Thank you so much SR. much to think about! |
Hi Spirit Reader, it’s good to see you back and I hope all is well with you.
I’ve been going through a rough time recently with some family dynamics. I was wondering if you can see how it’s going to play out or if there will be any relief at all. I’m sorry to bother you with this but would be thankful for any insight you can provide. |
NP.. Spirit Reader can you do a reading for me? I am going through some changes in my life now especially career wise. I feel these are good changes, but would like your input. |
Will we buy a home this year? |
Hi Spirit Reader, I what do I need to do to find the inner strength to speak up , to communicate with people I need to. How can I finally become who I’m meant to be. Is it courage I lack , and if so how do I find it? How do I pull myself out of this confusion? |
Spirit reader, I greatly appreciate your energy and efforts on my behalf. Your guidance and encouragement are so helpful as I learn to integrate the new with the old, and to trust and allow this process to unfold. I always enjoy reading your posts to others as well, and have learned a great deal from them. Many blessings to you |
Love is not always convenient, easy or painless! I see that it is very important to trust your heart when you are helping him. Follow your heart, not your mind. Let your love for him be first and foremost - not protecting him from x, stopping y, guiding him to z. Your son is level-headed and he will be able to see his father objectively. It is hard for him because he also loves his father and sees parts of himself in him. But you need not be concerned, for your son will adjust his priorities and find balance. You can help him by speaking truth when your son is confused, affirming his feelings. Depression comes when we cannot accept things. When we lack acceptance for ourselves and our feelings, for our views and our choices, for our experiences we can feel some depression. Sometimes it is hard to accept ourselves not being able to accept the treatment of another. So if your son finds his father difficult, and feels badly around him, but is not quite ready to accept this, he will feel some depression. He might feel this is bad, or that he could do better. You can help model this for him by accepting things in your own life. You can help affirm him whenever you can in all his relationships, that his discernment is alive and functioning well. He will come through. I really see a lot of balance being restored and as it has come up in two different ways, I see this happening fairly soon. - the spirit reader |
I see the need for an end to an outdated way of being and thinking. You must learn to surrender, to forgive yourself and others, and to liberate yourself from the past. This old, old way of thinking is no longer useful for you and this is positive that you have recognized this – it shows a sign of growth. You are at an ending, which also means a new beginning. Surrender the days of worrying and feeling the need for structured results. Peace and happiness (joy) come when we realize they have been inside us all along. We wouldn’t long for something we didn’t already intimately know. Why do you feel you must worry? Did you see your parents worry, does it feel like this is the only way to well? What might happen if you didn’t worry, what are you afraid of? Does it seem like everything would crack apart? Maybe it is time to try it and see. Next time the worries and what ifs start, take a breath, for this is only your mind trying to keep you safe and prepared. But it is time for a new way. Place your hand on your heart, breathe, feel and say whatever comes! We are well, I am safe, I am okay exactly as I am right now, I embody life and life always works for me, -- those are some examples, but anything you like will work just fine. Lots of love, - the spirit reader |
Your children are each on their own perfectly chosen lifepath. I can say that I see your one child very accomplished and successful through discipline and hard work. I see your other child very proficient at their work, a craftsman or someone who will feel much artistic pride for what they do. There are some clearer views but I feel that it is important not to share more at this point. You are very dedicated to your family! Trust in your own abilities and embrace your unique way of being in the world. I see your brother with a loss of security and around him, I see you with much doubt. There is deception. I see the possibility for smoother roads ahead but he needs some time alone. Again I see trust coming up for you. This is something very special happening for you, as if you are being touched by your own light and love. Trust and rely on your own wisdom <3. - the spirit reader |
I see you needing to be brave. I see you being betrayed, but now you have the advantage. You are apprehensive, but you will triumph. There is no further need for hesitation, you are ready to move forward. This comes up so clearly and I send many hug and lots of love with the message: change, though necessary is often painful and this one will be felt for a long time. I see some devastation, beliefs being stripped away and fears realized. Do not deceive yourself. The loss of security (the ideal) will release so much pressure, this will be very welcome to you and your dear soul. Your soul craves equilibrium. There is a very warm, devoted and compassionate mother figure around you. She is gifting you with much compassion and exceptional intuition. She knows your depth and what you are capable of, and most importantly she believes in you. She is very very close to you right now. Ask to feel her warmth whenever you need. Schooling, education and study will be the best for your son at this time. The educational process will bring him great rewards and will accelerate his memory which will help him greatly in his future. He may be worried about finding the means, but it is truly worth it for him. - the spirit reader |
Thank you for reposting. There certainly is some heavy energy around all of this. You are very close to refuge, but at the moment, unable to really feel or receive it. You must remember that separation and exile (which is what I see) is an opportunity to accept your current reality, center yourself, and find strength. It is from a place of quiet that you can assess what is truly important. You are at a crossroads, and there is an opportunity here for you to find your spiritual strength. These opportunities do not come lightly. Yours has come in a very significant impossible not to feel way. But it is here that you will find renewed courage, change for the better, peace of mind and evolution of spirit. These are great gifts, though the pain is so great right now and I understand it does not feel very gift like. But this is how deep healing goes. So much as there is pain, there is the same space and capacity for love and light. A precious misfortune that has essentially cut you wide open but exposed the very depths of your feeling alone and afraid for you to heal. Dear one they are victims of their own pasts, their own programming and unable to see. They are trapped and unable to consciously understand or know love. Instantly at passing your grandmother would remember sweet one so do not fret for she is freed now. Your grandmother is sending you blessings but you will be unable to feel them until you have felt through the pain. The lifetime of pain caused by their inabilities and their behavior. It has hurt so much and now it is time to find your youngest self, to heal and love and cuddle her, to sing her lullabies and tell her she is beautiful and amazing just exactly as she is. Love her, be with the pain she has felt and watch your life transform. Imagine anything she would like to do and hold her hand and cradle her. She is so very, very worthy. Talk to her, whisper into her ear how special she is. The blessing your grandma is strengthening and sending you now is the push you are feeling, the need to heal. The opening of your heart state. Sweetheart you could have carried on in that old way, in great suffering of self and hate and pain. But you will not, you are here to heal this and in time you will find so much space and freedom, your heart will sing and your spirit will soar. You are beautiful. With much love and courage to you, xo - the spirit reader |
Dear Spirit Reader,
I found out about an amazing opportunity in another state for one of my children. The issue is it would also cause a lot of heartbreak for other family members as well as initially be emotionally challenging for me and the children. What should I do? |
I see you triumphing over obstacles. You have angels very close with you and this is what I see being urged forward in you. You must give to yourself! Relax, you have been working ceaselessly juggling many people’s interests. It is time to treat yourself with as many luxuries as you can. Your soul is tired and wants some rest, now is time to pamper yourself as if it is your greatest mission. It is a good time. It is like your entire life is being rebirthed. There will be many changes and new situations. You are safe and very loved. I see a new territory ahead of you. Again I see a new and very different direction. I really see a whole new life ahead of you. It’s not exactly clear right now how a new baby may tie into that. But there is much excitement at these coming changes. And many words coming in, like birth and incubation and push. Lots of love! -the spirit reader |
Thank you all sending love and gratitude and many warm welcomes to those of you thanking me <3
This is all I have time for tonight but I will come back to pg28 when I can. - the spirit reader |
Dear Spirit Reader,
I am at crossroads regarding my career and personal life. I am afraid of change but I am very unhappy. Would an overseas move bring me happiness? A family member has not been doing well. We are worried about him. Is there any chance for good news? Thank you. |