Would you offer to help?

[Anonymous]

You and your husband need to have a serious talk asap.

You have some 34 year old woman freeloading off you, living for free with your family and charging you for her chores? That's @ss backwards.

She needs to be charged for rent and do chores for free. Instead she's milking you for whatever you've got and running off on weekend trips all the time.

Please talk with your husband before this freeloader situation ruins your family life and marriage.

[Anonymous]

This conversation is happening today as soon as she gets home.
She just messaged me today asking me for an upgrade of her phone for Christmas. (Her phone is one of the phones in our family plan).
I'm done with the entitlement. She didn't even ask if Im feeling better!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This conversation is happening today as soon as she gets home.
She just messaged me today asking me for an upgrade of her phone for Christmas. (Her phone is one of the phones in our family plan).
I'm done with the entitlement. She didn't even ask if Im feeling better!

Oh my the nerve of her. 30 lashes with a wet noodle and send her to her room with no dinner.

[Anonymous]

I still want to know. Who is watching the kids while you have spent countless hours hashing this out on DCUM???? WHO

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I still want to know. Who is watching the kids while you have spent countless hours hashing this out on DCUM???? WHO

Can't you type and watch your kids at the same time?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I still want to know. Who is watching the kids while you have spent countless hours hashing this out on DCUM???? WHO

Can't you type and watch your kids at the same time?

I sure can. I can also take a shower while my children play nicely or are placed in a pack n play. I can also rest on the couch while they play by my side. Apparently you cant do those things either.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I still want to know. Who is watching the kids while you have spent countless hours hashing this out on DCUM???? WHO

Can't you type and watch your kids at the same time?

I sure can. I can also take a shower while my children play nicely or are placed in a pack n play. I can also rest on the couch while they play by my side. Apparently you cant do those things either.

Can you do it with right after surgery too without any help? Oh wow! You're super woman! What an honor to have you here, even anonymously, your awesomeness!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I still want to know. Who is watching the kids while you have spent countless hours hashing this out on DCUM???? WHO

Can't you type and watch your kids at the same time?

I sure can. I can also take a shower while my children play nicely or are placed in a pack n play. I can also rest on the couch while they play by my side. Apparently you cant do those things either.

Can you do it with right after surgery too without any help? Oh wow! You're super woman! What an honor to have you here, even anonymously, your awesomeness!

What is the difference between after surgery or not? Do you need someone in the bathroom too washing your body? for one, I am sure you are limited on showering after surgery. Will showering take longer than normal once you can take showers? I highly doubt it. Too many woman have coped taking care of their children on their own and survived. you are just miffed because your dhs distant cousin, who is supposed to read minds, did not offer help. That is the big picture. Wait til DH gets home if you must have someone there to shower. Wait til kids are in bed. Showers are most relaxing at night just before going to bed. And no, I dont consider myself supermom. Just have my shit together and can handle my kids and everyday tasks at hand.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This conversation is happening today as soon as she gets home.
She just messaged me today asking me for an upgrade of her phone for Christmas. (Her phone is one of the phones in our family plan).
I'm done with the entitlement. She didn't even ask if Im feeling better!

Well? How did it go?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I still want to know. Who is watching the kids while you have spent countless hours hashing this out on DCUM???? WHO

Can't you type and watch your kids at the same time?

I sure can. I can also take a shower while my children play nicely or are placed in a pack n play. I can also rest on the couch while they play by my side. Apparently you cant do those things either.

Can you do it with right after surgery too without any help? Oh wow! You're super woman! What an honor to have you here, even anonymously, your awesomeness!

What is the difference between after surgery or not? Do you need someone in the bathroom too washing your body? for one, I am sure you are limited on showering after surgery. Will showering take longer than normal once you can take showers? I highly doubt it. Too many woman have coped taking care of their children on their own and survived. you are just miffed because your dhs distant cousin, who is supposed to read minds, did not offer help. That is the big picture. Wait til DH gets home if you must have someone there to shower. Wait til kids are in bed. Showers are most relaxing at night just before going to bed. And no, I dont consider myself supermom. Just have my shit together and can handle my kids and everyday tasks at hand.

Aren't you awesome and so pleasant... I guess we can see why you have to do it all on your own. Nobody wants to be around someone like you!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I still want to know. Who is watching the kids while you have spent countless hours hashing this out on DCUM???? WHO

Can't you type and watch your kids at the same time?

I sure can. I can also take a shower while my children play nicely or are placed in a pack n play. I can also rest on the couch while they play by my side. Apparently you cant do those things either.

Can you do it with right after surgery too without any help? Oh wow! You're super woman! What an honor to have you here, even anonymously, your awesomeness!

What is the difference between after surgery or not? Do you need someone in the bathroom too washing your body? for one, I am sure you are limited on showering after surgery. Will showering take longer than normal once you can take showers? I highly doubt it. Too many woman have coped taking care of their children on their own and survived. you are just miffed because your dhs distant cousin, who is supposed to read minds, did not offer help. That is the big picture. Wait til DH gets home if you must have someone there to shower. Wait til kids are in bed. Showers are most relaxing at night just before going to bed. And no, I dont consider myself supermom. Just have my shit together and can handle my kids and everyday tasks at hand.

Aren't you awesome and so pleasant... I guess we can see why you have to do it all on your own. Nobody wants to be around someone like you!

LMAO you are a hoot OP. I am sure that is your response. And no, I could have all the help I could possibly want. However I do not NEED anyone to help because I am a self sufficient person. I don't require others to cater to me or my needs.

So how did it go? The convo with your husbands distant cousin/nanny/house guest/leech/?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I still want to know. Who is watching the kids while you have spent countless hours hashing this out on DCUM???? WHO

Can't you type and watch your kids at the same time?

I sure can. I can also take a shower while my children play nicely or are placed in a pack n play. I can also rest on the couch while they play by my side. Apparently you cant do those things either.

Can you do it with right after surgery too without any help? Oh wow! You're super woman! What an honor to have you here, even anonymously, your awesomeness!

What is the difference between after surgery or not? Do you need someone in the bathroom too washing your body? for one, I am sure you are limited on showering after surgery. Will showering take longer than normal once you can take showers? I highly doubt it. Too many woman have coped taking care of their children on their own and survived. you are just miffed because your dhs distant cousin, who is supposed to read minds, did not offer help. That is the big picture. Wait til DH gets home if you must have someone there to shower. Wait til kids are in bed. Showers are most relaxing at night just before going to bed. And no, I dont consider myself supermom. Just have my shit together and can handle my kids and everyday tasks at hand.

Aren't you awesome and so pleasant... I guess we can see why you have to do it all on your own. Nobody wants to be around someone like you!

LMAO you are a hoot OP. I am sure that is your response. And no, I could have all the help I could possibly want. However I do not NEED anyone to help because I am a self sufficient person. I don't require others to cater to me or my needs.

So how did it go? The convo with your husbands distant cousin/nanny/house guest/leech/?

Are you seriously claiming you could recover from major abdominal surgery with absolutely no help with a toddler and an infant or you're just joking?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I still want to know. Who is watching the kids while you have spent countless hours hashing this out on DCUM???? WHO

Can't you type and watch your kids at the same time?

I sure can. I can also take a shower while my children play nicely or are placed in a pack n play. I can also rest on the couch while they play by my side. Apparently you cant do those things either.

Can you do it with right after surgery too without any help? Oh wow! You're super woman! What an honor to have you here, even anonymously, your awesomeness!

What is the difference between after surgery or not? Do you need someone in the bathroom too washing your body? for one, I am sure you are limited on showering after surgery. Will showering take longer than normal once you can take showers? I highly doubt it. Too many woman have coped taking care of their children on their own and survived. you are just miffed because your dhs distant cousin, who is supposed to read minds, did not offer help. That is the big picture. Wait til DH gets home if you must have someone there to shower. Wait til kids are in bed. Showers are most relaxing at night just before going to bed. And no, I dont consider myself supermom. Just have my shit together and can handle my kids and everyday tasks at hand.

Aren't you awesome and so pleasant... I guess we can see why you have to do it all on your own. Nobody wants to be around someone like you!

LMAO you are a hoot OP. I am sure that is your response. And no, I could have all the help I could possibly want. However I do not NEED anyone to help because I am a self sufficient person. I don't require others to cater to me or my needs.

So how did it go? The convo with your husbands distant cousin/nanny/house guest/leech/?

Are you seriously claiming you could recover from major abdominal surgery with absolutely no help with a toddler and an infant or you're just joking?

I can and I have. My DH helped when he could but otherwise I was on my own with 3 kids

[Anonymous]

You know it's not only stupid it's also irresponsible, right?
What if the children get into something and you need to lift them? God forbid you need to rush to the hospital with them because they got hurt or because you're not feeling ok?
This is nuts!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You know it's not only stupid it's also irresponsible, right?
What if the children get into something and you need to lift them? God forbid you need to rush to the hospital with them because they got hurt or because you're not feeling ok?
This is nuts!

LOL get off your high horse OP. this is about you, not me.

Still waiting to hear what she told you. Maybe she got smart and found some other kind of arrangement while she was gone last weekend.