naming a person is hard. To be generous, maybe OP wants to get a sense of the types of things that are mistakes.

Wow, what is with some of these grandparents?? There are plenty of variations- gran, nana, granny (surname)... She already has someone to call her mom. Jesus. Her time is over. You're the mom.

I would enroll her a homeschool student, and have her do something academic, but it can be something that's fun for her and reasonable for you. That way when you return your ducks are in a row and there's no question that she's ready to move on to sixth.

Do you have any shared interests?

Focusing on something you do together is the best you can do. It doesn’t matter if it’s running, playing an instrument, whatever. Encourage her. Spend time with her

Some exams been canceled and students will be graded on their uploaded projects, like for Computer Science Principles.

Sounds like she still could have been an MD just not in a specialty that she wanted. How tragic that she could not see that.

No I don’t know what you mean. I’d be upset as hell.