Talk about your "first time"

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:15 y.o.

She was my girlfriend and my first love.

Her bedroom.

As the guy, it was better for me than her. I remember bring so excited that I worried I'd finish before we started.

We don't keep in touch, but I read the announcement in the Legal Times when she made partner at het law firm.

I doubt her parents knew. I never found myself at the wrong end of a gun.

15 is definitely young, but she was the first girl that I loved. I married the second girl with whom I fell in love. 20 plus years later and I still think about her often. I hope she is happy and doing well. I remember her both as one of the most beautiful people I have seen in real life and one of the smartest people I have ever met.



I enjoyed reading this post.
Anonymous
I was 13, he was 15. BF/GF relationship. Am I the only early bloomer?! His parent's office. Of course it was horrible, but that wasn't the point. He is a crazy person, no no contact now. No my parents had no idea.
Anonymous
Parenthood thread got me thinking...

1. How old were you?
2. What was the relationship?
3. Where did it happen?
4. Was it any good? How long did it take before it was?
5. Where is this person today? Are you still in touch?
6. Did your parents know?



1. 18.
2. Boyfriend. First love.
3. His parents' house ... they were out of town (on the living room floor actually ... klassy, eh?)
4. Not any good the first time ... he only penetrated briefly and it hurt so damn bad we had to stop ... oh, and then I started bleeding everywhere, super duper sexy. As far as how long it took before the sex was good ... regrettably, it was never good with him, although we really loved each other. It only got good after we broke up. I honestly don't know whether it was my problem or his.
5. I think he lives in Texas. Not in touch, things ended really badly. I have thought about FB friending him but I think he would think I had lost my damn mind.
6. No way. They hated him and my father would hunt him down even now if he found out (and I'm now 34).

By the way, the guy on this thread ... you sound like a really good person. Your wife is a lucky lady.
Anonymous
1. 16
2. Summer romance with a 20-yr-old guy home for the summer after dropping out of college. I thought he was SOOOO cool and was thrilled to do it with him. A few weeks later he moved to the beach to wait tables and bum around.
3. At his friend's apartment were he was staying for the summer.
4. It was okay- nothing spectacular, no orgasm, but it didn't hurt. We only did it that once. Six months later I had a boyfriend my own age and we had the greatest, horniest, most playful sex for several years until we broke up in our sophomore year of college.
5. I did keep in touch with my first off and on through mutual friends for the next five or six years, lost touch, and recently became FB friends. He's now married with a family and is an IT guy.
6. Yes. My mom found out by reading my diary one day while I was at school. She immediately came to school, had me paged by the office, pulled me out of class, and took me to the doctor to put me on birth control pills and get a lecture about safe sex and a pack of condoms. I was, of course, completely mortified, and I still don't think it was right of my mom to read my diary, but in retrospect I'm glad she made me get birth control and condoms because I didn't have the nerve at the time to get them myself.
Anonymous
Did anyone like thier first time?
Anonymous
Funny thing, I was shocked that she talked during it. In the movies, the woman moans and enter some type of pleasure zone losing her mind.
Anonymous
1. 18
2. boyfriend of 3 months (summer before going to college) He told me he was 19 but years later confessed he was only 15 at the time. He looked like a viking god.
3. Town house bedroom on 34th and Volta in Georgetown.
4. Painful in a good way. No big O. I was clueless. So was he.
5. I later saw him 10 years later at a deposition--the company he worked for was being sued for fraud.
6. My parents suspected (I came in after curfew for the first time ever--2 hours past it--every night for a week while we did it) they never addressed me directly on it though.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Did anyone like thier first time?


I did. It wasn't painful or messy. Sure, it wasn't the best, but I've had worse. It was good enough to keep me going back, that's for sure.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Funny thing, I was shocked that she talked during it. In the movies, the woman moans and enter some type of pleasure zone losing her mind.


My DH is a talker and a moaner. I am not. I am really self conscious about the kids over hearing. On vacation lately we both go wild because the kids are dead to the world asleep in a distant bedroom usually.
Anonymous
21:45 you sound like the guy we all hope our daughters have as a first love
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I wish I was a troll right now. Please educate your daughters about date rape. It happens more often than people realize bc oftentimes the victim blames herself and never tells people.


Years of therapy? I was raped in college and went like 6 times to a therapist. Wow.


Good for you? I mean really what is your point in posting this.


My point is I don't understand how one admittedly horrible episode can require years of therapy.

PP. Why do you have to say this? Clearly six times was not enough to rid you of your cruelty.
Anonymous
1. 14, almost 15
2. Boyfriend (16). Definitely not his first time.
3. His mothers house ( her room)
4. It hurt a lot and he broke up with me after a week or so. I was heartbroken. He stood outside my house all night a year and a half later, when I was finally getting over him and had a very sweet boyfriend. Who I dumped shamelessly fast to get back together With him. We had a super fun sexual relationship with a level of excitement and passion that I miss. I would leave school every morning during my senior year of hs after my first class and go to his house for 2free class periods and have awesome teenage sex. During a snowstorm we snuck into his car which was covered in snow and had hot sex- oh the memories...
But alas, he dumped me again after several months and broke my heart again. I not sure I'm fully recovered even now. He saw some pretty close to breakdown times with me after that. I have mutual friends with him, but have steered clear of him. He is married, no kids, seems happy. I am married, kids, and still think
Of him more than I should.
My mom asked me in the middle of a fight right after we broke up the first time. I said no. She never asked again.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Parenthood thread got me thinking...

1. How old were you?
2. What was the relationship?
3. Where did it happen?
4. Was it any good? How long did it take before it was?
5. Where is this person today? Are you still in touch?
6. Did your parents know?


1. 16 (age of consent in my home state)
2. He lived in my neighborhood (33 at the time, single)
3. His bedroom
4. It was amazing. He was very experienced and I don't remember any pain at all.
5. Still lives in my home town. I hear about him from my parents occasionally.
6. They had no idea.

I was trying to act like an "adult"' and thought he was very sophisticated. I know that he should have been more mature and stopped us from having a relationship (we saw each other, furtively, for about 2 years) but I can't bring myself to condemn him.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Parenthood thread got me thinking...

1. How old were you?
2. What was the relationship?
3. Where did it happen?
4. Was it any good? How long did it take before it was?
5. Where is this person today? Are you still in touch?
6. Did your parents know?


1. 16 (age of consent in my home state)
2. He lived in my neighborhood (33 at the time, single)
3. His bedroom
4. It was amazing. He was very experienced and I don't remember any pain at all.
5. Still lives in my home town. I hear about him from my parents occasionally.
6. They had no idea.

I was trying to act like an "adult"' and thought he was very sophisticated. I know that he should have been more mature and stopped us from having a relationship (we saw each other, furtively, for about 2 years) but I can't bring myself to condemn him.


"Relationship"?

This was statutory rape. Pure and simple.
Anonymous
Ok, let me ask this--how "hot" was your teenage sex once you got used to it? How does it compare to what you've got now?
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