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Forgetting to clear the History. The cause of more fights AND misunderstandings.
Although I must say, I'm surprised that any man would be upset if his lady liked a little porn. Even if it is girl on girl. Are we talking "SapphicEncounters" or "The Violation of" type lesbian porn?
Although I must say, I'm surprised that any man would be upset if his lady liked a little porn. Even if it is girl on girl. Are we talking "SapphicEncounters" or "The Violation of" type lesbian porn?
In simplest terms, when you have strong feelings for another person outside of your current relationship that go beyond freindship. But, you are not having sex with that person.
Mine is approx 1hour and 20 minutes each way. I drive the 15 minutes to the MARC train and that takes another hour with about 5 minutes to park the car and get on the train. For those that talk about being away from the kids, I leave before they awaken and get home at about 5:15. So not much worse and even better then many others.
Cupid would work well or even just the generic toga and leaf crown
chips
While I know it's difficult OP, you need to remember that it's you that he WANTS to have sex with, that he is attracted to you and is turned on by you; every imperfect inch of your body he finds sexy.
Do we feed the Troll?
Anonymous wrote:I'm right there with you, OP. Hate the sex but love the husband. Have hated the sex for at least the past 20 years. I've definitely been attracted to other men but not DH. I'm not about to give him, or myself, a pass. Despite my lack of sexual interest in him I think extracurricular activity is a quick way to ruin a good marriage that has only one significant problem. So drink up, OP. I'll keep closing my eyes and thinking of another guy. DH does not need to know.
So then your idea of a"good" marriage includes a rather significant set of lies
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:I can say that as a guy, while I have always enjoyed sex when she was a little inebriated (not sloppy drunk), because a bit more of the wonton woman comes out. However, I would be rather hurt and offended if I realized that she HAD to be tipsy to go to bed with me.
You have a thing for the dumpling lady? Is that a new food truck I don't know about?
Wontons are so carb-y. I'm more of a sushi girl myself after I've had a few.
wanton even
So then you like the fishy smell? How about the chicken taste? (sorry, just joking)
Anonymous wrote:I would be rather hurt and offended if I realized that she HAD to be tipsy to go to bed with me.
OP here. This is one thing I'm worried about. He would definitely know something is up, since I don't drink much now and certainly not while I'm sitting around after DCs go to sleep. It'd be pretty obvious what's up.
So would you still accept the sex, though? Do you think other men would? Or would it be so hurtful that you'd pick the laptop over the sex option.
Accept the sex? The first time or two before I caught on to what was going on. After that, I really can't say. Probably yes for the physical satisfaction, especially if I wasn't getting any otherwise, but I would still be hurt and even a bit resentful.
Sounds like the modern version of "Close your eyes and think of England."
I can say that as a guy, while I have always enjoyed sex when she was a little inebriated (not sloppy drunk), because a bit more of the wonton woman comes out. However, I would be rather hurt and offended if I realized that she HAD to be tipsy to go to bed with me.
mistletoe
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He'd have to be pretty blitzed to go in costume at all...I think Batman is out of the question.....
Get him to go as Bruce Wayne (basically just dressed nice). Get him a Batman t-shirt/boxers/whatever to wear underneath so you guys have a private little "fun" thing to look forward to when you get home!
Good idea
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