Men- Why do you sleep with married women?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:“Other man” here: I’ve played with probably a dozen married/partnered women over the years. In most cases, the woman had her spouse’s blessing (including one woman who was in a lesbian marriage).

The married woman playing solo:
The upside? Married women are completely uninhibited. They want to experiment in the bedroom in ways that does not interest their spouse. This often involves exploring kink & bdsm for the first time. They are ready to shed their “wife” persona when they walk through that door and just want a carnal experience with no drama. They are highly discreet and don’t want their kinky life and their vanilla life to cross paths. Women playing like this often complain about potential men being too needy, texting too much, etc. Great potential for consistent, ongoing fun if you’re a chill guy who is great in bed.

The Cheating Wife:
A few were cheating and I made a conscious attempt to keep the conversation away from their domestic life. They are looking for an escape. Often in dead bedroom marriages and there’s a lack of respect for the husband. They are cheating because they are sticking around for the kids or in a financially vulnerable situation. This one is tough - high chance of her catching feelings or bringing some drama into your life. I tend to see them 1-3x and then end things. They get weird easily. Tread carefully.

The Vixen & Stag:
In this dynamic, the husband freely shares his wife with another man. But he’s not a cuckold - he is confident that she will return to him. He just wants her to experience the maximum amount of pleasure and have her enjoy being the center of attention. He will both watch and participate in the action. Tbh, this is a really fun and hot dynamic as both of them are eagerly participating. I’ve found these couples to be pretty healthy from a relationship perspective and the most “normal”. The guys have all been straight and it truly is about giving the wife a wild night and fulfilling her fantasies. In these cases, the couple usually also have experience bringing in another woman in the bedroom too.

The Hotwife & Cuck:
This is the scenario where the husband enjoys being humiliated. He might watch, or be forced to sit in an adjoining room and listen to her playtime. Tbh these scenarios have a lot of latent/repressed homosexuality or even outright bisexual play. Have tried a few of these scenarios in the past and they always end up a bit weird. The couples who do this are almost always religious and politically conservative; it comes out in the conversation before & after. These situations are a lot more focused on the male cuck and his fantasy; he’s topping from the bottom (so to speak). In most of these cases the husband tries for years to get his wife to go along with his fantasy; eventually she ends up either REALLY loving it or divorces him. Not a ton of middle ground imho as it’s a pretty extreme fantasy.

Oh my. This is sooo accurate. I won’t say where I fit in. But I’ve played in at least two of these.

Question though, do you ever catch feelings for these women or Nate you able to just do it without care?

PP here: never caught truly romantic feelings. It was mostly lust. But there were cases where it turned into a real friendship with repeated encounters. In the vast majority of the cases the women made it clear that they were looking to scratch an itch and not upset their current life. Most important thing is that they wanted a no-drama guy who was not going to ask for more; that may be even more important than the sex itself.

I’m pretty easily able to compartmentalize romance and sex. I’ve also respected all of these women - I like that they seize their sexuality.

Finally someone who gets it. 👏

Stupid whores. Ex’s AP was desperate not to get caught since she never worked. Dumb beatch got caught and lost everything, house, kids, etc. Not all are meticulous planners like pp suggests. Some cheat more and more and get a false sense of security, boldness that they are too smart to ever get caught

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“Other man” here: I’ve played with probably a dozen married/partnered women over the years. In most cases, the woman had her spouse’s blessing (including one woman who was in a lesbian marriage).

The married woman playing solo:
The upside? Married women are completely uninhibited. They want to experiment in the bedroom in ways that does not interest their spouse. This often involves exploring kink & bdsm for the first time. They are ready to shed their “wife” persona when they walk through that door and just want a carnal experience with no drama. They are highly discreet and don’t want their kinky life and their vanilla life to cross paths. Women playing like this often complain about potential men being too needy, texting too much, etc. Great potential for consistent, ongoing fun if you’re a chill guy who is great in bed.

The Cheating Wife:
A few were cheating and I made a conscious attempt to keep the conversation away from their domestic life. They are looking for an escape. Often in dead bedroom marriages and there’s a lack of respect for the husband. They are cheating because they are sticking around for the kids or in a financially vulnerable situation. This one is tough - high chance of her catching feelings or bringing some drama into your life. I tend to see them 1-3x and then end things. They get weird easily. Tread carefully.

The Vixen & Stag:
In this dynamic, the husband freely shares his wife with another man. But he’s not a cuckold - he is confident that she will return to him. He just wants her to experience the maximum amount of pleasure and have her enjoy being the center of attention. He will both watch and participate in the action. Tbh, this is a really fun and hot dynamic as both of them are eagerly participating. I’ve found these couples to be pretty healthy from a relationship perspective and the most “normal”. The guys have all been straight and it truly is about giving the wife a wild night and fulfilling her fantasies. In these cases, the couple usually also have experience bringing in another woman in the bedroom too.

The Hotwife & Cuck:
This is the scenario where the husband enjoys being humiliated. He might watch, or be forced to sit in an adjoining room and listen to her playtime. Tbh these scenarios have a lot of latent/repressed homosexuality or even outright bisexual play. Have tried a few of these scenarios in the past and they always end up a bit weird. The couples who do this are almost always religious and politically conservative; it comes out in the conversation before & after. These situations are a lot more focused on the male cuck and his fantasy; he’s topping from the bottom (so to speak). In most of these cases the husband tries for years to get his wife to go along with his fantasy; eventually she ends up either REALLY loving it or divorces him. Not a ton of middle ground imho as it’s a pretty extreme fantasy.

Oh my. This is sooo accurate. I won’t say where I fit in. But I’ve played in at least two of these.

Question though, do you ever catch feelings for these women or Nate you able to just do it without care?

PP here: never caught truly romantic feelings. It was mostly lust. But there were cases where it turned into a real friendship with repeated encounters. In the vast majority of the cases the women made it clear that they were looking to scratch an itch and not upset their current life. Most important thing is that they wanted a no-drama guy who was not going to ask for more; that may be even more important than the sex itself.

I’m pretty easily able to compartmentalize romance and sex. I’ve also respected all of these women - I like that they seize their sexuality.

Finally someone who gets it. 👏

Stupid whores. Ex’s AP was desperate not to get caught since she never worked. Dumb beatch got caught and lost everything, house, kids, etc. Not all are meticulous planners like pp suggests. Some cheat more and more and get a false sense of security, boldness that they are too smart to ever get caught

You are living with her now, I hope?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“Other man” here: I’ve played with probably a dozen married/partnered women over the years. In most cases, the woman had her spouse’s blessing (including one woman who was in a lesbian marriage).

The married woman playing solo:
The upside? Married women are completely uninhibited. They want to experiment in the bedroom in ways that does not interest their spouse. This often involves exploring kink & bdsm for the first time. They are ready to shed their “wife” persona when they walk through that door and just want a carnal experience with no drama. They are highly discreet and don’t want their kinky life and their vanilla life to cross paths. Women playing like this often complain about potential men being too needy, texting too much, etc. Great potential for consistent, ongoing fun if you’re a chill guy who is great in bed.

The Cheating Wife:
A few were cheating and I made a conscious attempt to keep the conversation away from their domestic life. They are looking for an escape. Often in dead bedroom marriages and there’s a lack of respect for the husband. They are cheating because they are sticking around for the kids or in a financially vulnerable situation. This one is tough - high chance of her catching feelings or bringing some drama into your life. I tend to see them 1-3x and then end things. They get weird easily. Tread carefully.

The Vixen & Stag:
In this dynamic, the husband freely shares his wife with another man. But he’s not a cuckold - he is confident that she will return to him. He just wants her to experience the maximum amount of pleasure and have her enjoy being the center of attention. He will both watch and participate in the action. Tbh, this is a really fun and hot dynamic as both of them are eagerly participating. I’ve found these couples to be pretty healthy from a relationship perspective and the most “normal”. The guys have all been straight and it truly is about giving the wife a wild night and fulfilling her fantasies. In these cases, the couple usually also have experience bringing in another woman in the bedroom too.

The Hotwife & Cuck:
This is the scenario where the husband enjoys being humiliated. He might watch, or be forced to sit in an adjoining room and listen to her playtime. Tbh these scenarios have a lot of latent/repressed homosexuality or even outright bisexual play. Have tried a few of these scenarios in the past and they always end up a bit weird. The couples who do this are almost always religious and politically conservative; it comes out in the conversation before & after. These situations are a lot more focused on the male cuck and his fantasy; he’s topping from the bottom (so to speak). In most of these cases the husband tries for years to get his wife to go along with his fantasy; eventually she ends up either REALLY loving it or divorces him. Not a ton of middle ground imho as it’s a pretty extreme fantasy.

Oh my. This is sooo accurate. I won’t say where I fit in. But I’ve played in at least two of these.

Question though, do you ever catch feelings for these women or Nate you able to just do it without care?

PP here: never caught truly romantic feelings. It was mostly lust. But there were cases where it turned into a real friendship with repeated encounters. In the vast majority of the cases the women made it clear that they were looking to scratch an itch and not upset their current life. Most important thing is that they wanted a no-drama guy who was not going to ask for more; that may be even more important than the sex itself.

I’m pretty easily able to compartmentalize romance and sex. I’ve also respected all of these women - I like that they seize their sexuality.

Finally someone who gets it. 👏

I agree. I have railed a few of you married w**res and it was the best. Nastiest sex ever no condoms creampies you name it

[Anonymous]

Well, there is no need for anyone to answer or comment on anything you write, since you have all the answers. Read the poster below you for some actual insight. Take care.

Hi. I think you mean "Read the post below yours" rather than "Read the poster below you." Unless you mean that something is written on the body of the person posting the post.

Please take care as well.

[Anonymous]

Because we get the trashy/fun woman, while she can continue to be a biatch to her actual husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“Other man” here: I’ve played with probably a dozen married/partnered women over the years. In most cases, the woman had her spouse’s blessing (including one woman who was in a lesbian marriage).

The married woman playing solo:
The upside? Married women are completely uninhibited. They want to experiment in the bedroom in ways that does not interest their spouse. This often involves exploring kink & bdsm for the first time. They are ready to shed their “wife” persona when they walk through that door and just want a carnal experience with no drama. They are highly discreet and don’t want their kinky life and their vanilla life to cross paths. Women playing like this often complain about potential men being too needy, texting too much, etc. Great potential for consistent, ongoing fun if you’re a chill guy who is great in bed.

The Cheating Wife:
A few were cheating and I made a conscious attempt to keep the conversation away from their domestic life. They are looking for an escape. Often in dead bedroom marriages and there’s a lack of respect for the husband. They are cheating because they are sticking around for the kids or in a financially vulnerable situation. This one is tough - high chance of her catching feelings or bringing some drama into your life. I tend to see them 1-3x and then end things. They get weird easily. Tread carefully.

The Vixen & Stag:
In this dynamic, the husband freely shares his wife with another man. But he’s not a cuckold - he is confident that she will return to him. He just wants her to experience the maximum amount of pleasure and have her enjoy being the center of attention. He will both watch and participate in the action. Tbh, this is a really fun and hot dynamic as both of them are eagerly participating. I’ve found these couples to be pretty healthy from a relationship perspective and the most “normal”. The guys have all been straight and it truly is about giving the wife a wild night and fulfilling her fantasies. In these cases, the couple usually also have experience bringing in another woman in the bedroom too.

The Hotwife & Cuck:
This is the scenario where the husband enjoys being humiliated. He might watch, or be forced to sit in an adjoining room and listen to her playtime. Tbh these scenarios have a lot of latent/repressed homosexuality or even outright bisexual play. Have tried a few of these scenarios in the past and they always end up a bit weird. The couples who do this are almost always religious and politically conservative; it comes out in the conversation before & after. These situations are a lot more focused on the male cuck and his fantasy; he’s topping from the bottom (so to speak). In most of these cases the husband tries for years to get his wife to go along with his fantasy; eventually she ends up either REALLY loving it or divorces him. Not a ton of middle ground imho as it’s a pretty extreme fantasy.

Oh my. This is sooo accurate. I won’t say where I fit in. But I’ve played in at least two of these.

Question though, do you ever catch feelings for these women or Nate you able to just do it without care?

PP here: never caught truly romantic feelings. It was mostly lust. But there were cases where it turned into a real friendship with repeated encounters. In the vast majority of the cases the women made it clear that they were looking to scratch an itch and not upset their current life. Most important thing is that they wanted a no-drama guy who was not going to ask for more; that may be even more important than the sex itself.

I’m pretty easily able to compartmentalize romance and sex. I’ve also respected all of these women - I like that they seize their sexuality.

Finally someone who gets it. 👏

I agree. I have railed a few of you married w**res and it was the best. Nastiest sex ever no condoms creampies you name it

It's so true. Anything goes!!

[Anonymous]

Most of the times I’ve been with a married woman it was a hotwife/cuck kind of thing. It seems that this usually starts as the guy’s fantasy but the wife is into it too. Its been great for all parties involved in my experience.

The few that I slept with that weren’t in this arrangement were great in bed but seemed like they were done with being married and actively trying to blow their marriage up. I never hung out with them more than a few times.

[Anonymous]

Because I am putting my seed in another man’s bish, it’s that simple.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Because I am putting my seed in another man’s bish, it’s that simple.

Savage!