| So do you all check your housekeeper's credit? |
Or the plumber? Or the cable guy? Or the electrician? Or the gardener? Or the carpet cleaners? Or the painters? Or the dog walker? Or the alarm guy? Most likely the answer is no to all of these but yes to the nanny. Ridiculous. These people have as much of an opportunity to steal. |
Do you let the plumber, cable guy, gardner, etc walk around your house unattended for 10 hours? All these things the people either stay outside or you watch them work inside and they stay in a small area. None of these are anything like a nanny. |
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Checking someone's criminal history is perfectly adequate. Credit scores are such a scam - if you pay in cash for everything or pay off your credit cards without interest every month you gain no positive credit. It tells you nothing whatsoever about the likelihood someone will steal.
I have excellent credit but I don't let employers run it. They can easily see I have a clean criminal background and zero driving offenses, not to mention my references. If that isn't enough to convince you to trust me not to steal from your home it wasn't going to work out anyway. |
I took out loans to put myself through grad school. I was young and dumb and also depended on credit cards to help me with my bills while I student taught and wasn't getting a paycheck. When I graduated I didn't find a teaching job for 2 years and worked as an aide. So yes, I was ignorant and should have been more responsible about my finances but it was several years ago and it certainly doesn't make me a bad person. I haven't even used a credit card in 4 years but it's still going to take some time to get out of the hole. It must be nice to have never made mistakes in your life. |
Exactly. How easy to be so judgmental when you've never walked in someone's shoes. Not everyone with bad credit is some deadbeat who blew all her money on iphones and vacations. |
When interviewing nannies wouldn't you rather pick someone that hasn't had a life full of mistakes and bad judgement? |
Going to grad school and then struggling to find a job are mistakes? Bad judgement? |
We'll agree to disagree. I admit that I made some bad decisions when I was 23 but luckily I've grown and learned from them. I am proud of the person I've become and fortunately I've had amazing nanny jobs with people who didn't care about my credit score. To each their own. |
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I have no problem with NFs checking my credit. But that is because I have a credit score of over 825. I'm DAMN proud of it. I had a credit score of about 600/650 3 years ago and have done my damnedest to improve the score. It has been a tough time but I am now in a spot I can work and save (like really save money) and go on trips and adventures.
I also save for the unknown. I have this job contracted for 2 more years. But then what. I don't want to be unable to pay my bills because I'm out of work. (Which by the way I am ahead on most bills- mobile they owe me $1000 cause I over pay each month, my car I am 1 year ahead on payments, my internet and cable they owe me $800, my credit cards I pay every Monday and if they let me pay extra, I do. I never leave a balance). I've been out of work, I've struggled. It sucks and I will never do that again. |
This is the type of nanny that will easily get high paying jobs with respectful families. The rest of you bitter, petty, immature nannies with horrible credit and questionable morals will be on here in a month or two posting about your MBs hating you or not being able to get good references. |
You are an idiot. |
I'm the poster in debt because of grad school. Could I have made different decisions? Of course. I did what I thought was best at the time and it ended up not working out for me. There's always going to be someone who wants to judge me or say they would have done better. That's fine. I don't get a redo. I just go up from here and believe me, it's all made me smarter and stronger. I'll never apologize for that. |
That is absolute nonsense. I have a high paying job with a respectful family, an MB (and several before her) who adores me and countless glowing references and There is now way I'd allow you to access my credit report. As for the nanny you are referencing above...don't believe everything you read. |
I'm the first poster on here. Funny how it's so easy for people to believe and feel sorry for someone with bad credit. Oh of course why would someone have a hold of their lives. That's just ridiculous. So unfathomable that a nanny can be in a good place in life. |