How often do you think about sex? Men vs. women

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She doesn't have to be that hot.

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I saw hot firefighters at Dupont Metro last week. I heard the song, "Fire" and imagined them. I was thinking about sex then. There are so many obese dad bods, that I have to see some muscles on men to think about sex.

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Anonymous wrote:Man here. I think about sex every time I see a woman who looks "do-able"
In other words, about every 30 minutes.

What happens when you see a woman who is "do-able"? Do you imagine her in sexual situations?

That's...very unsettling.

New PP, yes, men think sexual thoughts about every woman who is doable. It could be a sexual situation, it could be admiration for a body part. Surely this doesn't surprise you?

It does surprise me. It sounds exhausting. Is this like a mini porn film for every hot woman?

It's not that long of a thought. If you are passing her on the street, it's more like a second or two. Not long enough for a mini porn film, more like a gif. Now, when stuck in a meeting with an attractive woman, it's like a porn film, plus the sequel. And the post-script.

It's not really exhausting, it's more fun. It's not really controllable, any more than you could control your mouth watering at the sight of your favorite dessert when hungry.

But I really don't understand. For me to imagine seeing a visual scenario in front of me, i would really have to think on it. I would have to take a moment to picture it in my mind and it would take me out of everything I was doing. Is it like that? It just seems strange to me to have this OTHER movie playing in your head so often

I'm a woman, 30s. I visualize sex scenarios all the time. It's sort of on the back burner of my subconscious and I can choose how much attention I give it, usually. But work meetings are the worst. I can. not. concentrate.

[Anonymous]

I know what you mean PP.
Meetings are definitely the worst when you imagine your boss naked when all he is doing is sitting there discussing the annual budget.

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It must suck to have so much of your brainpower tied up in sex. Sounds absolutely exhausting.

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Fun actually PP and makes the day more exciting.

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Anonymous wrote:It must suck to have so much of your brainpower tied up in sex. Sounds absolutely exhausting.

And that's before we get into the ridiculous number of sperm we have to produce every day. You guys pop out what, one egg a month? Guys are producing on the order of 100 million sperm per day. So, don't call us lazy, ladies!

[Anonymous]

46 woman and my crazy hormones have me thinking about sex a lot lately! Its been like a wave. Same thing happened in my early 30s although I don't think it was hormone related then...Going with it. DH is happy.