Boycott Virginia - new abortion law, new personhood law..... War on woman

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Anonymous wrote:To 9:20, I dont see this mandate as trying to humiliate anyone. I think the purpose is straight forward, to personify the embryo heartbeat. To yes discourage abortions but not make them illegal. Its ironic one would consider this procedure humiliating yet jthe person seeking the abortiorn is perfectly willing to allow a doctor to remove the developing child from the womens body. If one women decides to reconsider their decision to abort its a worthy precident. I have suspicion it will. I was there for my wifes ultrasounds and it was remarkable, anything but humiliating.


I think you should have a rectal probe before being allowed to take a laxative. To be sodomized without consent is nothing but humiliating.
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If it's "just a fetus" and not a baby, why are you so up in arms about seeing a picture?

You can't have it both ways: It's too painful and tortuous for a woman to have to look at that but, wait, it's not really a baby, right, so it's really no big deal?

Either abortion is a no big deal medical procedure, it is killing a baby, or it is a fuzzy gray zone. But when you go on and on about how hard it is for women to look at those images, you are undercutting one of the main arguments that helps keep abortion legal.
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Comparing the Holocaust to abortion rights?

Wow. Wow.
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Anonymous wrote:by the way, all of our ultrasounds were done over the belly. what is up with the "vaginal rape" nonsense?


I think before 11 weeks or so they use "transvaginal" ultrasound for better accuracy. It's a "probe" that goes inside you. My 8 week dating sono was this. At my NT test at 11w4d, they did both kinds, looking at different things.
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I am ok with the day after pill (or week after pill, or whatever it is). I am ok with birth control. So if you make a mistake, or something unplanned happens, take the day after pill. But 2-3 months later I think its too late, sorry.


I consider myself a pretty liberal woman, and I've always wanted to be pro-choice, but I kind of agree with the above. I could never really fully feel comfortable with the fact that, although it is a woman's body, technically the baby growing inside is a separate entity, life, body, whatever you want to call it, and an abortion is ending a life. I want to be pro-choice, but I have always felt uneasy about sanctioning termination of a human life. I should clarify that I'm talking about after the growing baby has characteristics that, in my opinion, make it human (e.g., a developed and differentiated nervous system, beating heart, etc.). Earlier than that in a pregnancy, I think it's a sufficiently murky and gray area, and abortion very early, in my book, is 'okay,' for lack of a better word.
Also, my thoughts sometimes turn to the dads... it's the woman's body that is carrying the baby, but the baby is 50% dad's baby...so what happens if he wants the baby but the mom wants to terminate? It's such a tough subject. I wish we could just eliminate the need for abortions, as a PP said.


The law as it is now needs to be changed to determine a point where the baby is it's own entity. It is very barbaric and ignorant to think that just because its physically inside the woman that it is her property, I still can't believe this is the test of what is part of a person vs what is not, using this logic would a woman be able to take ownership of any being or item but consuming it? . I also feel it is unfair that a man has no say in whether a termination occurs or not.


Can anyone tell me when we legally require a living adult to submit their body for the needs of another living adult? Are there any instances where, for example, we would force someone to donate blood against their will? A liver? A kidney? Here's a hypothetical: I'm mugged, and in the course of being mugged, I am also stabbed. The mugger/stabber is apprehended. I need blood to survive, but oh noes! The only person whose blood is compatible with mine is the mugger/stabber, and he doesn't consent! Do our laws require that we strap his ass down and take his blood without his consent?

I'm not aware of any such legal requirement (and please correct me if I'm wrong). So why in the world would we require a woman to submit her body for the needs of a fetus? Why does a fetus have more rights than a living adult?

I'm the 13:32 poster. I understand your point; it's a good point.
Such a difficult issue all around...wish we could eliminate the need for abortions.


Yes, it's too bad some of the same evil motherfuckers are trying as hard as they possibly can to deny access to contraception as well.
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It's not just a good point, it's a critical point. I know people who are against abortion think that this is a good way to limit those further, but the reality is that it creates the perfect storm for holding individual pregnant women responsible for poor fetal outcomes. What happens with miscarriages occur, especially those that are later-term? Pregnant women can be held responsible. Having the occasional glass of wine during your pregnancy? You could be charged with giving alcohol to a minor. These aren't hypothetical situations. One a fetus becomes a person the slippery slope of legislating and criminalizing pregnant women's behavior just takes off.


I'm the 13:32 poster. I should clarify that I whole-heartedly oppose the legislation that is the original subject of the thread. I agree that it's a slippery slope. I also agree that, until we can come up with some acceptable, reasonable solution (and I don't see one on the horizon), abortion should be legal and obstacle-free for women. I still feel that it's ending a life, but if I have to choose between the rights of the pregnant woman and the rights of the fetus she's carrying (a horrible choice to have to make), then I choose the woman.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't get the outrage over a stupid ultrasound but zero outrage or any feeling whatsoever over the life of the innocent baby? seriously, step back 5 feet and think this through.


Because it is still my body and my decision, not yours. Because this law assumes that I am too stupid to make fully informed decisions. You should feel free to carry as many pregnancies as you want to term. That's your choice. You don't get to take my choice away from me because you disagree with me.


The issue is that there is a large portion of the world that believes a baby regardless of stage is another human being. Now the question is at what point is it? I believe we will see that it is probably at 14-16 weeks especially with new technology that can detect brain waves pain etc... so your argument will not be valid


Yes, it will be. Because it's still my body. I know you really don't like that and you disagree with my opinion and think I'm a horrible baby killing monster or whatever, but it's still MY BODY. NOT YOURS.




but it isn't your body at that point - it is a separate body. separate DNA, separate heart, separate brain, separate. a 2 month old baby won't survive a weekend without care from his parents. how is that any different 6 months earlier?


It's not separate. It's a symbiant of a particular host that cannot be removed from the host and survive. A two month old cant be cared for by someone else. It is not dependent on the host, it's just dependent.
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Anonymous wrote:The people who want to regulate what you eat, what you drive, what you say etc are all up in arms because the government is now submitting them to one extra procedure before they extinguish a life. Nice liberal hypocrisy.


One individual's rights end where the other's begin. So you can't smoke in a public place because others have to breathe it. You may have to pay more in taxes to offset the health costs of twinkies an beer. You can drive whatever you want, but the government will reward you with tax breaks or HOV use if you reduce the pollution that everyone has to breathe. The government also tells me where to shit. I can't poop in my yard, because the sewage might spread disease. That's a legitimate controlling role for the government because my actions in that scenario code affect others in society.

In the case of abortion, we have to weight the woman's rights against that of the fetus. So far the majority consensus is that the woman's right to control her own body trumps the fetus's rights.

Whether you agree with that or not: If you are a conservative, you should be very worried about a regime that thinks it's OK to issue mandates about what happens between a citizen and their doctor.
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Anonymous wrote:The people who want to regulate what you eat, what you drive, what you say etc are all up in arms because the government is now submitting them to one extra procedure before they extinguish a life. Nice liberal hypocrisy.


Probably going to need an example of this. You hear a lot of moaning about this stuff from the right, but not a whole lot of substance. Your side is the one that's the party of curtailing freedom. Own it.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't get the outrage over a stupid ultrasound but zero outrage or any feeling whatsoever over the life of the innocent baby? seriously, step back 5 feet and think this through.


Because it is still my body and my decision, not yours. Because this law assumes that I am too stupid to make fully informed decisions. You should feel free to carry as many pregnancies as you want to term. That's your choice. You don't get to take my choice away from me because you disagree with me.


The issue is that there is a large portion of the world that believes a baby regardless of stage is another human being. Now the question is at what point is it? I believe we will see that it is probably at 14-16 weeks especially with new technology that can detect brain waves pain etc... so your argument will not be valid


Yes, it will be. Because it's still my body. I know you really don't like that and you disagree with my opinion and think I'm a horrible baby killing monster or whatever, but it's still MY BODY. NOT YOURS.




but it isn't your body at that point - it is a separate body. separate DNA, separate heart, separate brain, separate. a 2 month old baby won't survive a weekend without care from his parents. how is that any different 6 months earlier?


It's not separate. It's a symbiant of a particular host that cannot be removed from the host and survive. A two month old cant be cared for by someone else. It is not dependent on the host, it's just dependent.
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Third trimester babies can survive outside of the mother's body. If it boils down to ability to live separate from the womb, then that falls apart in the realm of third trimester abortions.
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Anonymous wrote:The people who want to regulate what you eat, what you drive, what you say etc are all up in arms because the government is now submitting them to one extra procedure before they extinguish a life. Nice liberal hypocrisy.


One individual's rights end where the other's begin. So you can't smoke in a public place because others have to breathe it. You may have to pay more in taxes to offset the health costs of twinkies an beer. You can drive whatever you want, but the government will reward you with tax breaks or HOV use if you reduce the pollution that everyone has to breathe. The government also tells me where to shit. I can't poop in my yard, because the sewage might spread disease. That's a legitimate controlling role for the government because my actions in that scenario code affect others in society.

In the case of abortion, we have to weight the woman's rights against that of the fetus. So far the majority consensus is that the woman's right to control her own body trumps the fetus's rights.

Whether you agree with that or not: If you are a conservative, you should be very worried about a regime that thinks it's OK to issue mandates about what happens between a citizen and their doctor.


Excellent points.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't get the outrage over a stupid ultrasound but zero outrage or any feeling whatsoever over the life of the innocent baby? seriously, step back 5 feet and think this through.


Because it is still my body and my decision, not yours. Because this law assumes that I am too stupid to make fully informed decisions. You should feel free to carry as many pregnancies as you want to term. That's your choice. You don't get to take my choice away from me because you disagree with me.


The issue is that there is a large portion of the world that believes a baby regardless of stage is another human being. Now the question is at what point is it? I believe we will see that it is probably at 14-16 weeks especially with new technology that can detect brain waves pain etc... so your argument will not be valid


Yes, it will be. Because it's still my body. I know you really don't like that and you disagree with my opinion and think I'm a horrible baby killing monster or whatever, but it's still MY BODY. NOT YOURS.




but it isn't your body at that point - it is a separate body. separate DNA, separate heart, separate brain, separate. a 2 month old baby won't survive a weekend without care from his parents. how is that any different 6 months earlier?


It's not separate. It's a symbiant of a particular host that cannot be removed from the host and survive. A two month old cant be cared for by someone else. It is not dependent on the host, it's just dependent.


Using that logic life begins at age 16 when they can work on their own and hold down a job.
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Anonymous wrote:If it's "just a fetus" and not a baby, why are you so up in arms about seeing a picture?

You can't have it both ways: It's too painful and tortuous for a woman to have to look at that but, wait, it's not really a baby, right, so it's really no big deal?

Either abortion is a no big deal medical procedure, it is killing a baby, or it is a fuzzy gray zone. But when you go on and on about how hard it is for women to look at those images, you are undercutting one of the main arguments that helps keep abortion legal.


Here's why I'm up in arms about a woman being forced to look at a picture (and it being noted in her file if she refuses to look at it - for whatever purpose later). Insisting on an ultrasound that has no medical value, followed by insisting that a woman look at the picture and listen to the heartbeat if they can find one devalues the woman's choice in the matter. If I decide that I want to get an abortion, that's my decision. I've made my choice. Showing me an ultrasound picture is an attempt to manipulate me while I'm already in a vulnerable emotional state - not because seeing the picture itself is so traumatic but because not a single woman I know who has terminated a pregnancy, for whatever reason, made that choice lightly or easily. The assumption that all my thought processes will go right out the window with an ultrasound photo, that I just need more convincing to see it your way invalidates my freedom of choice. The picture is not the issue. The manipulative tactics are.

I've posted several times on this thread and I never said it was not a big deal. Of course it's a big deal. But all these tactics to "educate" women about their "options" fall on dead ears when the tactics really serve only to disrespect a woman's right to make her own medical decisions.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't get the outrage over a stupid ultrasound but zero outrage or any feeling whatsoever over the life of the innocent baby? seriously, step back 5 feet and think this through.


Because it is still my body and my decision, not yours. Because this law assumes that I am too stupid to make fully informed decisions. You should feel free to carry as many pregnancies as you want to term. That's your choice. You don't get to take my choice away from me because you disagree with me.


The issue is that there is a large portion of the world that believes a baby regardless of stage is another human being. Now the question is at what point is it? I believe we will see that it is probably at 14-16 weeks especially with new technology that can detect brain waves pain etc... so your argument will not be valid


Yes, it will be. Because it's still my body. I know you really don't like that and you disagree with my opinion and think I'm a horrible baby killing monster or whatever, but it's still MY BODY. NOT YOURS.




but it isn't your body at that point - it is a separate body. separate DNA, separate heart, separate brain, separate. a 2 month old baby won't survive a weekend without care from his parents. how is that any different 6 months earlier?


It's not separate. It's a symbiant of a particular host that cannot be removed from the host and survive. A two month old cant be cared for by someone else. It is not dependent on the host, it's just dependent.
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Third trimester babies can survive outside of the mother's body. If it boils down to ability to live separate from the womb, then that falls apart in the realm of third trimester abortions.


It's not merely a quetion of survivability. It's a question of whether another human has a right to reside in you. Or do you have the right to remove it. Whatever the consequences to the human being removed.
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I am ok with the day after pill (or week after pill, or whatever it is). I am ok with birth control. So if you make a mistake, or something unplanned happens, take the day after pill. But 2-3 months later I think its too late, sorry.


I consider myself a pretty liberal woman, and I've always wanted to be pro-choice, but I kind of agree with the above. I could never really fully feel comfortable with the fact that, although it is a woman's body, technically the baby growing inside is a separate entity, life, body, whatever you want to call it, and an abortion is ending a life. I want to be pro-choice, but I have always felt uneasy about sanctioning termination of a human life. I should clarify that I'm talking about after the growing baby has characteristics that, in my opinion, make it human (e.g., a developed and differentiated nervous system, beating heart, etc.). Earlier than that in a pregnancy, I think it's a sufficiently murky and gray area, and abortion very early, in my book, is 'okay,' for lack of a better word.
Also, my thoughts sometimes turn to the dads... it's the woman's body that is carrying the baby, but the baby is 50% dad's baby...so what happens if he wants the baby but the mom wants to terminate? It's such a tough subject. I wish we could just eliminate the need for abortions, as a PP said.


The law as it is now needs to be changed to determine a point where the baby is it's own entity. It is very barbaric and ignorant to think that just because its physically inside the woman that it is her property, I still can't believe this is the test of what is part of a person vs what is not, using this logic would a woman be able to take ownership of any being or item but consuming it? . I also feel it is unfair that a man has no say in whether a termination occurs or not.


Can anyone tell me when we legally require a living adult to submit their body for the needs of another living adult? Are there any instances where, for example, we would force someone to donate blood against their will? A liver? A kidney? Here's a hypothetical: I'm mugged, and in the course of being mugged, I am also stabbed. The mugger/stabber is apprehended. I need blood to survive, but oh noes! The only person whose blood is compatible with mine is the mugger/stabber, and he doesn't consent! Do our laws require that we strap his ass down and take his blood without his consent?

I'm not aware of any such legal requirement (and please correct me if I'm wrong). So why in the world would we require a woman to submit her body for the needs of a fetus? Why does a fetus have more rights than a living adult?

I'm the 13:32 poster. I understand your point; it's a good point.
Such a difficult issue all around...wish we could eliminate the need for abortions.


Yes, it's too bad some of the same evil motherfuckers are trying as hard as they possibly can to deny access to contraception as well.


That is untrue and mis-information guided by the recent uproar of the government mandating Catholics institutions to provide mandatory contraceptives. Most religious groups actually support birth control and teach it in their marriage classes as a means to plan a family. You are trying to drum up an issue with making parallels to the wrong groups. FYI Virginia legislature isn't majority catholic.
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