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It seems from your description that your wife needs some help. If she doesn’t want to cooperate you might want to get a grip on why she is so protective of your dd in the meantime. Here is a book that might help you https://bit.ly/2Jc3bjU. Read it first and figure out if the author’s description fits your wife before you give it to her. And here is a book https://bit.ly/2q23u87 to help your daughter with coping. The situation it seems is just so complicated that you really need counseling for your daughter and you and your wife. I hope you give us some good news.
Hello There,
It’s confusing when everyone here is anonymous. I can’t tell whose saying what. But anyway, while your situation is really difficult, there is always something you can do. A good understanding of the dynamics of a good husband-wife relationship might help you start a fresh course. My wife and I read a book called "Love and Respect" by Dr. Eggerichs. It might help you as well. We have friends who actually attended one of their seminars and its a life changer. You can find the book here http://bit.ly/2GMksiM. They also have an audio version http://bit.ly/2GMFDRT. Consider reading it, it might help you get a new perspective and fresh approach to your situation. I hope it works for you. OreoTwin.
It’s confusing when everyone here is anonymous. I can’t tell whose saying what. But anyway, while your situation is really difficult, there is always something you can do. A good understanding of the dynamics of a good husband-wife relationship might help you start a fresh course. My wife and I read a book called "Love and Respect" by Dr. Eggerichs. It might help you as well. We have friends who actually attended one of their seminars and its a life changer. You can find the book here http://bit.ly/2GMksiM. They also have an audio version http://bit.ly/2GMFDRT. Consider reading it, it might help you get a new perspective and fresh approach to your situation. I hope it works for you. OreoTwin.
Hi There Mr Anonymous,
Like someone said here, your wife is awesome. You’ve been together 12 years, good communication and everything. You say you’re happy, contented and love your wife. Then don’t ruin everything. So many people are not even close to this good life that you have. Instead of dwelling on being single and that she doesn’t deserve you, enjoy it and appreciate it. Have you ever thought that maybe you’re thinking too far ahead and fear that one day this will all be gone, and you want to bail out while you’re ahead? Consider going to a pastor or a church counselor who can help you understand better the value of the blessings that you have before it is too late and you realize you had the best thing all along.
Like someone said here, your wife is awesome. You’ve been together 12 years, good communication and everything. You say you’re happy, contented and love your wife. Then don’t ruin everything. So many people are not even close to this good life that you have. Instead of dwelling on being single and that she doesn’t deserve you, enjoy it and appreciate it. Have you ever thought that maybe you’re thinking too far ahead and fear that one day this will all be gone, and you want to bail out while you’re ahead? Consider going to a pastor or a church counselor who can help you understand better the value of the blessings that you have before it is too late and you realize you had the best thing all along.