Men in your 50s, do you find women in their 50s attractive?

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Anonymous wrote:Some men feel threatened by a mature, confident woman who shrugs off a man who's not attracted to her. It doesn't mean she's incapable of an intense, in-love relationship. It means she's not desperate, and she doesn't care about your approval. Mind-boggling concept to some men.


This is so true. Since I am threatened by the mature, confident women, I have to settle for young, tight women. Sometimes life is cruel.


You realize we're all tight if you're not tiny, right?

Sometimes life is cruel.



No, you aren't all tight. I'm really well-endowed, and I can tell the difference.

No, you aren't sweetie. And you know it


Sadly I don't think he does know it.
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Anonymous wrote:I don’t get why everyone is arguing the attractiveness of 30 year olds vs 50 year olds. The question was do men find 50 year old women attractive.

The answer is yes. Men will have sex with almost anything that has two X chromosomes. Doesn’t matter if she’s 25 or 55, if she takes reasonable care of herself, men will gladly take them both. Know why nursing homes have high STD rates? Because people like sex and will do it regardless of how wrinkly and saggy the other person is.

It’s like when women argue over the attractiveness of curvy vs strong vs skinny. Truth is, men would bang any of them. Preferably at the same time.




I guess. But there is a difference. I don’t fantasize about the 55 year old.


I am fantasizing about a 57 year old right now. A lovely kind soul. I am giving it as much time as it takes
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Well, I'm 52. DW is 47. She's hot! So are my 40ish to 50ish female friends. So, I would say yes, but personality would have to go a long way over just looks. The looks are the hook, but if she's nasty, toxic, gossipy and shallow? No.
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Who wants a 1998 Chevy Impala when you could have a 2015 BMW 325 XI?
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Anonymous wrote:Some men feel threatened by a mature, confident woman who shrugs off a man who's not attracted to her. It doesn't mean she's incapable of an intense, in-love relationship. It means she's not desperate, and she doesn't care about your approval. Mind-boggling concept to some men.


This is so true. Since I am threatened by the mature, confident women, I have to settle for young, tight women. Sometimes life is cruel.


You realize we're all tight if you're not tiny, right?

Sometimes life is cruel.



No, you aren't all tight. I'm really well-endowed, and I can tell the difference.


Well despite being “really well endowed,” (yeah, sure grandpa ), you have no sense of humor, so you fail.

ouch!


I think I'm the grandpa of this thread and that is not me making those claims about my endowment, or commenting on anyone being tight.

BTW, I've never seen any correlation at all in tightness between older, younger, never had children, or had a few. I think I've only been with one woman who really had an issue there, like a huge issue (and sure, she could just say I have a small issue) and she never had children. Another I remember was really young and thin, when I was really young, and hadn't had any children yet. As for the rest, all but two were just average which is to say they were great. Those two, who were extraordinarily tight, both had two children. Both had a tilted uterus too so I assume there is some connection there. I could be wrong.


As a teen, now grandma-age myself, I had a friend with benefits who'd already slept with a lot of girls, and I still remember him describing how randomly some girls were roomy and some were tight, and it had nothing to do with their weight or anything else, and these were all obviously girls who hadn't had babies. Over the years, as a woman men confide in, I've often heard much the same as what you say.

I'm laughing at how many responses there are to mature women's indifference to whether men find them attractive. They're convinced such a woman has to be grumpy, a bitch, etc. They can't accept sublime indifference.
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Anonymous wrote:Some men feel threatened by a mature, confident woman who shrugs off a man who's not attracted to her. It doesn't mean she's incapable of an intense, in-love relationship. It means she's not desperate, and she doesn't care about your approval. Mind-boggling concept to some men.


This is so true. Since I am threatened by the mature, confident women, I have to settle for young, tight women. Sometimes life is cruel.


You realize we're all tight if you're not tiny, right?

Sometimes life is cruel.



No, you aren't all tight. I'm really well-endowed, and I can tell the difference.

No, you aren't sweetie. And you know it


Sadly I don't think he does know it.


I am the PP who said “life is cruel.” I just wanted to be sure that people know that the person who joked about how cruel life is NOT the same PP who said that he was well endowed. I never joke about endowment because that seems kind of middle school.
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Anonymous wrote:Some men feel threatened by a mature, confident woman who shrugs off a man who's not attracted to her. It doesn't mean she's incapable of an intense, in-love relationship. It means she's not desperate, and she doesn't care about your approval. Mind-boggling concept to some men.


This is so true. Since I am threatened by the mature, confident women, I have to settle for young, tight women. Sometimes life is cruel.


You realize we're all tight if you're not tiny, right?

Sometimes life is cruel.



No, you aren't all tight. I'm really well-endowed, and I can tell the difference.

No, you aren't sweetie. And you know it


Sadly I don't think he does know it.


I am the PP who said “life is cruel.” I just wanted to be sure that people know that the person who joked about how cruel life is NOT the same PP who said that he was well endowed. I never joke about endowment because that seems kind of middle school.


And you didn't think your comment was middle school? Maybe more high school?
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Anonymous wrote:30 is the magic number for women. It's down hill (very slowly) from there. Once they hit 40 it's like a runaway truck flying down the mountain.


BAHAHAHA! I love when people say nonsense like this.

BTW the men I've known who date younger are usually gross in general: too much tanning bed, an immature "dude" attitude that doesn't suit, sex insecurities, or want to be hero worshipped because their egos are fragile.

Mature men worth their salt generally have no issue dating women 50+.


I’m a 61 YO man & I agree with you.
Harvey Weinstein is a perfect example.

Trump is another good example.


Perfect examples of what? Weinstein, and in a better world Trump, are not in trouble for dating younger women. They are in trouble for harassing women. Very different. Harassment is wrong, period. Age (of an adult) has nothing to do with it.

? Did you post on the wrong thread, or maybe you have reading comprehension skills. They are perfect examples of old men dating young women because of the bolded above.. this part "too much tanning bed, an immature "dude" attitude that doesn't suit, sex insecurities, or want to be hero worshipped because their egos are fragile".


I don’t get it. You’re saying that Weinstein is all over news because of the women that he dared? I don’t think so. Who cares who Harvey Weinstein dated?. I don’t have any idea as to whom he dated. The news reports talked about the women that he sexually harassed, not the women he dated.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some men feel threatened by a mature, confident woman who shrugs off a man who's not attracted to her. It doesn't mean she's incapable of an intense, in-love relationship. It means she's not desperate, and she doesn't care about your approval. Mind-boggling concept to some men.


This is so true. Since I am threatened by the mature, confident women, I have to settle for young, tight women. Sometimes life is cruel.


You realize we're all tight if you're not tiny, right?

Sometimes life is cruel.



No, you aren't all tight. I'm really well-endowed, and I can tell the difference.

No, you aren't sweetie. And you know it


Sadly I don't think he does know it.


I am the PP who said “life is cruel.” I just wanted to be sure that people know that the person who joked about how cruel life is NOT the same PP who said that he was well endowed. I never joke about endowment because that seems kind of middle school.


And you didn't think your comment was middle school? Maybe more high school?


Absolutely. After I typed it, I found it. And what a find it was!
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some men feel threatened by a mature, confident woman who shrugs off a man who's not attracted to her. It doesn't mean she's incapable of an intense, in-love relationship. It means she's not desperate, and she doesn't care about your approval. Mind-boggling concept to some men.


This is so true. Since I am threatened by the mature, confident women, I have to settle for young, tight women. Sometimes life is cruel.


You realize we're all tight if you're not tiny, right?

Sometimes life is cruel.



No, you aren't all tight. I'm really well-endowed, and I can tell the difference.


Well despite being “really well endowed,” (yeah, sure grandpa ), you have no sense of humor, so you fail.

ouch!


I think I'm the grandpa of this thread and that is not me making those claims about my endowment, or commenting on anyone being tight.

BTW, I've never seen any correlation at all in tightness between older, younger, never had children, or had a few. I think I've only been with one woman who really had an issue there, like a huge issue (and sure, she could just say I have a small issue) and she never had children. Another I remember was really young and thin, when I was really young, and hadn't had any children yet. As for the rest, all but two were just average which is to say they were great. Those two, who were extraordinarily tight, both had two children. Both had a tilted uterus too so I assume there is some connection there. I could be wrong.


As a teen, now grandma-age myself, I had a friend with benefits who'd already slept with a lot of girls, and I still remember him describing how randomly some girls were roomy and some were tight, and it had nothing to do with their weight or anything else, and these were all obviously girls who hadn't had babies. Over the years, as a woman men confide in, I've often heard much the same as what you say.

I'm laughing at how many responses there are to mature women's indifference to whether men find them attractive. They're convinced such a woman has to be grumpy, a bitch, etc. They can't accept sublime indifference.


Because acknowledging indifference would, by corollary, mean acknowledging that men aren't the center of the universe and don't necessarily hold all the power in sexual selection.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some men feel threatened by a mature, confident woman who shrugs off a man who's not attracted to her. It doesn't mean she's incapable of an intense, in-love relationship. It means she's not desperate, and she doesn't care about your approval. Mind-boggling concept to some men.


This is so true. Since I am threatened by the mature, confident women, I have to settle for young, tight women. Sometimes life is cruel.


You realize we're all tight if you're not tiny, right?

Sometimes life is cruel.



No, you aren't all tight. I'm really well-endowed, and I can tell the difference.


Well despite being “really well endowed,” (yeah, sure grandpa ), you have no sense of humor, so you fail.

ouch!


I think I'm the grandpa of this thread and that is not me making those claims about my endowment, or commenting on anyone being tight.

BTW, I've never seen any correlation at all in tightness between older, younger, never had children, or had a few. I think I've only been with one woman who really had an issue there, like a huge issue (and sure, she could just say I have a small issue) and she never had children. Another I remember was really young and thin, when I was really young, and hadn't had any children yet. As for the rest, all but two were just average which is to say they were great. Those two, who were extraordinarily tight, both had two children. Both had a tilted uterus too so I assume there is some connection there. I could be wrong.


As a teen, now grandma-age myself, I had a friend with benefits who'd already slept with a lot of girls, and I still remember him describing how randomly some girls were roomy and some were tight, and it had nothing to do with their weight or anything else, and these were all obviously girls who hadn't had babies. Over the years, as a woman men confide in, I've often heard much the same as what you say.

I'm laughing at how many responses there are to mature women's indifference to whether men find them attractive. They're convinced such a woman has to be grumpy, a bitch, etc. They can't accept sublime indifference.


Because acknowledging indifference would, by corollary, mean acknowledging that men aren't the center of the universe and don't necessarily hold all the power in sexual selection.


Or that because women go on and on and on about how indifferent they are, maybe they aren’t so indifferent.
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I'm laughing at how many responses there are to mature women's indifference to whether men find them attractive. They're convinced such a woman has to be grumpy, a bitch, etc. They can't accept sublime indifference.


No, we don't understand why, if you're sufficiently indifferent to men, a) you're on a relationship forum, and b) you're writing in a thread entitled "Men, do you find women your own age attractive". Go do something without men, or our approval, or whatever you have no interest in.
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Anonymous wrote:61 yo man. Sorry but 40s is the age I look to date. Very few woman I've seen hold up well into their 50s and past menopause.


I’m a 42yr old woman. The idea of dating someone 20 yrs older than me seems odd. I think of the long term. When I’m 62, you’d be 81. Do you find many 40 yr old women to date?


40 year old woman here and I was just thinking the same thing. 61 is too old for me. My limit would be about 53, but preferably 40-45.

I am 47 female, and I would not date a 60+ year old unless he looked much younger, around 50 (maybe). My DH is in his early 50's, but looks a bit younger. He's got a bit of a belly but other than that is in pretty good shape. I am a size 4 and am about the same weight as when I got married in my early 30's.

The only way a 60+ yr old man can get a 40 yr old woman is:

1. he has lots and lots of money
2. he is very fit and looks much younger than 60
3. the woman is very very desperate


I know you want to believe that but you are so wrong.

Really? Well since this is an anonymous forum I suppose you could lie and tell me some story that "proves" me wrong. As I said, I'm 47.. I have many female friends who are my age and no way would they date a 60 yr old who weren't either #1 or #2, and none of my friends are that desperate.

OK, so your friends are not who I'm going to date. But as for #1, it's nice to know that you would all whore yourself out for the right guy, no matter his age. Some of you sound threatened that an older man like myself dates younger women in part for their better looks as if that's bad thing to choose when given the choice, or it's somehow immoral. But at least I'm choosing someone based on who she is, which includes other factors than looks. But your friends would date a man they would never choose if he has lots of money? Wow, that's really sad.

OH, please, you are choosing a younger woman because of her physical attributes mostly. That makes you shallow. How is that any worse than a woman choosing a man because he is able to financially support her and her children? I bet if an older woman had a better personality and other non physical attributes that were better than the younger, more attractive woman, you'd still pick the younger woman simply because of her looks. You are shallow. Just admit it. I don't care if you date only younger woman. I'm just informing you that no 40 year old woman would date a 60 yr old man unless the situation was one of the three.


I don’t understand why someone is shallow for wanting a person with certain physical attributes. That would make one shallow if that’s how he chose whom to hire or even befriend, but that doesn’t have anything to do with which people attract us. We can choose whom to hire or whom to befriend, but we can’t choose what people we are attracted to. Attraction just is what it is.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Who wants a 1998 Chevy Impala when you could have a 2015 BMW 325 XI?


But when you yourself are a 1998 Chevy Impala with dents, what Beemer hottie is checking that out?
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