Husband is turning 50 this year - has had ED for past 6 months
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Anonymous
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It works sometimes, doesn't work at all sometimes and he loses it during sometimes.
Psychological? Physical? What's your vote? |
Anonymous
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My vote is doctor.
And go from there. |
Anonymous
| Is he overweight? Definitely get his heart checked. Arteries could be blocked. |
Anonymous
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My vote is yay!
Seriously, he needs to consult an MD. |
Anonymous
| OP - he is otherwise 100% healthy - fit, exercise, no medication |
Anonymous
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OP here
He's been talking about his fear of turning 50 for years |
Anonymous
| Have him get checked. My bf had a slight ED issue, not one we worried about much. He died a few months ago of a heart attack, but was seemingly healthy otherwise. Don't mean to scare you but I just wish he had thought about seeing a doctor. |
Anonymous
Yay? That's cruel. |
Anonymous
He's not 100% healthy. He's fifty and is losing erections during sex. It's one thing to have an anxiety issue preventing you from getting it up, but losing it during sex seems potentially serious. He should see a doctor and make sure that he explains the issue so the doctor can recommend the right tests. |
Anonymous
How old was he? I'm sorry for your loss. |
Anonymous
Yay in that I won't be badgered for sex all the time, yes. Not yay for his health, obviously. Just being honest. |
Anonymous
Thats a really mean thing to say. OP - have him go to the doc and get checked out. Something like 50% of men over 40 have ED - so most likely everything is going to be fine. If his doc prescribes the blue pill you'll be in for some of the best sex you've had in years. |
Anonymous
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He should see a doctor, have a full physical etc. That doesn't sound normal.
To the PP whose BF died, I'm so sorry for your loss. |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
What about the blue pill would make their sex now better than the sex they had before ED and without the blue pill? |