Anonymous wrote:For me it sucked, but after I divorced him I had some great sex!

Why was the sex better after divorce?

It depends. Do you know who he is with and where they are? Is he drinking and driving? Is he spending a lot of money?

Yea, you should of waited a little longer, so to hear he is being a jerk. Did he ever reply or call you?

You are in a very difficult relationship but you need to do what is best for you sometimes.

I am a guy, A.

If you have talked about it and he won't change, try going to counseling. If that does not work, end it.