Hi DCUM spirit reader,

I read these threads but have never posted. If you are around and have the inclination I would love some advice. I feel like I dont trust my decisions about career moves and am facing some possible changes. Thoughts on whether any of these may come to fruition and is it worth all the change? and which one? how will it affect our family? esp our kids and esp my son, who I worry about?

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Anonymous wrote:Dear Spirit Reader,
Thank you for your guidance. I am at a turning point in my career and unsure of my next steps. My husband lost his job 2x during a 6 month period and suffers from terrible anxiety. I can't let go of the negative emotions that he will lose it again. Any guidance for us? Also feeling very unsure of my friend group / social standing. Trivial problems, appreciate your insight.

Fresh perspective and new ideas will appear in quiet space. Sometimes our mind can play tricks on us, and we get caught up in imagining hopeful dashing rescues or a tragic demise. There is much more to life than those two extremes.

You are well-prepared and trained and there are some bold steps you will need to take. Your motivation feels dull right now but you have much potential to shine brightly.

Approach all of these issues practically and you will slowly start to come back in touch with your inner excitement.

You need to spend more time alone.

Again I see these extremes, like fire and ice. You must be the water. Holding on to anything does not work, it is not who we are and we are unable to sustain it. Find the water. If you can, spend time in bodies of water. You will get through this and find much strength as you do. Your view of your friend has been altered. It may seem easier to make this about them, but truly this is about you and what you want in your life. Again, spend time alone, create retreats for yourself and watch the world carry on all on its own as the beauty that is you begins to more fully emerge.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dear Spirit Reader,

How can I look within to find my answers? Is my mother telling the truth about my father? Will I ever have a happy and loving romantic relationship? Can I trust the man I am with, or is he deceitful? Should I walk away from this relationship without looking back ? Will I ever find true companionship?

Images are hard to see right now.

Will I completely recover from my illness and have a meaningful profession with financial stability?

Will my daughter be okay in life?

I have so many concerns, I go from anxiety to complete disassociation as a form of relief. You helped me before, and I am praying you can help me again.

I call on angels, but don’t know what to ask. I plead for help but don’t know what I need. I feel lost and unsettled, knowing doesn’t bring peace, and so much loss makes it so hard for me to cherish love without fearing its absence again.

Thank you for hearing me again. I didn’t want to bother you again, but I don’t know where else to go right now.

I can see that you are at a door, like a cosmic door and there is a part of you that is hesitant to step through it. I send you much love, care and compassion, it is hard to take these steps and look at what you are facing, for it brings up exactly what you are feeling right now.

One day it will all make sense but right now this is how it feels. You are not alone, truly you are never alone. What you are experiencing is parts of you that desperately want and need to be seen by you. They want to be healed. The difficulty is when we begin to feel consumed by these parts, that these parts are us. They are not. They are a wounded part of us, not your True Self. Your True self is Love and connection to all that is. Anything that feels otherwise is separation, and can be healed, but this is a different type of healing than just changing your circumstances.

Sometimes changing our circumstances is necessary for further healing, for example leaving a relationship that no longer serves us and keeps us in states of fight/flight/freeze.

Healing is a vulnerable state and it takes much courage to walk, and I can tell that you are very brave to allow these parts to surface.

My suggestion is to connect deeply to the feelings. So when you feel 'lost' ask yourself with much love what this is about. Sometimes it helps to find an age. Often you will feel this feeling in a part of your body. When did you first feel the feeling 'lost'? How old was she? When you go to her, perhaps something fits. This part of you will have a wish. What would she like to do? Is there a place she would like to go? Any place she can imagine. Take her there, be with her. If she wants to run away, run with her. Be her loving parent. When she feels safe, allow the energy of the trauma out. However feels best, you can throw it into an imaginary fire, bury it in the ground, let the wind carry it away, or let water wash it away. You have an infinite wisdom inside you, a loving intelligence and even when it feels dark, you are always connected to your Higher Self and it is this loving intelligence that will help you to heal, and truly then your life will unfold in magnificently beautiful and connected ways.

Go slowly, there is no rush.

I do not have space to respond to your specific queries at this present moment, but can share this for now in the hope it helps you find your way through. With lots of love and healing light to you, you are on the path.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:Spirit Reader, why is everything is going wrong? For the past 6 months we've been trying to rectify all the wrong paperwork falsified by my deceased husband's cousins. We have all the court orders yet nothing is happening. Even the certified mails containing legal documents are disappearing in thin air and the post office is unable to trace them. When will these problems get resolved?

Anonymous wrote:So good to see you are back dear Spirit Reader!

I literally wake from sleeping with worries about my oldest son.

Will he be okay? I mean, will he have stability, career, happiness? He’s always been a challenging kid, risky behaviors, learning disabilities, and growth issues. I worry about his mental health but he insists he’s fine.

Any thoughts you can share would be so helpful. Thank you.

Anonymous wrote:Hello spirit reader,

I hope you and your loved ones have been well, and it is so nice to see you here again.

I’d appreciate any guidance or advice that you would be willing to offer. The strange and sometimes wonderful experiences and synchronicities that occurred from late 2018 until summer 2020 seem to have stopped, and at times I find myself doubting they happened, though part of me knows I didn’t imagine it all.

How do I move forward when outwardly my life is so much the same, but inwardly I feel so different from before? I’m wondering what I am supposed to do with my life.

Also, if you have any insights about my daughter and/or how to help her, I’d appreciate that as well.

Thank you so much

Anonymous wrote:Hello again spirit reader. I asked about a family move to florida. Our dear friends are moving there and i long to join them. If you have any guidance I would be truly grateful. This last year has been so hard for us. Thank you! Blessings!

Anonymous wrote:Dear SR-

My sisters and I have been estranged for years. Will our sisterly relationships ever be reconciled?

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,
I’ve had two miscarriages over the past six months. Will I ever have children?
Thank you very much!

Anonymous wrote:Dear SR, just reposting this in case you have any insights. Thank you!

Hi DCUM spirit reader,

I read these threads but have never posted. If you are around and have the inclination I would love some advice. I feel like I dont trust my decisions about career moves and am facing some possible changes. Thoughts on whether any of these may come to fruition and is it worth all the change? and which one? how will it affect our family? esp our kids and esp my son, who I worry about?