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Anonymous wrote:There was a study done...men think about sex 19 times a day, women 10.

They also found men think about food more often than women.

I think if they expanded the study they would find men think about a lot of useless shit and don't think about important shot most of the time. Women are too busy being responsible for everything to think about useless shit.

Interesting about the study: it was done on college kids. I am not surprised college men think about sex only 2x as much as college women.

A really interesting study would be the rate that fathers vs. mothers think about sex, especially with kids around. In my house, the ratio would be 10x as many for dad.

I agree. But if the father actually did everything the mom did, they might even out. Not chores, but the planning. Plan the grocery list, plan the birthday party, plan the weekend event, plan the vacation, stuff that actually requires thought. Keep up the calendar.

Blah blah blah. My DH does that stuff (well, some of it). I agree that women do more, but what the hey, this was off topic and not about why you think about sex X number of times a day (x#x/day) but just how many.

Blah.Blah.Blah.... read the study, yes, women think about more important things all day, therefore they think about sex, food, etc less.

It's not biology it is situational.

Today I learned that birthday party planning is more important than food and sex.

Anonymous wrote:Frequently.

-woman, 31 (who doesn't have sex with cheater husband and is postpartum )

Anonymous wrote:Man here. I think about sex every time I see a woman who looks "do-able"
In other words, about every 30 minutes.

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Anonymous wrote:There was a study done...men think about sex 19 times a day, women 10.

They also found men think about food more often than women.

I think if they expanded the study they would find men think about a lot of useless shit and don't think about important shot most of the time. Women are too busy being responsible for everything to think about useless shit.

Interesting about the study: it was done on college kids. I am not surprised college men think about sex only 2x as much as college women.

A really interesting study would be the rate that fathers vs. mothers think about sex, especially with kids around. In my house, the ratio would be 10x as many for dad.

I agree. But if the father actually did everything the mom did, they might even out. Not chores, but the planning. Plan the grocery list, plan the birthday party, plan the weekend event, plan the vacation, stuff that actually requires thought. Keep up the calendar.

Blah blah blah. My DH does that stuff (well, some of it). I agree that women do more, but what the hey, this was off topic and not about why you think about sex X number of times a day (x#x/day) but just how many.

Blah.Blah.Blah.... read the study, yes, women think about more important things all day, therefore they think about sex, food, etc less.

It's not biology it is situational.

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. I think about sex every time I see a woman who looks "do-able"
In other words, about every 30 minutes.

What happens when you see a woman who is "do-able"? Do you imagine her in sexual situations?

That's...very unsettling.

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. I think about sex every time I see a woman who looks "do-able"
In other words, about every 30 minutes.

What happens when you see a woman who is "do-able"? Do you imagine her in sexual situations?

That's...very unsettling.

New PP, yes, men think sexual thoughts about every woman who is doable. It could be a sexual situation, it could be admiration for a body part. Surely this doesn't surprise you?

Anonymous wrote:Male, 53. I never stop thinking about sex. I'm thinking about having sex with some of the posters in this thread right now.

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. I think about sex every time I see a woman who looks "do-able"
In other words, about every 30 minutes.

What happens when you see a woman who is "do-able"? Do you imagine her in sexual situations?

That's...very unsettling.

New PP, yes, men think sexual thoughts about every woman who is doable. It could be a sexual situation, it could be admiration for a body part. Surely this doesn't surprise you?

It does surprise me. It sounds exhausting. Is this like a mini porn film for every hot woman?

Anonymous wrote:Man here. I think about sex every time I see a woman who looks "do-able"
In other words, about every 30 minutes.

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. I think about sex every time I see a woman who looks "do-able"
In other words, about every 30 minutes.

What happens when you see a woman who is "do-able"? Do you imagine her in sexual situations?

That's...very unsettling.

New PP, yes, men think sexual thoughts about every woman who is doable. It could be a sexual situation, it could be admiration for a body part. Surely this doesn't surprise you?

It does surprise me. It sounds exhausting. Is this like a mini porn film for every hot woman?

It's not that long of a thought. If you are passing her on the street, it's more like a second or two. Not long enough for a mini porn film, more like a gif. Now, when stuck in a meeting with an attractive woman, it's like a porn film, plus the sequel. And the post-script.

It's not really exhausting, it's more fun. It's not really controllable, any more than you could control your mouth watering at the sight of your favorite dessert when hungry.

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. I think about sex every time I see a woman who looks "do-able"
In other words, about every 30 minutes.

What happens when you see a woman who is "do-able"? Do you imagine her in sexual situations?

That's...very unsettling.

New PP, yes, men think sexual thoughts about every woman who is doable. It could be a sexual situation, it could be admiration for a body part. Surely this doesn't surprise you?

It does surprise me. It sounds exhausting. Is this like a mini porn film for every hot woman?

It's not that long of a thought. If you are passing her on the street, it's more like a second or two. Not long enough for a mini porn film, more like a gif. Now, when stuck in a meeting with an attractive woman, it's like a porn film, plus the sequel. And the post-script.

It's not really exhausting, it's more fun. It's not really controllable, any more than you could control your mouth watering at the sight of your favorite dessert when hungry.

But I really don't understand. For me to imagine seeing a visual scenario in front of me, i would really have to think on it. I would have to take a moment to picture it in my mind and it would take me out of everything I was doing. Is it like that? It just seems strange to me to have this OTHER movie playing in your head so often

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. I think about sex every time I see a woman who looks "do-able"
In other words, about every 30 minutes.

What happens when you see a woman who is "do-able"? Do you imagine her in sexual situations?

That's...very unsettling.

New PP, yes, men think sexual thoughts about every woman who is doable. It could be a sexual situation, it could be admiration for a body part. Surely this doesn't surprise you?

It does surprise me. It sounds exhausting. Is this like a mini porn film for every hot woman?