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Anonymous wrote:Dear Spirit Reader,
I found out about an amazing opportunity in another state for one of my children. The issue is it would also cause a lot of heartbreak for other family members as well as initially be emotionally challenging for me and the children. What should I do?
You have suffered more than your share of sorrow. You are fiercely devoted to your loved ones, and it is essential that you do as you always do and nurture these ideas and conversations with crystal clarity, using reliable facts and candid (if not harsh) honesty.
I do see short-lived happiness and harsh truth.
You have much power and grace, and great wisdom. Carry forward with the sharpness of your clarity on all of the issues at hand, but do not be argumentative. Others do not see you as warm but when great wisdom is distilled from sorrow and joy this can be how it manifests.
You must move on, this is not impossible.
I see mental traps.
Ask for what you want, or ask for something better, just ask.
- the spirit reader
Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader, I what do I need to do to find the inner strength to speak up , to communicate with people I need to. How can I finally become who I’m meant to be. Is it courage I lack , and if so how do I find it? How do I pull myself out of this confusion?
It is lovely to read you.
I see you with much earthly abundance, and bright potential. It is as if you are experiencing spiritual poverty, and it is time for you to nourish yourself and create something new. How lovely!
It is best for you to carry gentle reminders to stay grounded. Imagine you are a great tall oak tree. Stand on the ground and imagine your feet have roots that grow all through the earth. You are mighty and powerful and though the wind may sway you a little, you stand tall and are very comfortable taking up much space. Your arms stretch out to find the exact nourishment you need automatically, there is no need to try so hard for you are simply fulfilling your nature. The sun and earth support you equally.
I would use some quality essential oils of fir or spruce, juniper may be well as well, and you are protected through standing tall.
You shine radiantly in all directions. It is okay that you do not feel this right now. That doesn’t change who you are. Practice grounding and you will find spiritual abundance.
Surrender and flow, there is no immediate need to take tough action and make things happen. You do not need to strive here. The bigger plan WILL be achieved. Let go of your expectations and trust.
- the spirit reader
Anonymous wrote:Will we buy a home this year?
I see impending opportunity, but also self-indulgence and idealism. It is as if you must come back down, and let go of some of the ideas.
This will yield you a fresh approach and long term success.
There is much power and energy present to move you forward with what you want, but there are cloudy pieces – perceptions, conversations, dreams, and ideas. These are subjective. Clarity is coming but you must use more reflection than force. Pay close attention to your words and your thoughts.
I don’t specifically see a new house. I do see a new way of having conversations and moving forward by embracing reality. It is my feeling that you will buy a new house before summer and I see many flowers and a strong vision of a new kitchen table or area where you will come together many a time, there is much joy here.
- the spirit reader
Anonymous wrote:NP.. Spirit Reader can you do a reading for me? I am going through some changes in my life now especially career wise. I feel these are good changes, but would like your input.
I see that it is time to release stagnant energy, that you have carried too much for too long and it has become burdensome. Use the lessons you have learned to fix the situation and restore balance. It absolutely is time for you to step towards your goals. Practice daily, even just a few minutes. Practice in front of a mirror, whether it is skills, expressions, mannerisms, seeing yourself as you wish to be. This will increase your confidence.
I see loss and grief, but it is only partial and will pass fairly swiftly.
I see a period of everything coming together and enhanced experiences of love.
- the spirit reader
Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader, it’s good to see you back and I hope all is well with you.
I’ve been going through a rough time recently with some family dynamics. I was wondering if you can see how it’s going to play out or if there will be any relief at all. I’m sorry to bother you with this but would be thankful for any insight you can provide.
Yes, I am doing just fine, thank you.
I see guidance coming, as if it is a compass to right your course. Unexpected help and assistance is on its way to you. I see healing, hope and reconciliation though this may just be within yourself. You must commit and stay focused on what is most important to you right now. There are many possibilities and potential futures, you get to choose, but all is well. There is also a glowing reminder from the universe that everything is in order and occurs in its own time.
For the others, I see them as emotionally stagnant, and disillusioned. Stewing in their emotions with the inability to see the options present. This is their choice. There is much self pity and stagnation.
I see for you to walk away, it is safe for you to do so. Whatever is rising in your heart, release it and you will be given many blessings.
- the spirit reader
Thank you all sending love and gratitude and many warm welcomes to those of you thanking me <3
This is all I have time for tonight but I will come back to pg28 when I can.
- the spirit reader
This is all I have time for tonight but I will come back to pg28 when I can.
- the spirit reader
Anonymous wrote:Hi spirit reader. After a miscarriage and a medical termination in the past year. I’m feeling hopeless regarding more children. In my heart I just don’t feel “done”. But the heartache is so hard. (We struggled and had intervention previously, but these babies were natural)
I see you triumphing over obstacles.
You have angels very close with you and this is what I see being urged forward in you.
You must give to yourself! Relax, you have been working ceaselessly juggling many people’s interests. It is time to treat yourself with as many luxuries as you can. Your soul is tired and wants some rest, now is time to pamper yourself as if it is your greatest mission.
It is a good time. It is like your entire life is being rebirthed. There will be many changes and new situations. You are safe and very loved. I see a new territory ahead of you.
Again I see a new and very different direction.
I really see a whole new life ahead of you. It’s not exactly clear right now how a new baby may tie into that. But there is much excitement at these coming changes. And many words coming in, like birth and incubation and push.
Lots of love!
-the spirit reader
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,
My mom and grandma rejected me....didn’t attend my wedding, never met my kids. My grandma recently passed. Did she really want nothing to do with me all these years? Or was my mom making it impossible for her to communicate? Did she get my letters and packages and did they make her happy at all? Did she think my children were precious, did she look at the pictures of them? Why didn’t she ever answer me?
Does my mom really hate me? Does she think about me and wonder how I am?
Thank you, truly, for anything you can tell me.
-S
Hi Spirit Reader, I know so many need you now, I just wondered if you see anything for me, primarily around my Grandmother. I thought maybe my mom was keeping her from being able to communicate with me and that after grandma passed maybe I’d get some sign from her, but I see and feel nothing and it’s been months.
Thank you for reposting.
There certainly is some heavy energy around all of this.
You are very close to refuge, but at the moment, unable to really feel or receive it.
You must remember that separation and exile (which is what I see) is an opportunity to accept your current reality, center yourself, and find strength. It is from a place of quiet that you can assess what is truly important.
You are at a crossroads, and there is an opportunity here for you to find your spiritual strength. These opportunities do not come lightly. Yours has come in a very significant impossible not to feel way. But it is here that you will find renewed courage, change for the better, peace of mind and evolution of spirit.
These are great gifts, though the pain is so great right now and I understand it does not feel very gift like. But this is how deep healing goes. So much as there is pain, there is the same space and capacity for love and light.
A precious misfortune that has essentially cut you wide open but exposed the very depths of your feeling alone and afraid for you to heal.
Dear one they are victims of their own pasts, their own programming and unable to see. They are trapped and unable to consciously understand or know love. Instantly at passing your grandmother would remember sweet one so do not fret for she is freed now. Your grandmother is sending you blessings but you will be unable to feel them until you have felt through the pain. The lifetime of pain caused by their inabilities and their behavior. It has hurt so much and now it is time to find your youngest self, to heal and love and cuddle her, to sing her lullabies and tell her she is beautiful and amazing just exactly as she is. Love her, be with the pain she has felt and watch your life transform. Imagine anything she would like to do and hold her hand and cradle her. She is so very, very worthy. Talk to her, whisper into her ear how special she is.
The blessing your grandma is strengthening and sending you now is the push you are feeling, the need to heal. The opening of your heart state. Sweetheart you could have carried on in that old way, in great suffering of self and hate and pain. But you will not, you are here to heal this and in time you will find so much space and freedom, your heart will sing and your spirit will soar. You are beautiful.
With much love and courage to you, xo
- the spirit reader
Anonymous wrote:Dear Spirit Reader,
Is my spouse still cheating and/or lying? Should I get divorced? What path should my oldest son take? Do I have any deceased relatives or spirit guides watching out for me?
Thank you for sharing your gifts and your self!
I see you needing to be brave. I see you being betrayed, but now you have the advantage. You are apprehensive, but you will triumph. There is no further need for hesitation, you are ready to move forward.
This comes up so clearly and I send many hug and lots of love with the message: change, though necessary is often painful and this one will be felt for a long time. I see some devastation, beliefs being stripped away and fears realized. Do not deceive yourself. The loss of security (the ideal) will release so much pressure, this will be very welcome to you and your dear soul. Your soul craves equilibrium.
There is a very warm, devoted and compassionate mother figure around you. She is gifting you with much compassion and exceptional intuition. She knows your depth and what you are capable of, and most importantly she believes in you. She is very very close to you right now. Ask to feel her warmth whenever you need.
Schooling, education and study will be the best for your son at this time. The educational process will bring him great rewards and will accelerate his memory which will help him greatly in his future. He may be worried about finding the means, but it is truly worth it for him.
- the spirit reader
Anonymous wrote:Hi spirit reader, what professions do you foresee for my 2 children. I am obviously very worried about them? Any suggestions for my brother? What guidance do you have for him?
Your children are each on their own perfectly chosen lifepath. I can say that I see your one child very accomplished and successful through discipline and hard work. I see your other child very proficient at their work, a craftsman or someone who will feel much artistic pride for what they do. There are some clearer views but I feel that it is important not to share more at this point.
You are very dedicated to your family! Trust in your own abilities and embrace your unique way of being in the world.
I see your brother with a loss of security and around him, I see you with much doubt. There is deception. I see the possibility for smoother roads ahead but he needs some time alone.
Again I see trust coming up for you. This is something very special happening for you, as if you are being touched by your own light and love. Trust and rely on your own wisdom <3.
- the spirit reader
Anonymous wrote:Hi spirit reader,
I need some help adjusting my expectations for the future. I feel like I am swimming upstream.
I worry about my children, each for different reasons and as time passes the worry overwhelms me.
Is acceptance the way to peace and happiness? Are there things that are still in motion to change? Every time I lean into acceptance I am pulled to say “no this isn’t right” but as the years pass and my situation hasn’t changed much I wonder if resistance is fueling my unhappiness.
Thank you so much for your guidance
I see the need for an end to an outdated way of being and thinking. You must learn to surrender, to forgive yourself and others, and to liberate yourself from the past.
This old, old way of thinking is no longer useful for you and this is positive that you have recognized this – it shows a sign of growth.
You are at an ending, which also means a new beginning.
Surrender the days of worrying and feeling the need for structured results. Peace and happiness (joy) come when we realize they have been inside us all along. We wouldn’t long for something we didn’t already intimately know. Why do you feel you must worry? Did you see your parents worry, does it feel like this is the only way to well? What might happen if you didn’t worry, what are you afraid of? Does it seem like everything would crack apart? Maybe it is time to try it and see.
Next time the worries and what ifs start, take a breath, for this is only your mind trying to keep you safe and prepared. But it is time for a new way. Place your hand on your heart, breathe, feel and say whatever comes! We are well, I am safe, I am okay exactly as I am right now, I embody life and life always works for me, -- those are some examples, but anything you like will work just fine. Lots of love,
- the spirit reader
Anonymous wrote:Hi, Spirit Reader. I wonder if you could give me some guidance on my son. This pandemic has been hard, and his relationship with his father has been even harder on him. And he's depressed, I think. But really not finding his way, as much as I try to help. Am I missing a better way to help him? Will he find his way and be happy and kind again?
Love is not always convenient, easy or painless! I see that it is very important to trust your heart when you are helping him. Follow your heart, not your mind. Let your love for him be first and foremost - not protecting him from x, stopping y, guiding him to z.
Your son is level-headed and he will be able to see his father objectively. It is hard for him because he also loves his father and sees parts of himself in him. But you need not be concerned, for your son will adjust his priorities and find balance. You can help him by speaking truth when your son is confused, affirming his feelings.
Depression comes when we cannot accept things. When we lack acceptance for ourselves and our feelings, for our views and our choices, for our experiences we can feel some depression. Sometimes it is hard to accept ourselves not being able to accept the treatment of another. So if your son finds his father difficult, and feels badly around him, but is not quite ready to accept this, he will feel some depression. He might feel this is bad, or that he could do better.
You can help model this for him by accepting things in your own life. You can help affirm him whenever you can in all his relationships, that his discernment is alive and functioning well.
He will come through. I really see a lot of balance being restored and as it has come up in two different ways, I see this happening fairly soon.
- the spirit reader
Anonymous wrote:Dear Spirit Reader,
I don’t have any questions, I just want to say thank you for sharing your gift. It must be a heavy weight to carry sometimes. Thank you.
It is tricky to find the balance between developing myself and my own healing work and growth, and my desire to connect with spirit in aiding in the helping and healing of others. But I have come quite far in my own journeys and am experiencing a great deal of opening up for me and the work that I can do.
The crux for some as healers is healing self first before putting the focus and care into others. Now that I have found more of my own way, I am more able to give joyously and freely, and find it rejuvenating and easier to balance than I did in the past when it would leave me feeling more tired.
Lots of love and care to you,
- the spirit reader
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Dear Spirit Reader,
How can I look within to find my answers? Is my mother telling the truth about my father? Will I ever have a happy and loving romantic relationship? Can I trust the man I am with, or is he deceitful? Should I walk away from this relationship without looking back ? Will I ever find true companionship?
Images are hard to see right now.
Will I completely recover from my illness and have a meaningful profession with financial stability?
Will my daughter be okay in life?
I have so many concerns, I go from anxiety to complete disassociation as a form of relief. You helped me before, and I am praying you can help me again.
I call on angels, but don’t know what to ask. I plead for help but don’t know what I need. I feel lost and unsettled, knowing doesn’t bring peace, and so much loss makes it so hard for me to cherish love without fearing its absence again.
Thank you for hearing me again. I didn’t want to bother you again, but I don’t know where else to go right now.
I can see that you are at a door, like a cosmic door and there is a part of you that is hesitant to step through it. I send you much love, care and compassion, it is hard to take these steps and look at what you are facing, for it brings up exactly what you are feeling right now.
One day it will all make sense but right now this is how it feels. You are not alone, truly you are never alone. What you are experiencing is parts of you that desperately want and need to be seen by you. They want to be healed. The difficulty is when we begin to feel consumed by these parts, that these parts are us. They are not. They are a wounded part of us, not your True Self. Your True self is Love and connection to all that is. Anything that feels otherwise is separation, and can be healed, but this is a different type of healing than just changing your circumstances.
Sometimes changing our circumstances is necessary for further healing, for example leaving a relationship that no longer serves us and keeps us in states of fight/flight/freeze.
Healing is a vulnerable state and it takes much courage to walk, and I can tell that you are very brave to allow these parts to surface.
My suggestion is to connect deeply to the feelings. So when you feel 'lost' ask yourself with much love what this is about. Sometimes it helps to find an age. Often you will feel this feeling in a part of your body. When did you first feel the feeling 'lost'? How old was she? When you go to her, perhaps something fits. This part of you will have a wish. What would she like to do? Is there a place she would like to go? Any place she can imagine. Take her there, be with her. If she wants to run away, run with her. Be her loving parent. When she feels safe, allow the energy of the trauma out. However feels best, you can throw it into an imaginary fire, bury it in the ground, let the wind carry it away, or let water wash it away. You have an infinite wisdom inside you, a loving intelligence and even when it feels dark, you are always connected to your Higher Self and it is this loving intelligence that will help you to heal, and truly then your life will unfold in magnificently beautiful and connected ways.
Go slowly, there is no rush.
I do not have space to respond to your specific queries at this present moment, but can share this for now in the hope it helps you find your way through. With lots of love and healing light to you, you are on the path.
- the spirit reader
Dear Spirit Reader,
I’m almost 6 months out from this post and so much has changed and continues to change. Thank you for helping my navigation in what has been a long spiritual journey. I do feel a gradual sense of renewal and am beginning to understand how this child inside seeks care. I’ve been fortunate tonconnect with people who’ve helped support this process.
There is a man i met at the start of a different season that has reappeared after my most recent romantic relationship was voided, for lack of a better word and to acknowledge the place where we met. It was painful to go through that — so abrupt and I’m even more protective of my child because of it. I feel a very intense spiritual connection with this person that I’ve reconnected with, but I’m not clear on whether this is something platonic or with potential long term for my soul’s greatest rejoicing and place to share that. I am concerned and want to trust my decision making but also respect what is good and not be naive about my past, given what you can surely see ive been working through. I am continuing work on myself and picking up the pieces ans trying to rebuild all that was lost in materiel terms— but any insight on this particular man and how I should proceed with allowing a personal relationship to further build along the way would be appreciated. I don’t want a good choice I want to make the best choice with the most optimal outcome for the greatest good. I believe that can be possible without anyone having to hurt or lack. In the past my decisions are often influenced unconsciously and I want to be as informed as I can. I want a picture that I’ve been disappointed in for so long, and I don’t want to be deceived.
Thank you for helping me find hope again during my darkest hour. You are part of a small few that spoke life back into a situation where I had lost it. Thank you as always for your loving kindness. If there is any advice you can give on repairing my daily circumstances I would also appreciate what you are willing to share.
Thank you!!! Big big big hugs and lots of love to you and yours. God bless you.
You are doing so wonderfully and your progress is beautiful to witness. This is not easy work yet such a gift to yourself.
I see this man as a challenge. One that you are prepared to stand before. Trust your concern dear. And there are no ‘misses’ in life. Right now, you need your most focus and care. Surrender and flow, do not try to make anything happen. I see you as a very sweet soul, beautifully rising. You don’t need to swim to the destination (often against the current). You can trust the waves of life will carry you there precisely when the time is right.
I feel that if you step aside from this person and keep your focus on developing such a love and connection with your own soul, you will naturally attract and follow the brightest of paths and people along the way, so much greater than trying to make and see if you can get this person to fit. What you seek truly is seeking you.
You are so very clear right now, trust!! Many blessings to you my dear and lots and lots of love and great big warm hugs from me to you.
- the spirit reader
Anonymous wrote:Dear spirit reader -
I have been dreaming of a family. Both immediate and extended. There are pictures in my head of what it should look like, and my heart is starting to follow. Am I wrong?
Hello, this is what comes up for you. Listen to your dreams! Your dreams are here to activate your great passion, do not be afraid of this, your passion is what will propel you naturally to what will excite and invigorate you.
Do not be concerned about pleasing others, find the parts of you that you sometimes try to ignore and let go of being overly concerned of others and what they think.
Reach out, extend your arms to embrace your dreams. They are as much of a part of nature as the plants, animals and sunsets. Give your dreams the same respect that you give to everyone else.
Listen to the sound of your heart and your breath. Feel your rhythms. Do this daily. xo
- the spirit reader