how many nannies is too many for a child?

[Anonymous]

22:12 really needs to study the serious repercussions of too many broken bonds for babies and young children.

Attachment issues:
Big problems down the road. It's not pretty.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:22:12 really needs to study the serious repercussions of too many broken bonds for babies and young children.

Attachment issues:
Big problems down the road. It's not pretty.

Ughhh. You again?!? Link to some legitimate scientific/psychological studies or go away.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Our nanny just left us and I don't think we want to hire another one BC it will be to traumatic for our children. What are peoples opinions regarding switching care providers ?

It's not the nannies fault. You are a bad boss.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our nanny just left us and I don't think we want to hire another one BC it will be to traumatic for our children. What are peoples opinions regarding switching care providers ?

It's not the nannies fault. You are a bad boss.

Evidence or GTFO.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:22:12 really needs to study the serious repercussions of too many broken bonds for babies and young children.

Attachment issues:
Big problems down the road. It's not pretty.

Citation or GTFO.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:22:12 really needs to study the serious repercussions of too many broken bonds for babies and young children.

Attachment issues:
Big problems down the road. It's not pretty.

[Anonymous]

Oh really?? Attachment issues? Must fire nanny ASAP now before the bond gets too strong because the nanny job ALWAYS ends. Nanny is not going to be around when my baby goes to college.

Better get rid of the nanny now and just be SAHM....

Thanks everyone!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh really?? Attachment issues? Must fire nanny ASAP now before the bond gets too strong because the nanny job ALWAYS ends. Nanny is not going to be around when my baby goes to college.

Better get rid of the nanny now and just be SAHM....

Thanks everyone!!

What a sorry ass of a parent you are. Unfortunate if you just had another tough day at your more satisfying career job yesterday.

[Anonymous]

I am firing my nanny today too. I had no idea the yearly turnover of nannies could detrimentally affect my kids for life!!!! Reading about attachment issues at the recommendation of some very smart nannies on this board really opened my eyes. It is just not worth it to work anymore.

[Anonymous]

LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am firing my nanny today too. I had no idea the yearly turnover of nannies could detrimentally affect my kids for life!!!! Reading about attachment issues at the recommendation of some very smart nannies on this board really opened my eyes. It is just not worth it to work anymore.

What makes you so sure that some anonymous poster here is so smart? Because what was said touched a nerve and rang true? It you can't maintain (or afford) a relatively stable nanny, it is indeed best to opt for more stable arrangements. Many parents, you know, would feel lucky if they managed to have one nanny for a whole year.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am firing my nanny today too. I had no idea the yearly turnover of nannies could detrimentally affect my kids for life!!!! Reading about attachment issues at the recommendation of some very smart nannies on this board really opened my eyes. It is just not worth it to work anymore.

What makes you so sure that some anonymous poster here is so smart? Because what was said touched a nerve and rang true? It you can't maintain (or afford) a relatively stable nanny, it is indeed best to opt for more stable arrangements. Many parents, you know, would feel lucky if they managed to have one nanny for a whole year.

*If

[Anonymous]

We are Foreign Service so move every 2 years, different nanny every two years. My three boys are just fine, and looking fw to country number 4 soon.

[Anonymous]

Ideally, you want your children to form secure, lasting bonds with caregivers. But, sometimes that's not possible and other needs take over.

One thing I would ask is how many nannies have left you or you've fired (and not for reasons like moving away or a dramatic change in hours)? I think it's pretty normal for families to have fired one nanny. But, once you've fired three or four (or that many leave you), you have to start looking at the parents' ability to manage. You might be an awful boss.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ideally, you want your children to form secure, lasting bonds with caregivers. But, sometimes that's not possible and other needs take over.

One thing I would ask is how many nannies have left you or you've fired (and not for reasons like moving away or a dramatic change in hours)? I think it's pretty normal for families to have fired one nanny. But, once you've fired three or four (or that many leave you), you have to start looking at the parents' ability to manage. You might be an awful boss.

The biggest problem is parents who can't make up their minds about what they want:

A. A professional who knows how to do her job

OR

B. A newbie you can... and need to train.

In their dreams they think they can have both, hence the wild success of this forum.