Anonymous wrote:Hmmm...
Well, congratulations to anyone with a baby or toddler.

I know, over the years, we’ve had the DCUM Psychic, the spirit reader, and someone who was, I think, a psychic medium.

I wish you all well. My post about my eldest keeps getting quoted... maybe I’ll just try to talk to her therapist while you guys duke it out!

Hello and thank you for your patience. I read your initial post, I felt clarity to respond but wanted more time to see if something stronger would come through about your daughter. Then when what I felt was ill advice came in from a poster claiming to be spirit reader/reading spirit I took further space for this bothered me, especially with a child at heart. I do not feel this would help your daughter at all, she is not depressed even if it looks that way sometimes. I will answer now if you would like to read it.

This is what I saw: you have much yellow and gold light around you, and I see you as a tiger mother. Even though you say you do not know what to do, you do know. It is my feeling that you know that more consequences would not help, but you are doubting yourself and there is a struggle, for there is a family legacy at play that you are looking to right and change. Yet its roots are in you and around you both. Again, there is much brightness in your future and abundance in your mothering relationship with your daughter and you know what will help.

Stand firmly and take long deep breaths, letting each inhale fill your whole body with warmth, and let each exhale fall around you in a way that is soothing and comforting to you. Imagine that your feet are planted into the ground, growing long roots deep down into the earth. Imagine yourself in a forest, one of many mother trees among others and lean in for strength and knowing that will come in glimpses and steps from inside you.

I can see that you have a habit of wanting to help others and that this leaves you feeling guilty, tired or resentful. Your daughter feels at the bottom of your list. I see her needing gentle coaxing spiritually (not in words), mostly needing your steady presence and your attention in your home as a whole. Worry or stress and resulting anger when you feel helpless to help is something you need to release before you interact with her, you must be very disciplined about this. Ask the angels around her to help her with her school. She has something she would like to talk about with you but feels hesitant as she sees you being very up and down in availability and the issue is vulnerable for her. Let go of the pressure on yourself, she chose you as her mother and you are enough. She would like to receive more of your perfectly imperfect parenting.

- the spirit reader

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Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,

My eldest is really struggling. I don’t know whether to push her and give her consequences or to support her and let this play out with continued therapy and treatment. She is still in her room “getting dressed” (it is a bit after noon) and is so far behind on her schoolwork. I don’t know how to rebuild my relationship with her or help her out of this rut. I end up feeling angry. Everything that seems reasonable to me feels really harsh to her.

How can I best help her?

You need to focus her attention outward as she is ruminating too much in her own mind. She needs to do good work in the world and her schoolwork will follow. Find a way to get her out to help others; she will bloom. Go with her if you must, at first.

You aren’t the real spirit reader. You smell of beef and cheese.




Good advice though.

Yep - because I am the real spirit reader. Still dealing with a very busy toddler. But I hope to get back to reading again this summer. If I did this thread now, I would not be able to give everyone the attention they deserve.

I know it is obvious to most that have read my responses (and/or can feel my energy) that it was not me who answered this poster. I find it unusual that someone would elect to say they are me. I imagine this is why others who choose a sign off on this site eventually opt to create a user name. So I have done just that. I care greatly for what I do and those of you who reach out and now it can be clear who is responding, if a request was directed to me. xo with love

- the spirit reader

Hi - that was me and I hope you can also feel my energy. This original thread was started back in June of 2020 in response to a reading I had done about a year or so before (there was a very long thread and I answered a lot of posters). I disappeared for a long time and then popped up at some point in this thread to respond that I had had a baby and just didn't have time to read and see another long thread to the end. It looks like since that time other readers, including you, have began reading for posters, which is fine. I just want people to know that I was the original one from way back then but I am *not* the person who is reading in this thread. Now that you have an account, there should be no confusion. Peace.

I opt not to, it is dark to me. I am the only one to call themselves spirit reader here, and began doing readings here in 2018. I just feel people should know who they are interacting with , sometimes when caught up in difficulty and separated from our own intuitive knowing it's not so clear. So I wish to address this with clarity. You are not the original 'spirit reader'. Stop claiming to be me, or that you were me in the past.

- the spirit reader

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Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,

My eldest is really struggling. I don’t know whether to push her and give her consequences or to support her and let this play out with continued therapy and treatment. She is still in her room “getting dressed” (it is a bit after noon) and is so far behind on her schoolwork. I don’t know how to rebuild my relationship with her or help her out of this rut. I end up feeling angry. Everything that seems reasonable to me feels really harsh to her.

How can I best help her?

You need to focus her attention outward as she is ruminating too much in her own mind. She needs to do good work in the world and her schoolwork will follow. Find a way to get her out to help others; she will bloom. Go with her if you must, at first.

You aren’t the real spirit reader. You smell of beef and cheese.




Good advice though.

Yep - because I am the real spirit reader. Still dealing with a very busy toddler. But I hope to get back to reading again this summer. If I did this thread now, I would not be able to give everyone the attention they deserve.

I know it is obvious to most that have read my responses (and/or can feel my energy) that it was not me who answered this poster. I find it unusual that someone would elect to say they are me. I imagine this is why others who choose a sign off on this site eventually opt to create a user name. So I have done just that. I care greatly for what I do and those of you who reach out and now it can be clear who is responding, if a request was directed to me. xo with love

- the spirit reader