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Anonymous
Years of therapy? I was raped in college and went like 6 times to a therapist. Wow. |
Anonymous
Years of therapy? I was raped in college and went like 6 times to a therapist. Wow. Good for you? I mean really what is your point in posting this. |
Anonymous
1. 14 2. Ex-boyfriend (we had broken up a couple weeks earlier). 3. Outside, near the train tracks. 4. My guess is no. It was a cisco-induced event, which I disowned by moving to another state to live with a relative within the week. 5. Facebook friend. He is a nice guy, living a much different life in a different part of the country. A couple years later, after I had moved back, he was actually my EMT after a pretty bad car accident; it was comforting to have him there. 6. Not specifically, but they knew I had been drinking and that I was upset enough to move. Although this was obviously a poor decision, it has not affected my life negatively in the long run. The experience of living with my relative is a wonderful memory, and I had the opportunity to date many people prior to getting married in my early twenties, which I think made it easier for me to commit when I found the right guy. And, I never drank cisco again! |
Anonymous
You could use some more to develop empathy and sensitivity. Hopefully you are only having a bad day. |
Anonymous
My thought exactly. |
Anonymous
1. 18, about a month or so shy of 19. 2. College BF, first serious relationship 3. Out of town on a college field trip...we got into a fight about something and well, then, made up 
4. It was amazing. Hurt, and really hurt the next day, but I did have an orgasm. Everything just fit perfectly and we had been having a ton of good fun leading up to it in the weeks prior. 5. Just re-entered my life via FB. 6. I doubt they knew but really never gave it much thought one way or another. |
Anonymous
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just shy of 16. Boyfriend was 16 and we were together for 2 years before-hand.
My bedroom We stayed together until I was 18 and left for college. It was painful the first time, but we had a great and very loving relationship, including our sexual relationship. I feel very fortunate to have had this experience. I expected good things from other guys. I married at 32, so I had a fair amount of dating between 18 and 32 and I married a really great guy! My parents did find out and it was hard. Mostly awkward, my mother is very old fashioned, but I was always a bit of a free spirit. Strangely, we are not still in touch. He is divorced and life just took us in very different directions. Kind of sad in a way. |
Anonymous
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1. 18
2. boyfriend - started dating right after I graduated from HS. Then long distance dated until second semester of my freshman year in college 3. my college dorm room, when he came up to visit 4. It was, actually. It didn't hurt and he was really gentle. My first time, not his. 5. He married the woman he started dating shortly after me. No hard feelings between us, the long distance thing just wasn't working when we were that young. We're FB friends and occasionally communicate. 6. Maybe? Not sure. |
Anonymous
Let's all ignore the troll. Original PP I'm sorry you had that experience. Nobody in real life would belittle you for your response. |
Anonymous
Does it? I'm not sure I follow. I didn't read the weight thread but I can see how it's offensive to try to draw a correlation between weight and husband's income. This thread isn't about proving some kind of point, just sharing experiences. Kind of like the recent dad thread. Do you not get the distinction? |
Anonymous
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1. How old were you? 20
2. What was the relationship? boyfriend 3. Where did it happen? hotel room in Rome on junior year abroad 4. Was it any good? How long did it take before it was? It was medium. A few months and it was amazing. 5. Where is this person today? Are you still in touch? He's my DH now! Happily together for 16 years. 6. Did your parents know? I'm sure my mother guessed. |
Anonymous
| A spin off of "I'd hit that Thursday"........"First Time Friday" |
Anonymous
Me too. 1. 18 2. College boyfriend 3. His dorm room 4. It was average. Amazing within a week or two. 5. Married him, but not till six years later. 6. Didn't tell, but it was pretty obvious. I was head over heals then, and am head over heals 13 years later. |
Anonymous
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1. I was 22.
2. Boyfriend of about a year (but much of that had been long-distance). He was the same age, it was the first time for him as well. 3. In his apartment. 4. Yes. 5. He is still in the city where we met. We are still in touch from time to time for Happy Birthday wishes and the like. 6. I have no idea whether my parents knew; at that age it didn't cross my mind. |
Anonymous
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1. 25 (another late bloomer, here) 2. long-time college friends, best friends in fact; we had crushes on each other 3. hotel room while travelling together abroad 4. good, relatively speaking -- very excited, no "big O" and it hurt but I knew it would get better, and he was very kind and loving about it (much more experienced than I )
5. It was clear we were not to be together as we were both going to move away in a few weeks; tried long distance, didn't work. Ultimately, we were not fully compatible. He was a "marrying kind" and I still required several years of maturing from a relationship perspective to get anywhere close to that. He got engaged a few short years later to someone he met in graduate school, and I suspect she really was a better match for him. He's now very successful in his field, and so is she. We no longer communicate, thanks in part to a rather pathetic post-breakup letter I wrote, and the fact that I was slow to get over him. Good news: I did finally mature and am now exceedingly happily married with two kids. My "first" played a big part in that, and I'm grateful to him for helping me along.
6. No, we didn't discuss it -- I wasn't hiding it from them, either. I was an adult by then, and it wasn't any of their business. |