+1 There was definitely a “you dummies don’t need to do all that crash dieting, it’s really simple. In case you don’t know, here’s how to lose weight…” as if most women haven’t been dieting semi-professionally so as not to ever gain a pound for all of their adult life. |
The miserable people in this thread are just that, miserable.
Figure out your own path. None of this is easy. And no, eating 1200 calories a day and exercising is not a formula for weight loss - you are eating more than 1200 calories and you aren't exercising that much. JFC. |
Keep us posted, OP. |
One interesting difference between men and women is that when men gain weight, they gain both muscle and fat. Women gain almost all fat, which is metabolically inactive. Women are *literally* built to put on and hold weight. Of course, any of us who've gone on a diet with our spouses and eaten the exact same things (or less!) know it! My husband can cut back on soda and beer for a couple weeks and drop 6-7 pounds with ease. Meanwhile I haven't had soda or beer in years!
Good for you, OP! Keep doing what you're doing! |
Regular exercise and moderating things like alcohol and sugar can go a long way. That's pretty much all I do I can basically eat whatever I want (within reason) and stay fairly fit. |
So was I. I exercise daily, have cut my sugar substantially, focus on healthy meals that are low in saturated fat and high in fiber, don’t drink, etc. I’m down 10 pounds after 4 months. I’m grateful that I’m moving in the right direction but can’t figure out how men can lose so much more weight while doing less. |
No mystery really. They are larger on average which allows them to create a larger calorie deficit while still eating a reasonable numbers of calories. |
Same |
Plus their bodies are made up of a greater percentage of lean muscle which burns more calories |
I came in to see if this was a man or someone with stage 4 cancer who needed to get to a doctor stat. Relieved it’s the former. |
Report back to us next month. Keeping the weight off long term is the true challenge (especially during Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas). |
It is so gross to realize that clothes that formerly fit no longer do due to weight gain. The stretching of the buttons, the spilling out of belly and waist fat. So hard to lose weight after 40, but so worth it. |
Knew it would be a guy.
My dude stopped putting mayonnaise on his sandwiches and he lost ten pounds |
Really? And you are menopausal? |
But don’t you notice your weight creeping up before you start completely growing out of your clothes? I mean, my pants get more snug when I am up 3 lbs. I cannot fathom how people let 20+ lbs pile on without making drastic changes, if they care. |