Men- Why do you sleep with married women?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH here: I don't, and have never been unfaithful, but the idea of taking another man's wife is certainly erotic. I suspect that is a common feeling.

I'm female, 44, happily married 18 years. After a lot of indecision, I recently slept with another man. Although he was a complete gentleman, and very focused, I did feel him taking another man's wife was a big deal for him. Sort of an alpha male conquest thing.

Was it good for you too? Or do you feel like he got more out of it than you did?

[Anonymous]

It doesn’t cost me anything. Pump and dump

Don’t have to spend money on dinners or gifts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have an AP and I am a married women. My AP is not married and I always wonder why he does not want to be with a single lady...I am posting because I saw the other thread where the question was asked of women sleeping with married men. Wondering if there are men who also do what my AP is doing and why?

I sleep with married women. Why? It’s just $ex. We both get our needs fulfilled and go our separate ways. Some women want my number and do call when they have a need, some are just happy with a ONS and that’s all they want. I’ve been told I do things to them that their husband won’t do. 🤷‍♂️

My man 🤤....how big is your shlong playboy

[Anonymous]

novaguy wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only married women I have had sex with I had the consent of the husband to do so.

OP here, that is hot! I wish I had the consent of my DH, haha

I would give my DW consent if she asked.

I’m not at all surprised to see this here 🤣🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

If a man sleeps with a married woman he pursued her. If a woman sleeps with a married man he still pursued her. Good to be a woman you can honestly get your cake and eat it too. In either case you can blame the man and get away with it lol.

[Anonymous]

I'm female, 44, happily married 18 years. After a lot of indecision, I recently slept with another man. Although he was a complete gentleman, and very focused, I did feel him taking another man's wife was a big deal for him. Sort of an alpha male conquest thing.

How is he an alpha if your DH does not know he (the AP) is taking you? An alpha would not hide in the shadows or under a bed like the beta your AP is. Your mistake is thinking you are some prize your AP won when someone who would cheat on their DH of 18 years is no prize (and of no value outside of a quick and easy moment like the one you had.)

If there is any conquest here, it is him conquering you. He found a willing toy with no self-esteem to treat as he liked. When he talks about you with his friends, he brags about what he did to you while they laugh.

However, if you were to ask him and the men in his friend group if they think he conquered your DH by having you, they would say they pitied your DH for having chosen you for a wife. How I know? Because I was an honorless man with several women, just like your AP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I'm female, 44, happily married 18 years. After a lot of indecision, I recently slept with another man. Although he was a complete gentleman, and very focused, I did feel him taking another man's wife was a big deal for him. Sort of an alpha male conquest thing.

How is he an alpha if your DH does not know he (the AP) is taking you? An alpha would not hide in the shadows or under a bed like the beta your AP is. Your mistake is thinking you are some prize your AP won when someone who would cheat on their DH of 18 years is no prize (and of no value outside of a quick and easy moment like the one you had.)

If there is any conquest here, it is him conquering you. He found a willing toy with no self-esteem to treat as he liked. When he talks about you with his friends, he brags about what he did to you while they laugh.

However, if you were to ask him and the men in his friend group if they think he conquered your DH by having you, they would say they pitied your DH for having chosen you for a wife. How I know? Because I was an honorless man with several women, just like your AP.

How old are you now? Are you married now? Curious and not pp.

[Anonymous]

How old are you now?

60

Are you married now?

Yes. I divorced when I was 53 and married again when I was 56.

Curious and not pp.

[Anonymous]

I never did when I was single, but had opportunities. The main draw for me was they were frequently the ones with the body type i prefer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I never did when I was single, but had opportunities. The main draw for me was they were frequently the ones with the body type i prefer.

Had ample opportunities as well. They were willing to do anything sexual.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have an AP and I am a married women. My AP is not married and I always wonder why he does not want to be with a single lady...I am posting because I saw the other thread where the question was asked of women sleeping with married men. Wondering if there are men who also do what my AP is doing and why?

I sleep with married women. Why? It’s just $ex. We both get our needs fulfilled and go our separate ways. Some women want my number and do call when they have a need, some are just happy with a ONS and that’s all they want. I’ve been told I do things to them that their husband won’t do. 🤷‍♂️

My man 🤤....how big is your shlong playboy

It’s not as big as you think…

[Anonymous]

I had a sexual relationship with a married woman a few years ago. I was single at the time. I am not currently married and will never be married because I wonder if my future wife will be like the one I slept with.

She would lie to her husband that she had to go see her best friend at the hospital, skip her child's school events and/or have friends pick them up, lie lie lie just so I can f**k her. And worse she would endlessly complain about her husband and his shortcomings( which was a turn off because I just wanted to f**k her that's all not be makeshift therapist). Then at some point she was falling in love thats when I ghosted her. That experience honestly showed me a side of women that I never knew. Namely if their need is not met they are ready to burn the house and the hell with the consequences

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had a sexual relationship with a married woman a few years ago. I was single at the time. I am not currently married and will never be married because I wonder if my future wife will be like the one I slept with.

She would lie to her husband that she had to go see her best friend at the hospital, skip her child's school events and/or have friends pick them up, lie lie lie just so I can f**k her. And worse she would endlessly complain about her husband and his shortcomings( which was a turn off because I just wanted to f**k her that's all not be makeshift therapist). Then at some point she was falling in love thats when I ghosted her. That experience honestly showed me a side of women that I never knew. Namely if their need is not met they are ready to burn the house and the hell with the consequences

Don't let a random married sl**t ruin it for you because if you do you may as well not date. I hope you are not of those men who foolishly think women don't cheat 🤣

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had a sexual relationship with a married woman a few years ago. I was single at the time. I am not currently married and will never be married because I wonder if my future wife will be like the one I slept with.

She would lie to her husband that she had to go see her best friend at the hospital, skip her child's school events and/or have friends pick them up, lie lie lie just so I can f**k her. And worse she would endlessly complain about her husband and his shortcomings( which was a turn off because I just wanted to f**k her that's all not be makeshift therapist). Then at some point she was falling in love thats when I ghosted her. That experience honestly showed me a side of women that I never knew. Namely if their need is not met they are ready to burn the house and the hell with the consequences

Yep. The skipping things with kids to get effed. The lies. The LIES But then run a blog and be on social media projecting the image of being a great mom and best home maker. All under the mantra of “I’m a better mom because o cheat”. The delusion and nastiness about the husband. I banged similar.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had a sexual relationship with a married woman a few years ago. I was single at the time. I am not currently married and will never be married because I wonder if my future wife will be like the one I slept with.

She would lie to her husband that she had to go see her best friend at the hospital, skip her child's school events and/or have friends pick them up, lie lie lie just so I can f**k her. And worse she would endlessly complain about her husband and his shortcomings( which was a turn off because I just wanted to f**k her that's all not be makeshift therapist). Then at some point she was falling in love thats when I ghosted her. That experience honestly showed me a side of women that I never knew. Namely if their need is not met they are ready to burn the house and the hell with the consequences

Yep. The skipping things with kids to get effed. The lies. The LIES But then run a blog and be on social media projecting the image of being a great mom and best home maker. All under the mantra of “I’m a better mom because o cheat”. The delusion and nastiness about the husband. I banged similar.

Men are to be blamed 100% because for whatever reason they put women on a pedestal even before they know if they are worthy or not.