Anonymous wrote:Dear SR, just reposting this in case you have any insights. Thank you!

Hi DCUM spirit reader,

I read these threads but have never posted. If you are around and have the inclination I would love some advice. I feel like I dont trust my decisions about career moves and am facing some possible changes. Thoughts on whether any of these may come to fruition and is it worth all the change? and which one? how will it affect our family? esp our kids and esp my son, who I worry about?

Thank you for reposting!
I see you with unshakeable determination. You are ready to take the reins and triumph against the odds. Nothing can stop you from meeting this challenge, be brave!

I see you feeling opposed or betrayed, but you are up high from the others and you have the advantage. Ypou may have to defend your ground with colleagues and even friends, but you can do this.

I see you with quiet certainty emboldening your confidence.

This will change your romantic life for the better, and you all will come to love life in a new way. Everything is working out for the best. I see you learning a new skill that uses more of your innate abilities.

Your son comes through with very promising potential.

Stay with persistent focus during this time, as if it is a compass guiding your course.

Forgiveness comes up to. You must be no longer willing to carry around the pain of the actions of others. Forgiveness is releasing the carrying of this pain. This will help you keep the focus you need.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,
I’ve had two miscarriages over the past six months. Will I ever have children?
Thank you very much!

Your intentions are very powerful. Choose and infuse your intentions with much love. See yourself as happy and peaceful and ask the angels to help you with cleansing your thoughts. As your heart heals from many past times of loss, I see new blessings and love coming into your life.

You are very lovable and deserve a happy heart. I see a support group, and journaling about your feelings to be very helpful for you right now. There is a strong emotional basis here, and such a loveliness around you, I see you being able to have everything you most desire and more.

Focus on healing your heart from loss by being with the pain of the loss and the losses that have happened at various stages of your life. Go to each part of you that experienced such pain and imagine filling her and surrounding her with light and love. Let her be in her pain. Hugs and great care to you.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:Dear SR-

My sisters and I have been estranged for years. Will our sisterly relationships ever be reconciled?

Your strong and clear discernment allows you to stay true to your values and spiritual destiny. It is wise to be accepting of all of life and not to judge people or situations as good or bad. Yes, some are more pleasant than others, but some are absolutely necessary for our growth. Yet you must use your discernment to be guided on your path to the most joyful, uplifting and helpful experiences warranted for your growth.

Use the power of selection based on your desire and intention. If you intend to grow through joy and adventure, rather than fear or suffering, then use your discernment to make choices that feel expansive and uplifting, rather than constrictive or draining.

I see that you already have strong discernment, and would be wise to trust this. You have made mistakes with them in the past, but let this not erode your self-trust in the way things are now.

I don’t see anything right now suggesting that full reconciliation is imminent, though I do see a younger female reaching towards you for she misses you and would like to be closer to you and the sense of care that you gave her.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:Hello again spirit reader. I asked about a family move to florida. Our dear friends are moving there and i long to join them. If you have any guidance I would be truly grateful. This last year has been so hard for us. Thank you! Blessings!

Thank you for reposting.
Now is the time to replenish your energy. I see that there had been much toll from all the challenges you have experienced, and that there will be a final push. This will lead to extreme exhaustion but this will be rewarded by a long period of relaxation.
I see for you to trust and follow through. A new future awaits.
I see a final difficulty but you will come through it. I don’t see a specific indicator of travel/move/Florida and I think this is positive in your case, indicating that however you carry forward you will find a long period of calm no matter where you are.

Let whatever you most desire fill your body, your heart and your mind.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:Hello spirit reader,

I hope you and your loved ones have been well, and it is so nice to see you here again.

I’d appreciate any guidance or advice that you would be willing to offer. The strange and sometimes wonderful experiences and synchronicities that occurred from late 2018 until summer 2020 seem to have stopped, and at times I find myself doubting they happened, though part of me knows I didn’t imagine it all.

How do I move forward when outwardly my life is so much the same, but inwardly I feel so different from before? I’m wondering what I am supposed to do with my life.

Also, if you have any insights about my daughter and/or how to help her, I’d appreciate that as well.

Thank you so much

Hello dear one, yes this is very much a phase of sorts, I remember precisely when I went through it. It was a time of disconnect and it felt like darkness or being cut off or lost, and it was from here that I was able to connect more deeply with other places and spaces. A way to connect inside yourself that has always been there, just not accessible until now. There may be some trauma and false beliefs in the way.

What do you most want and crave in your life? Perhaps there is a place inside you where you may find this.

Meditation will help, sort of like putting yourself into a light trance. Breathing, relaxing each part of your body, feeling the bed/chair supporting you, breathing out all the thoughts, all the pictures, all the ideas, and anything still left.

It will be like footprints that lead you, and trust your imagination as you notice what comes up. When uncomfortable feelings come, they are asking to be seen with attention and love. Surround them with love, you don’t need to do anything other than breathe. If images come, notice them. If feelings come, see if they have a shape or a color. What is their function?

You are learning many valuable life lessons where you are presently, and this chapter is coming to an end. Be open to the changes, there are any blessings for all involved ad your future is taken care of. Continue making time to work on healing your past hurts. This is a very noticeable stage of transition for you and I send you much love and care as you carry on.

Your daughter – I see many angels watching over your family. She is safe and protected. Beautiful. There is forward movement, and resolution of your concern will come soon. There is no need to judge or evaluate what is happening and what is about to happen. Just take it for what it is. There will be an unexpected change followed by luck and good fortune.

I think you are doing tremendously well with all of this, and continue asking angels for help. Ask for what you want, ask for what is blocking you from having it, and let the process take as long as it needs. Lots of love and light to you.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:So good to see you are back dear Spirit Reader!

I literally wake from sleeping with worries about my oldest son.

Will he be okay? I mean, will he have stability, career, happiness? He’s always been a challenging kid, risky behaviors, learning disabilities, and growth issues. I worry about his mental health but he insists he’s fine.

Any thoughts you can share would be so helpful. Thank you.

I see your son independently successful, with a rich life. I see safety. He will find his way through to individual accomplishment.

It would be most helpful to teach him courage, to notice, praise and inspire him as the courageous young man he is. In every circumstance possible point out his courage, this is how you can be most helpful to him at this time. You are very strong and must join your son in a leap of faith that all will be well in it’s own time.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:Spirit Reader, why is everything is going wrong? For the past 6 months we've been trying to rectify all the wrong paperwork falsified by my deceased husband's cousins. We have all the court orders yet nothing is happening. Even the certified mails containing legal documents are disappearing in thin air and the post office is unable to trace them. When will these problems get resolved?

I see favorable news for you around income.
I keep seeing things about your career and a need for you to trust and step forward.
I see clear endings and beginnings . You really need to trust your gut feelings with what to do. It is best not to fight.
It is like you are mixed in with so many options, you may feel lost. Only you can choose but you must commit to one.
May 1st comes up as does spring and summer in general, as the weather warms I would expect resolution to come.

- the spirit reader

Thank you dearly and kindly to those of you sending greetings and love, all of the same from me to you.

I will come back later (when I can) to answer the two of you that just posted.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:Hello! Just wondering if I should move forward with our plans for this summer.

Yes, embrace the unknown. There will be some disappointment but be confident that nothing of importance has been lost. Have faith, step outside. This comes through very strongly, and again when I asked again. You will find great satisfaction.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit reader,

I am having a very bad situation with my parents, which are sick and in their 70’s. I have stopped my life to help them everyday for the last six months, but I am
At a point that I want to cut them off my life. But I don’t think I should do it. Not sure how to proceed.

Hugs dear one. I absolutely see you embarking on a new future. You are already in the boat rowing away, and you have a guide with you. Let the waters carry you.

There are many dark and murky circumstances in your past. Ask for help and allow for assistance to appear. This will free you from the drama and you will be given many new opportunities for healing and comfort.

Let the boat carry you, the waters ahead are calm. You mustn’t look back at this moment. This decision is the worst of the obstacles and it has now passed! Shed your past and resume your soul journey. Step by step tread gently, but allow yourself to stay centered in your path forward. Focus on this, not the path away if that makes sense. You deserve this and are worthy of your time and utmost care.

You are more powerful than you realize, though you may be feeling a victim of this circumstance. Continue to speak your truth to yourself and others, this will help remind you of how strong you really are.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:DCUM Spirit Reader - Will this be a better year this year? Last year was really hard. Will I get my life together this year?

Yes, absolutely, this comes through strongly. I see you with much individual accomplishment, standing surely and peacefully. You have mastered many ever-increasing challenges, I see that and send you hugs and warmth. I see you being at a powerful place of completion, I see lots of nines. I see much fulfillment.

It is important that you connect with nature and spend lots of time outdoors. Frequent brief strolls throughout the day will help, and bring more of nature inside with plants, fountains and stone. I see much positivity in autumn, where this will all seem so far behind you, and the space between now in then is filled with many steps of growth. You can enjoy these steps and obstacles.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader - welcome back! There is someone who moved me as no other person has but I was sure he was the wrong person for me. Was he?

It is important to befriend the grief, but not wallow in it. I see a strong tug towards disillusionment, you are wise to stick by your convictions that this relationship was not meant to progress. There is really no such thing as meeting the wrong person, for everyone we meet is for a purpose, but from what I see there were many flaws and imperfections, and this end is significant but only a partial loss, for there is much to be gained for you here.

You need to keep one foot on solid ground. Look for a connection that meets you, that allows you to feel in your center and empowered. Whenever there is an early feeling of losing or wanting to lose yourself in another, or being moved in a deep way, there is a good chance that something else happening.

I suggest a retreat of sorts, a spiritual journey if you can travel somewhere comfortably or even just in your home.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:Dear SR, I went to an open house today. Was the house haunted? And what can you tell me about the spirits? Will they like my family?

I see a quiet space. I see much difficulty and despair but most of it is behind you. You are in need of some rest. That is all I see at the moment.

- the spirit reader

thespiritreader wrote:

Anonymous wrote:SR - I made an appointment today for my son to go see a counselor. Are his problems as bad as they seem? Will he grow up to be healthy mentally? Thank you for your talents!

I see your son benefiting from more information about his situation. It will help him greatly to understand there are others who feel the same way and to understand some of the common features and characteristics of people who walk through these challenges. It is wise and supportive of you to book a session for him. I see an excellent therapist there waiting for him, if it is not this immediate one, move on quickly for absolutely one is there who can mentor him through this and make a very positive impression in his life. It is my feeling that the right person is already there. I see your son with a future as a spiritual teacher, healer or counselor. Often children who have this calling will have adverse experiences, this can help them in a way to understand what it is like to feel in the pit of despair, as a point of healing in the future for when he is working with others.

- the spirit reader

oops, I meant to add this for you xo

My advice for you is to dream a little. He can’t right now, but you can. Wonder ‘what if’ or ‘what else could be’. It is important that your expectations remain movable, that they are bendable and shiftable. Be truly curious.

Anonymous wrote:SR - I made an appointment today for my son to go see a counselor. Are his problems as bad as they seem? Will he grow up to be healthy mentally? Thank you for your talents!

I see your son benefiting from more information about his situation. It will help him greatly to understand there are others who feel the same way and to understand some of the common features and characteristics of people who walk through these challenges. It is wise and supportive of you to book a session for him. I see an excellent therapist there waiting for him, if it is not this immediate one, move on quickly for absolutely one is there who can mentor him through this and make a very positive impression in his life. It is my feeling that the right person is already there. I see your son with a future as a spiritual teacher, healer or counselor. Often children who have this calling will have adverse experiences, this can help them in a way to understand what it is like to feel in the pit of despair, as a point of healing in the future for when he is working with others.

- the spirit reader