Anonymous wrote:Dear spirit reader -

I have been dreaming of a family. Both immediate and extended. There are pictures in my head of what it should look like, and my heart is starting to follow. Am I wrong?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dear Spirit Reader,

How can I look within to find my answers? Is my mother telling the truth about my father? Will I ever have a happy and loving romantic relationship? Can I trust the man I am with, or is he deceitful? Should I walk away from this relationship without looking back ? Will I ever find true companionship?

Images are hard to see right now.

Will I completely recover from my illness and have a meaningful profession with financial stability?

Will my daughter be okay in life?

I have so many concerns, I go from anxiety to complete disassociation as a form of relief. You helped me before, and I am praying you can help me again.

I call on angels, but don’t know what to ask. I plead for help but don’t know what I need. I feel lost and unsettled, knowing doesn’t bring peace, and so much loss makes it so hard for me to cherish love without fearing its absence again.

Thank you for hearing me again. I didn’t want to bother you again, but I don’t know where else to go right now.

I can see that you are at a door, like a cosmic door and there is a part of you that is hesitant to step through it. I send you much love, care and compassion, it is hard to take these steps and look at what you are facing, for it brings up exactly what you are feeling right now.

One day it will all make sense but right now this is how it feels. You are not alone, truly you are never alone. What you are experiencing is parts of you that desperately want and need to be seen by you. They want to be healed. The difficulty is when we begin to feel consumed by these parts, that these parts are us. They are not. They are a wounded part of us, not your True Self. Your True self is Love and connection to all that is. Anything that feels otherwise is separation, and can be healed, but this is a different type of healing than just changing your circumstances.

Sometimes changing our circumstances is necessary for further healing, for example leaving a relationship that no longer serves us and keeps us in states of fight/flight/freeze.

Healing is a vulnerable state and it takes much courage to walk, and I can tell that you are very brave to allow these parts to surface.

My suggestion is to connect deeply to the feelings. So when you feel 'lost' ask yourself with much love what this is about. Sometimes it helps to find an age. Often you will feel this feeling in a part of your body. When did you first feel the feeling 'lost'? How old was she? When you go to her, perhaps something fits. This part of you will have a wish. What would she like to do? Is there a place she would like to go? Any place she can imagine. Take her there, be with her. If she wants to run away, run with her. Be her loving parent. When she feels safe, allow the energy of the trauma out. However feels best, you can throw it into an imaginary fire, bury it in the ground, let the wind carry it away, or let water wash it away. You have an infinite wisdom inside you, a loving intelligence and even when it feels dark, you are always connected to your Higher Self and it is this loving intelligence that will help you to heal, and truly then your life will unfold in magnificently beautiful and connected ways.

Go slowly, there is no rush.

I do not have space to respond to your specific queries at this present moment, but can share this for now in the hope it helps you find your way through. With lots of love and healing light to you, you are on the path.

- the spirit reader

Dear Spirit Reader,

I’m almost 6 months out from this post and so much has changed and continues to change. Thank you for helping my navigation in what has been a long spiritual journey. I do feel a gradual sense of renewal and am beginning to understand how this child inside seeks care. I’ve been fortunate tonconnect with people who’ve helped support this process.

There is a man i met at the start of a different season that has reappeared after my most recent romantic relationship was voided, for lack of a better word and to acknowledge the place where we met. It was painful to go through that — so abrupt and I’m even more protective of my child because of it. I feel a very intense spiritual connection with this person that I’ve reconnected with, but I’m not clear on whether this is something platonic or with potential long term for my soul’s greatest rejoicing and place to share that. I am concerned and want to trust my decision making but also respect what is good and not be naive about my past, given what you can surely see ive been working through. I am continuing work on myself and picking up the pieces ans trying to rebuild all that was lost in materiel terms— but any insight on this particular man and how I should proceed with allowing a personal relationship to further build along the way would be appreciated. I don’t want a good choice I want to make the best choice with the most optimal outcome for the greatest good. I believe that can be possible without anyone having to hurt or lack. In the past my decisions are often influenced unconsciously and I want to be as informed as I can. I want a picture that I’ve been disappointed in for so long, and I don’t want to be deceived.

Thank you for helping me find hope again during my darkest hour. You are part of a small few that spoke life back into a situation where I had lost it. Thank you as always for your loving kindness. If there is any advice you can give on repairing my daily circumstances I would also appreciate what you are willing to share.

Thank you!!! Big big big hugs and lots of love to you and yours. God bless you.

Anonymous wrote:Dear Spirit Reader,
I don’t have any questions, I just want to say thank you for sharing your gift. It must be a heavy weight to carry sometimes. Thank you.

thespiritreader wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So good to see you are back dear Spirit Reader!

I literally wake from sleeping with worries about my oldest son.

Will he be okay? I mean, will he have stability, career, happiness? He’s always been a challenging kid, risky behaviors, learning disabilities, and growth issues. I worry about his mental health but he insists he’s fine.

Any thoughts you can share would be so helpful. Thank you.

I see your son independently successful, with a rich life. I see safety. He will find his way through to individual accomplishment.

It would be most helpful to teach him courage, to notice, praise and inspire him as the courageous young man he is. In every circumstance possible point out his courage, this is how you can be most helpful to him at this time. You are very strong and must join your son in a leap of faith that all will be well in it’s own time.

- the spirit reader

thespiritreader wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dear SR-

My sisters and I have been estranged for years. Will our sisterly relationships ever be reconciled?

Your strong and clear discernment allows you to stay true to your values and spiritual destiny. It is wise to be accepting of all of life and not to judge people or situations as good or bad. Yes, some are more pleasant than others, but some are absolutely necessary for our growth. Yet you must use your discernment to be guided on your path to the most joyful, uplifting and helpful experiences warranted for your growth.

Use the power of selection based on your desire and intention. If you intend to grow through joy and adventure, rather than fear or suffering, then use your discernment to make choices that feel expansive and uplifting, rather than constrictive or draining.

I see that you already have strong discernment, and would be wise to trust this. You have made mistakes with them in the past, but let this not erode your self-trust in the way things are now.

I don’t see anything right now suggesting that full reconciliation is imminent, though I do see a younger female reaching towards you for she misses you and would like to be closer to you and the sense of care that you gave her.

- the spirit reader

thespiritreader wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,
I’ve had two miscarriages over the past six months. Will I ever have children?
Thank you very much!

Your intentions are very powerful. Choose and infuse your intentions with much love. See yourself as happy and peaceful and ask the angels to help you with cleansing your thoughts. As your heart heals from many past times of loss, I see new blessings and love coming into your life.

You are very lovable and deserve a happy heart. I see a support group, and journaling about your feelings to be very helpful for you right now. There is a strong emotional basis here, and such a loveliness around you, I see you being able to have everything you most desire and more.

Focus on healing your heart from loss by being with the pain of the loss and the losses that have happened at various stages of your life. Go to each part of you that experienced such pain and imagine filling her and surrounding her with light and love. Let her be in her pain. Hugs and great care to you.

- the spirit reader

thespiritreader wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dear Spirit Reader,

How can I look within to find my answers? Is my mother telling the truth about my father? Will I ever have a happy and loving romantic relationship? Can I trust the man I am with, or is he deceitful? Should I walk away from this relationship without looking back ? Will I ever find true companionship?

Images are hard to see right now.

Will I completely recover from my illness and have a meaningful profession with financial stability?

Will my daughter be okay in life?

I have so many concerns, I go from anxiety to complete disassociation as a form of relief. You helped me before, and I am praying you can help me again.

I call on angels, but don’t know what to ask. I plead for help but don’t know what I need. I feel lost and unsettled, knowing doesn’t bring peace, and so much loss makes it so hard for me to cherish love without fearing its absence again.

Thank you for hearing me again. I didn’t want to bother you again, but I don’t know where else to go right now.

I can see that you are at a door, like a cosmic door and there is a part of you that is hesitant to step through it. I send you much love, care and compassion, it is hard to take these steps and look at what you are facing, for it brings up exactly what you are feeling right now.

One day it will all make sense but right now this is how it feels. You are not alone, truly you are never alone. What you are experiencing is parts of you that desperately want and need to be seen by you. They want to be healed. The difficulty is when we begin to feel consumed by these parts, that these parts are us. They are not. They are a wounded part of us, not your True Self. Your True self is Love and connection to all that is. Anything that feels otherwise is separation, and can be healed, but this is a different type of healing than just changing your circumstances.

Sometimes changing our circumstances is necessary for further healing, for example leaving a relationship that no longer serves us and keeps us in states of fight/flight/freeze.

Healing is a vulnerable state and it takes much courage to walk, and I can tell that you are very brave to allow these parts to surface.

My suggestion is to connect deeply to the feelings. So when you feel 'lost' ask yourself with much love what this is about. Sometimes it helps to find an age. Often you will feel this feeling in a part of your body. When did you first feel the feeling 'lost'? How old was she? When you go to her, perhaps something fits. This part of you will have a wish. What would she like to do? Is there a place she would like to go? Any place she can imagine. Take her there, be with her. If she wants to run away, run with her. Be her loving parent. When she feels safe, allow the energy of the trauma out. However feels best, you can throw it into an imaginary fire, bury it in the ground, let the wind carry it away, or let water wash it away. You have an infinite wisdom inside you, a loving intelligence and even when it feels dark, you are always connected to your Higher Self and it is this loving intelligence that will help you to heal, and truly then your life will unfold in magnificently beautiful and connected ways.

Go slowly, there is no rush.

I do not have space to respond to your specific queries at this present moment, but can share this for now in the hope it helps you find your way through. With lots of love and healing light to you, you are on the path.

- the spirit reader

Dear Spirit Reader,

I’m almost 6 months out from this post and so much has changed and continues to change. Thank you for helping my navigation in what has been a long spiritual journey. I do feel a gradual sense of renewal and am beginning to understand how this child inside seeks care. I’ve been fortunate tonconnect with people who’ve helped support this process.

There is a man i met at the start of a different season that has reappeared after my most recent romantic relationship was voided, for lack of a better word and to acknowledge the place where we met. It was painful to go through that — so abrupt and I’m even more protective of my child because of it. I feel a very intense spiritual connection with this person that I’ve reconnected with, but I’m not clear on whether this is something platonic or with potential long term for my soul’s greatest rejoicing and place to share that. I am concerned and want to trust my decision making but also respect what is good and not be naive about my past, given what you can surely see ive been working through. I am continuing work on myself and picking up the pieces ans trying to rebuild all that was lost in materiel terms— but any insight on this particular man and how I should proceed with allowing a personal relationship to further build along the way would be appreciated. I don’t want a good choice I want to make the best choice with the most optimal outcome for the greatest good. I believe that can be possible without anyone having to hurt or lack. In the past my decisions are often influenced unconsciously and I want to be as informed as I can. I want a picture that I’ve been disappointed in for so long, and I don’t want to be deceived.

Thank you for helping me find hope again during my darkest hour. You are part of a small few that spoke life back into a situation where I had lost it. Thank you as always for your loving kindness. If there is any advice you can give on repairing my daily circumstances I would also appreciate what you are willing to share.

Thank you!!! Big big big hugs and lots of love to you and yours. God bless you.

You are doing so wonderfully and your progress is beautiful to witness. This is not easy work yet such a gift to yourself.

I see this man as a challenge. One that you are prepared to stand before. Trust your concern dear. And there are no ‘misses’ in life. Right now, you need your most focus and care. Surrender and flow, do not try to make anything happen. I see you as a very sweet soul, beautifully rising. You don’t need to swim to the destination (often against the current). You can trust the waves of life will carry you there precisely when the time is right.

I feel that if you step aside from this person and keep your focus on developing such a love and connection with your own soul, you will naturally attract and follow the brightest of paths and people along the way, so much greater than trying to make and see if you can get this person to fit. What you seek truly is seeking you.

You are so very clear right now, trust!! Many blessings to you my dear and lots and lots of love and great big warm hugs from me to you.

- the spirit reader

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,

My mom and grandma rejected me....didn’t attend my wedding, never met my kids. My grandma recently passed. Did she really want nothing to do with me all these years? Or was my mom making it impossible for her to communicate? Did she get my letters and packages and did they make her happy at all? Did she think my children were precious, did she look at the pictures of them? Why didn’t she ever answer me?

Does my mom really hate me? Does she think about me and wonder how I am?

Thank you, truly, for anything you can tell me.

-S

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hi Spirit Reader,

My mom and grandma rejected me....didn’t attend my wedding, never met my kids. My grandma recently passed. Did she really want nothing to do with me all these years? Or was my mom making it impossible for her to communicate? Did she get my letters and packages and did they make her happy at all? Did she think my children were precious, did she look at the pictures of them? Why didn’t she ever answer me?

Does my mom really hate me? Does she think about me and wonder how I am?

Thank you, truly, for anything you can tell me.

-S

Hi Spirit Reader, I know so many need you now, I just wondered if you see anything for me, primarily around my Grandmother. I thought maybe my mom was keeping her from being able to communicate with me and that after grandma passed maybe I’d get some sign from her, but I see and feel nothing and it’s been months.