Men- Why do you sleep with married women?
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Anonymous
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Wow, really people?
The reason men sleep with married women is so that they get sex with no headache and no pushing for commitment. Hello! That is far and away the biggest reason. So don't kid yourself ladies, it's not because you're a "conquest." Unhappily married women are known to be the easiest lays and most desperate (i.e. require least amount of effort). |
Anonymous
| Does anyone here think the man should be chastised as breaking up a family and destroying a marriage? |
novaguy
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Of course he should, but that wasn't the question in the OP. The question was "why?" |
Anonymous
Yeah, it's a pretty nasty thing to do, but I still feel more visceral bad feelings towards a woman who cheats with a married man. Probably because I am a woman, and if another person knowingly impinged on my territory I would find a way to inflict some pretty terrible revenge. Yes, of course I'd be mad at my DH too, but he wouldn't have been the one who tried to "compete" with me so to speak, so the feeling is different. In any case, playing a role in breaking down a family is lousy, regardless of gender. |
Anonymous
Sure honey. You can get boinked whenever you want while I have to work at it. |
Anonymous
This is probably the #1 reason, Op. Maybe there is something to that whole marriage thing after all, haha. |
Anonymous
You need to offer the man a million dollars to sleep with his wife. |
Anonymous
| The only time I've done it was in a Bull type scenario. The DH was present. |
Anonymous
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She has an open marriage.
Another has a don't ask/don't tell policy when traveling. I don't want commitment (been there done that), but sex is great. |
Anonymous
| I'm a woman. I'd assume it mostly the conquest and getting milk someone else paid for. That said, when we were unhappily married, my ex-Husband started an emotional affair with an old friend who he reunited with on FB. She was married unhappily herself. After we separated, he flew across the country twice to sleep with her. I think he was hoping for instant second wife and thought that he could see that she was a good mom and kept a nice home. It didn't work out because she refused to leave her DH. At that point, there was some stalking and blackmail attempts which revealed the whole thing to everyone. |
Anonymous
No, he's just the one who has any intimate connection to you, and made vows of fidelity. Just those little things. |
Anonymous
+1. I had sex with married women when I was single. I was indifferent to them being married. I was only interested in the fact they were women willing to have sex with me. All else being equal, I would have preferred they be single so they would have been available to sleep over for morning sex. |
Anonymous
You didn't destroy the marriage. It was already dead, or she wouldn't agree to sleep with you. She stopped being attracted to her husband, for whatever reason, and that opened the door for another man to take his place. |
Anonymous
OP here, my husband gets laid 3 to 5 times a week! He does not need to pay me! I enjoy sex with him 
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Anonymous
OP here, sorry my DH is lactose intolerant.... |