Men: do you notice your wife aging?

[Anonymous]

Do you notice your wife aging? How do you feel about it?

[Anonymous]

I'm sure mine does. We went to a party (my younger sibling's) and most of the women were in their 20s. DH commented on how old "we" look. Yeah honey, right, you were looking in the mirror all night.

Anyway, it's part of life and better than the alternative!

[Anonymous]

My DH notices my aging (especially when I complain about my wrinkles! ) but it doesn't seem to phase him, thankfully - as long as I stay fit and healthy. When we watch movies, he tends to notice and appreciate beautiful older women, which is a shift as we've both aged.

[Anonymous]

Of course men notice. They have eyes. Women notice men aging too. My husband has wrinkles and his waist is spreading. Even his ball sack is more wrinkled than it used to be. He is in his 40s. Now, what one ascribes to that aging might differ according to how much one loves the person. To me, for the most part, my husband is becoming more seasoned and is aging like a fine wine. His belly chub is adorable and his wrinkles make his gaze warmer. When I am annoyed with him, however, I think he he needs a shot of botox and to get to a gym, haha.

[Anonymous]

My DH is getting hotter as he ages. It's so unfair!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Of course men notice. They have eyes. Women notice men aging too. My husband has wrinkles and his waist is spreading. Even his ball sack is more wrinkled than it used to be. He is in his 40s. Now, what one ascribes to that aging might differ according to how much one loves the person. To me, for the most part, my husband is becoming more seasoned and is aging like a fine wine. His belly chub is adorable and his wrinkles make his gaze warmer. When I am annoyed with him, however, I think he he needs a shot of botox and to get to a gym, haha.

[Anonymous]

I think my wife looks prettier at 39 than she did when I met her 20 years ago. That's some combination of her aging nicely and me being in love with her, I'm sure.

[Anonymous]

DH had a receding hairline and a beer gut in his mid thirties. He looked like he was ridden hard and put away wet.

[Anonymous]

I don't notice it day-to-day; only if we're looking at old photos of the kids that one of us is in.

[Anonymous]

Aging? No, I don't notice that at all.

Getting fat? Definitely!!!!

[Anonymous]

Yes, you can tell but she's still gorgeous and there's no way I could do better. I'm 43 and she's 42.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't notice it day-to-day; only if we're looking at old photos of the kids that one of us is in.

Same here for noticing. OP, I'm not sure what kind of answer you're looking for with regard to how I feel about it. We all get older right?

[Anonymous]

I notice and I am grateful that my DW is even sexier with each passing day (she just turned 40).

When we are out, I know I'm "that" lucky S.O.B. as all the men are lusting after her.

[Anonymous]

Of course I notice, and I don't mind. She is the most beautiful woman in the world.

[Anonymous]

I hope so. It means he's paying attention. But, he never says anything. I think he knows men shouldn't say such things. That would not go down well for the DH. DH doesn't seem to mind though, if I judge it by how much he still seems want me. I'm 44.