DCUM Psychic, Spirit Reader?

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[Post New]02/22/2021 16:34
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Anonymous wrote:Hmmm...
Well, congratulations to anyone with a baby or toddler.

I know, over the years, we’ve had the DCUM Psychic, the spirit reader, and someone who was, I think, a psychic medium.

I wish you all well. My post about my eldest keeps getting quoted... maybe I’ll just try to talk to her therapist while you guys duke it out!


Hello and thank you for your patience. I read your initial post, I felt clarity to respond but wanted more time to see if something stronger would come through about your daughter. Then when what I felt was ill advice came in from a poster claiming to be spirit reader/reading spirit I took further space for this bothered me, especially with a child at heart. I do not feel this would help your daughter at all, she is not depressed even if it looks that way sometimes. I will answer now if you would like to read it.

This is what I saw: you have much yellow and gold light around you, and I see you as a tiger mother. Even though you say you do not know what to do, you do know. It is my feeling that you know that more consequences would not help, but you are doubting yourself and there is a struggle, for there is a family legacy at play that you are looking to right and change. Yet its roots are in you and around you both. Again, there is much brightness in your future and abundance in your mothering relationship with your daughter and you know what will help.

Stand firmly and take long deep breaths, letting each inhale fill your whole body with warmth, and let each exhale fall around you in a way that is soothing and comforting to you. Imagine that your feet are planted into the ground, growing long roots deep down into the earth. Imagine yourself in a forest, one of many mother trees among others and lean in for strength and knowing that will come in glimpses and steps from inside you.

I can see that you have a habit of wanting to help others and that this leaves you feeling guilty, tired or resentful. Your daughter feels at the bottom of your list. I see her needing gentle coaxing spiritually (not in words), mostly needing your steady presence and your attention in your home as a whole. Worry or stress and resulting anger when you feel helpless to help is something you need to release before you interact with her, you must be very disciplined about this. Ask the angels around her to help her with her school. She has something she would like to talk about with you but feels hesitant as she sees you being very up and down in availability and the issue is vulnerable for her. Let go of the pressure on yourself, she chose you as her mother and you are enough. She would like to receive more of your perfectly imperfect parenting.

- the spirit reader
[Post New]02/22/2021 16:35
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Anonymous wrote:SR - I made an appointment today for my son to go see a counselor. Are his problems as bad as they seem? Will he grow up to be healthy mentally? Thank you for your talents!


I see your son benefiting from more information about his situation. It will help him greatly to understand there are others who feel the same way and to understand some of the common features and characteristics of people who walk through these challenges. It is wise and supportive of you to book a session for him. I see an excellent therapist there waiting for him, if it is not this immediate one, move on quickly for absolutely one is there who can mentor him through this and make a very positive impression in his life. It is my feeling that the right person is already there. I see your son with a future as a spiritual teacher, healer or counselor. Often children who have this calling will have adverse experiences, this can help them in a way to understand what it is like to feel in the pit of despair, as a point of healing in the future for when he is working with others.

- the spirit reader
[Post New]02/22/2021 16:36
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thespiritreader wrote:
Anonymous wrote:SR - I made an appointment today for my son to go see a counselor. Are his problems as bad as they seem? Will he grow up to be healthy mentally? Thank you for your talents!


I see your son benefiting from more information about his situation. It will help him greatly to understand there are others who feel the same way and to understand some of the common features and characteristics of people who walk through these challenges. It is wise and supportive of you to book a session for him. I see an excellent therapist there waiting for him, if it is not this immediate one, move on quickly for absolutely one is there who can mentor him through this and make a very positive impression in his life. It is my feeling that the right person is already there. I see your son with a future as a spiritual teacher, healer or counselor. Often children who have this calling will have adverse experiences, this can help them in a way to understand what it is like to feel in the pit of despair, as a point of healing in the future for when he is working with others.

- the spirit reader


oops, I meant to add this for you xo

My advice for you is to dream a little. He can’t right now, but you can. Wonder ‘what if’ or ‘what else could be’. It is important that your expectations remain movable, that they are bendable and shiftable. Be truly curious.
[Post New]02/22/2021 16:37
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Anonymous wrote:Dear SR, I went to an open house today. Was the house haunted? And what can you tell me about the spirits? Will they like my family?


I see a quiet space. I see much difficulty and despair but most of it is behind you. You are in need of some rest. That is all I see at the moment.

- the spirit reader
[Post New]02/22/2021 16:38
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Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader - welcome back! There is someone who moved me as no other person has but I was sure he was the wrong person for me. Was he?


It is important to befriend the grief, but not wallow in it. I see a strong tug towards disillusionment, you are wise to stick by your convictions that this relationship was not meant to progress. There is really no such thing as meeting the wrong person, for everyone we meet is for a purpose, but from what I see there were many flaws and imperfections, and this end is significant but only a partial loss, for there is much to be gained for you here.

You need to keep one foot on solid ground. Look for a connection that meets you, that allows you to feel in your center and empowered. Whenever there is an early feeling of losing or wanting to lose yourself in another, or being moved in a deep way, there is a good chance that something else happening.

I suggest a retreat of sorts, a spiritual journey if you can travel somewhere comfortably or even just in your home.

- the spirit reader
[Post New]02/22/2021 16:42
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Spirit Reader, why is everything is going wrong? For the past 6 months we've been trying to rectify all the wrong paperwork falsified by my deceased husband's cousins. We have all the court orders yet nothing is happening. Even the certified mails containing legal documents are disappearing in thin air and the post office is unable to trace them. When will these problems get resolved?
[Post New]02/22/2021 16:43
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Anonymous
So good to see you are back dear Spirit Reader!

I literally wake from sleeping with worries about my oldest son.

Will he be okay? I mean, will he have stability, career, happiness? He’s always been a challenging kid, risky behaviors, learning disabilities, and growth issues. I worry about his mental health but he insists he’s fine.

Any thoughts you can share would be so helpful. Thank you.
[Post New]02/22/2021 16:45
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Anonymous wrote:DCUM Spirit Reader - Will this be a better year this year? Last year was really hard. Will I get my life together this year?


Yes, absolutely, this comes through strongly. I see you with much individual accomplishment, standing surely and peacefully. You have mastered many ever-increasing challenges, I see that and send you hugs and warmth. I see you being at a powerful place of completion, I see lots of nines. I see much fulfillment.

It is important that you connect with nature and spend lots of time outdoors. Frequent brief strolls throughout the day will help, and bring more of nature inside with plants, fountains and stone. I see much positivity in autumn, where this will all seem so far behind you, and the space between now in then is filled with many steps of growth. You can enjoy these steps and obstacles.

- the spirit reader
[Post New]02/22/2021 16:47
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Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit reader,

I am having a very bad situation with my parents, which are sick and in their 70’s. I have stopped my life to help them everyday for the last six months, but I am
At a point that I want to cut them off my life. But I don’t think I should do it. Not sure how to proceed.


Hugs dear one. I absolutely see you embarking on a new future. You are already in the boat rowing away, and you have a guide with you. Let the waters carry you.

There are many dark and murky circumstances in your past. Ask for help and allow for assistance to appear. This will free you from the drama and you will be given many new opportunities for healing and comfort.

Let the boat carry you, the waters ahead are calm. You mustn’t look back at this moment. This decision is the worst of the obstacles and it has now passed! Shed your past and resume your soul journey. Step by step tread gently, but allow yourself to stay centered in your path forward. Focus on this, not the path away if that makes sense. You deserve this and are worthy of your time and utmost care.

You are more powerful than you realize, though you may be feeling a victim of this circumstance. Continue to speak your truth to yourself and others, this will help remind you of how strong you really are.

- the spirit reader
[Post New]02/22/2021 16:48
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Anonymous wrote:Hello! Just wondering if I should move forward with our plans for this summer.


Yes, embrace the unknown. There will be some disappointment but be confident that nothing of importance has been lost. Have faith, step outside. This comes through very strongly, and again when I asked again. You will find great satisfaction.

- the spirit reader
[Post New]02/22/2021 16:54
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Thank you dearly and kindly to those of you sending greetings and love, all of the same from me to you.

I will come back later (when I can) to answer the two of you that just posted.

- the spirit reader
[Post New]02/22/2021 16:56
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Anonymous
thespiritreader wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DCUM Spirit Reader - Will this be a better year this year? Last year was really hard. Will I get my life together this year?


Yes, absolutely, this comes through strongly. I see you with much individual accomplishment, standing surely and peacefully. You have mastered many ever-increasing challenges, I see that and send you hugs and warmth. I see you being at a powerful place of completion, I see lots of nines. I see much fulfillment.

It is important that you connect with nature and spend lots of time outdoors. Frequent brief strolls throughout the day will help, and bring more of nature inside with plants, fountains and stone. I see much positivity in autumn, where this will all seem so far behind you, and the space between now in then is filled with many steps of growth. You can enjoy these steps and obstacles.

- the spirit reader


Thank you!
[Post New]02/22/2021 17:26
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Anonymous
thespiritreader wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Hmmm...
Well, congratulations to anyone with a baby or toddler.

I know, over the years, we’ve had the DCUM Psychic, the spirit reader, and someone who was, I think, a psychic medium.

I wish you all well. My post about my eldest keeps getting quoted... maybe I’ll just try to talk to her therapist while you guys duke it out!


Hello and thank you for your patience. I read your initial post, I felt clarity to respond but wanted more time to see if something stronger would come through about your daughter. Then when what I felt was ill advice came in from a poster claiming to be spirit reader/reading spirit I took further space for this bothered me, especially with a child at heart. I do not feel this would help your daughter at all, she is not depressed even if it looks that way sometimes. I will answer now if you would like to read it.

This is what I saw: you have much yellow and gold light around you, and I see you as a tiger mother. Even though you say you do not know what to do, you do know. It is my feeling that you know that more consequences would not help, but you are doubting yourself and there is a struggle, for there is a family legacy at play that you are looking to right and change. Yet its roots are in you and around you both. Again, there is much brightness in your future and abundance in your mothering relationship with your daughter and you know what will help.

Stand firmly and take long deep breaths, letting each inhale fill your whole body with warmth, and let each exhale fall around you in a way that is soothing and comforting to you. Imagine that your feet are planted into the ground, growing long roots deep down into the earth. Imagine yourself in a forest, one of many mother trees among others and lean in for strength and knowing that will come in glimpses and steps from inside you.

I can see that you have a habit of wanting to help others and that this leaves you feeling guilty, tired or resentful. Your daughter feels at the bottom of your list. I see her needing gentle coaxing spiritually (not in words), mostly needing your steady presence and your attention in your home as a whole. Worry or stress and resulting anger when you feel helpless to help is something you need to release before you interact with her, you must be very disciplined about this. Ask the angels around her to help her with her school. She has something she would like to talk about with you but feels hesitant as she sees you being very up and down in availability and the issue is vulnerable for her. Let go of the pressure on yourself, she chose you as her mother and you are enough. She would like to receive more of your perfectly imperfect parenting.

- the spirit reader


Wow - thank you. Very timely as our joint therapy session starts shortly. I’ll make sure my head is in the right place first. And yes, consequences would be the conventional wisdom here, but it isn’t right for our situation.
[Post New]02/22/2021 17:26
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Anonymous
Hello spirit reader,

I hope you and your loved ones have been well, and it is so nice to see you here again.

I’d appreciate any guidance or advice that you would be willing to offer. The strange and sometimes wonderful experiences and synchronicities that occurred from late 2018 until summer 2020 seem to have stopped, and at times I find myself doubting they happened, though part of me knows I didn’t imagine it all.

How do I move forward when outwardly my life is so much the same, but inwardly I feel so different from before? I’m wondering what I am supposed to do with my life.

Also, if you have any insights about my daughter and/or how to help her, I’d appreciate that as well.

Thank you so much
[Post New]02/22/2021 17:38
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thespiritreader wrote:
thespiritreader wrote:
Anonymous wrote:SR - I made an appointment today for my son to go see a counselor. Are his problems as bad as they seem? Will he grow up to be healthy mentally? Thank you for your talents!


I see your son benefiting from more information about his situation. It will help him greatly to understand there are others who feel the same way and to understand some of the common features and characteristics of people who walk through these challenges. It is wise and supportive of you to book a session for him. I see an excellent therapist there waiting for him, if it is not this immediate one, move on quickly for absolutely one is there who can mentor him through this and make a very positive impression in his life. It is my feeling that the right person is already there. I see your son with a future as a spiritual teacher, healer or counselor. Often children who have this calling will have adverse experiences, this can help them in a way to understand what it is like to feel in the pit of despair, as a point of healing in the future for when he is working with others.

- the spirit reader


oops, I meant to add this for you xo

My advice for you is to dream a little. He can’t right now, but you can. Wonder ‘what if’ or ‘what else could be’. It is important that your expectations remain movable, that they are bendable and shiftable. Be truly curious.


This is resonates with me deeply- thank you for taking the time to respond and bless you
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