I'm sure your bosses would be very pleased with you, but they certainly would not expect you to start early.

When my mum arrives on the ward early, she is not expected to start on arrival, because her start time has obviously not started therefore she would not be paid for working outside of her allocated hours.

[Anonymous]

Well done to the nanny for always being early. I applaud her efforts. She sounds very sensible and dedicated to her post. You need help OP. What you're saying is nonsensical. Try appreciating her instead of looking down on her when she isn't actually doing anything wrong. If she was late I'm sure you would jump down her throat, but that is obviously an impossibility because she is always early.

[Anonymous]

It shows how your nanny is unappreciated. If you expect more be ready to pay more. Remember she is not obligated to start working earlier.

[Anonymous]

Here's what I would do: make her start time 7:45. Pay her accordingly. Tell her not to arrive any earlier than 7:45, but that it won't be the end of the world if she is a few minutes late every now and then due to commuting issues.

Our nanny used to arrive early and I can sympathize with the invasion of privacy feeling. Your problem is that you have too little wiggle room in your mornings and leave her no choice but to arrive early.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We were clear in our interviews that our next nanny had to be punctual. DH and I have demanding jobs that do not tolerate lateness. Our previous nanny was great about being on time, we wanted the replacement to follow in her footsteps.

The problem is the nanny arrives to our house 15-20 minutes early every morning. She comes in, says good morning, then sits in the living room reading from her ipad. We hear her phone alarm go off at 8am when she is scheduled to start. Only then does she put the book away and pitch in.

The morning routine is like a zoo. We are chasing one kid and the other is in one of our arms or screaming for our attention. If I need to change my blouse, like Wednesday when I spilled yogurt on myself, I have to carry DD upstairs, change my clothes, carry her back down to the basement to stain treat the shirt and set the machine to soak, then back up to the main floor to finish packing school lunches and chasing kids and geeting myself ready.

We would like to ask her to either (1) pitch in if she is going to be there or (2) come closer to her start time. The train runs every minute during rush hour so I doubt she couldn't arrive a bit later if she doesn't want to do extra work.

Is her name Agne? Laziest nanny anyone could EVER have.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP doesn't want to pay for additional labor.
She's a freeloader.

No, it's just that lazy nannies are irritating to have around.

[Anonymous]

Hellooooo. This is a 4 mth old thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hellooooo. This is a 4 mth old thread.

The last post was in September. One month ago. Sounds like you need help with basic counting skills.

[Anonymous]

She have the right to read anything!!
U should be glad the she is PUNTUAL !!!

If u need her few minutes before paid !!!!

And u fix your problem