Alright OP and PP a threesome may work this out..

Anybody saying "yay" should STFU. I have not experienced this and I hope I don't. If my DW cant hang/ give oral etc later in life she'd better be prepared for a more "open" arrangement. I would imagine you feel so much less of a man when this goes on and I can easily see how it rolls over into other parts of the marriage.

Was told I was "tight" at 25 worked my way around the beach bars just fine. Learned a thing or two about working out out smarter regularly easily hang with the 20 somethings at the gym who think they are tight now.

my 43 year old bride attends her 25th reunion this month. she weighs the same, looks like she is 30. I few old boyfriends may choke their drink when she walks in