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Anonymous
| Not my first time, but I was the "first" for one guy in college. He wouldn't let me help him out though and "it" never actually made it in. I don't think he realized it. Silk sheets I guess??? I'm not sure how he couldn't tell. Anyway, I feel horrible about this but I broke up with him maybe a few days later. |
Anonymous
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1. How old were you?
I was seventeen, she was eighteen (both girls). 2. What was the relationship? It was a confused, intense, loving, and did I say confused, three year relationship of awkwardness due to having no real way of understanding that a- it was ok that we were attracted to one another and b- we could act on it and the world wouldn't swallow us whole. 3. Where did it happen? On a blanket, under the stars, under the influence. 4. Was it any good? How long did it take before it was? It was incredibly good, so very good. I'll likely never have an experience like that again- such a mix of of course the sexual but also the taboo, and breaking it, and caring so very much about being a responsive caring lover to my partner while not having the first idea of how to do that. We spent hours out there that night. We did not continue the relationship much longer after that- just a few months. She couldn't deal with what being with me might mean about her. 5. Where is this person today? Are you still in touch? She is married to a man, has children. We are not in touch. I think we broke eachother's hearts in our own ways. I am certainly happy now, and wouldn't want to do anything that might make her feel uncomfortable. 6. Did your parents know? Ha! No! I should ask my mother sometime who she thinks my "first time" was with, though I suppose that's an awkward question. I was not out to my parents until a few years later. |
Anonymous
Good for you? I mean really what is your point in posting this. My point is I don't understand how one admittedly horrible episode can require years of therapy. |
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My point is I don't understand how one admittedly horrible episode can require years of therapy. You don't understand how that could be the case for you. Making this comment about someone else, whose background, personality, temperament and experiences are different from yours is just ignorant and narcissistic. |
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NP here. Okay, let's not make light of rape. Really. Difference between discussing this and money, PP. This you can't do anything about, it's done and gone. Money is still happening, and it feels even more judgmental. I really can not stand how judgmental people in this area are. Yet, this is a great thread (see above). 16. On the beach. Very romantic! Didn't know him. It was great, and memorable, just how I wanted it. Parents knew something, don't know what. Don't know where he is and have no reason to. PP with the comedian: you should write a book! |
Anonymous
Um....hottest story EVER!!!
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Anonymous
| Only because lesbians rock! |
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I am the queen of the late bloomers, apparently ... I always knew I was going to wait, if not until marriage, then until I was very serious about the guy. DH was the same (though we are not terribly religious ... just private or maybe repressed, I don't know). So ...
1. How old were you? 28; he was 29 2. What was the relationship? fiance, now husband. First time for both of us. 3. Where did it happen? my apartment 4. Was it any good? How long did it take before it was? Quite painful for me. 2 years later, still occasionally painful ... but other times awesome. 5. Where is this person today? Are you still in touch? Married now! 6. Did your parents know? No. We moved in together about 6 months later so they figured it out then. Not that it was any of their business at that age! |
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Boyfriend, soon-to-be fiancé. Our apartment. He's my husband now. 
They probably guessed. |
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Partner was 27, guy I lifeguarded with for two summers. I was SOOO crazy about him. He was an ass. Back in touch via FB. He is divorced, crazy conservative, looks older than his age. It hurt like hell. If I could take back the experience, I would. He didn't even get out of bed to walk me to the door in the morning. I told my mom later. She really liked him (only met him once), and didn't have a problem with it. I did. Next time was with boyfriend during my senior year of highschool, and it was wonderful. We were in love, and the sexual part of the relationship was lovely. He and I remained friends for years, and I recently met his wife. Wish first had been with him. |
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Based upon your cruel attitude, I don't think you're over it.
Good for you? I mean really what is your point in posting this. |
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Dating but not that serious A hotel on NYE Amazing - the best ever No - dont keep in touch Hell no....parents are very conservative |
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college boyfriend my dorm room yes - he was a wonderful lover and we had great chemistry. even after we broke up a couple of years later, we still had the occasional tryst. still think about him every now and then we kept in touch for a while, until he died way too young they figured it out after a while |
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15 y.o.
She was my girlfriend and my first love. Her bedroom. As the guy, it was better for me than her. I remember bring so excited that I worried I'd finish before we started. We don't keep in touch, but I read the announcement in the Legal Times when she made partner at het law firm. I doubt her parents knew. I never found myself at the wrong end of a gun. 15 is definitely young, but she was the first girl that I loved. I married the second girl with whom I fell in love. 20 plus years later and I still think about her often. I hope she is happy and doing well. I remember her both as one of the most beautiful people I have seen in real life and one of the smartest people I have ever met. |