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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here. I think about sex every time I see a woman who looks "do-able"
In other words, about every 30 minutes.[/quote]

What happens when you see a woman who is "do-able"?  Do you imagine her in sexual situations?

That's...very unsettling. [/quote]

New PP, yes, men think sexual thoughts about every woman who is doable.  It could be a sexual situation, it could be admiration for a body part.  Surely this doesn't surprise you?[/quote]

It does surprise me. It sounds exhausting.  Is this like a mini porn film for every hot woman?[/quote]

It's not that long of a thought.  If you are passing her on the street, it's more like a second or two.  Not long enough for a mini porn film, more like a gif.  Now, when stuck in a meeting with an attractive woman, it's like a porn film, plus the sequel.  And the post-script.

It's not really exhausting, it's more fun.  It's not really controllable, any more than you could control your mouth watering at the sight of your favorite dessert when hungry.[/quote]

But I really don't understand.  For me to imagine seeing a visual scenario in front of me, i would really have to think on it.  I would have to take a moment to picture it in my mind and it would take me out of everything I was doing.  Is it like that?  It just seems strange to me to have this OTHER movie playing in your head so often [/quote]

I'm a woman. I don't get the visuals like men do but I have a lot of random sexual thoughts. It's just in passing, like something that pops in your head. It's not the main event. You know how you can be having a conversation or doing something important, and you remember you need to add butter to your shopping list so the kids can make cookies tomorrow night, or that Larlo needs new dress pants for his band concert? You don't stop the conversation or whatever you're doing, you just file it away and go on about your business. It's sort of in the background, big enough to notice it but not overwhelming enough to shut anything else down. It's sort of a flash, then it's gone, until someone else strikes my fancy. [/quote]

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