I guess you failed to read the last paragraph of my response where I stated that sexism does exist in Muslim countries, yes there are Muslim women that are being abused, mistreated, being cheated on their rights every single day, just like there are non-muslim women being abused and killed every single day in America. What I'm not going to accept is your simplification that these realities, events are the results of Islam. Correlation doesn't imply causation |
Of course it doesn't. What I take objection to is your statement that every single Muslim woman feels exactly the way you do. There are Muslim women out there that are less than happy about what their birth religion has provided for them - not human practice or country-based sexist, but actual letter of law. You imply they don't exist. That's not true. I am not begrudging you your love and devotion to Islam. If you are happy and content, good for you. I am simply pointing out that you have no grounds to state that all Muslim women feel the way you do. |
Circle the part where I wrote every single woman feels the way I do??? |
Every time you start a sentence with "Muslim women." If you didn't mean that and reported only your own experiences without claiming they are generic to all Muslim women, then I am wrong and I apologize. |
When I shared my experiences, I said "I, as a Muslim woman". Yes, I've used the term Muslim women in general in my post sometimes because I feel like I Have met, lived with enough muslim women to know what/how they feel about some issues. Does it mean that this will be true for all millions of Muslim women? Of course not! We are a rainbow of sects, practices, values, beliefs... Under the umbrella of our general commonalities, we differ widely. I'm currently reading "I speak for myself' American women on being Muslim. Picked it up from the library, if you're in Va, it's available at the fairfax county libraries. It's an interesting read, and glimpse into the commonalities, differences and sisterhood that bond Muslim women of all walks of life who just happen to share the thread of Islam. I would recommend it to anyone who wants to know more about muslim women. It' s 40 short essays written by different Muslim women about what their identities mean to them, from their own perspectives |
The only person on DCUM who knows of one media outlet is Jeff himself, because I had to give him a heads up that these posts may be used and request his permission. The writer may also contact him. He knows which media outlet it is and, I assure you, it is not third rate. I will not say which it is, but would I lie knowing Jeff can refute me here? It has a high readership and the writer will be working with the information an Imam has provided. |
I think the reality is that your combative posts turn people off and they think the only way to get you to stop talking is for them to stop talking to you. The fact that at least three writers now are interested in investigating your posts and the subject of islamophobia says there is a sympathetic audience out there, or at least that the subject of islamophobia is important enough to address. |
Jeff, three writers, now one, CAIR, imams - you're making me yawn with all the tales you are spinning.
No one needs permission to quote a post on a public forum. They are quotable by definition. Jeff doesn't own copyright over them so it's not up to him to give permission. But since you seem to be concerned with legalities, here it is - I give you blanket permission to quote anything I ever wrote. Print it out, frame it and hang it in your house for all I care. |
Y'all keep talking about "subtle micro-agressions." In the meantime, your fellow Muslims cut the head off another aid worker and released a video this morning.
When Muslims stop blatant aggression and violence against non-Muslims, maybe we can talk about "subtle micro-aggressions." |
That's your theory. In actuality, a number of people supported what I wrote, and not a single one supported you. My theory is that my posts make sense and yours don't. Investigate away. Who cares? Sure, I'm combative - at least I never called anyone an STD-infested granny or an evangelical crusader. I got that much going on for me. |
Well you know, in all fairness, she has nothing to do with this, so I don't see the need to bring it up. |
You're talking about readers like me. I'm appreciative of the heavy lifting you've done. 1st PP has not convinced me that inquality=equality, or that disagreeing with this makes one an islamophobe. As for all her threats - that legions of pulitzer-prize winning investigative journalists are waiting in the wings to write about this - phhht! There's nothing here to write about. These threats are her latest attempt to bully people, since the STC-infested granny thing didn't work out so well for her. |
+1. |
OP's story sounds like "I contacted 3 writers I know" and, if she actually did contact anyone, maybe they were polite to her because she told them horror stories about these threads and/or they are polite people. Undoubtedly it will be different matter if any of them reads these threads and realizes there's no "there" there. Or, this whole thing is just a new form of her bullying. Given that her first impulse, to call us STD-ridden gap-toothed Pakistani grannies who can't cook because they're on the Crusades, backfired so badly. |
Anywhere in this world where there is man made trouble it's because of muslims |