DD (17) says she has “baby fever”

Anonymous
She says she wants a baby. Advice?
Anonymous
Let her babysit a colicky child.
Anonymous
Yep. Let her take on a job as weekend nanny for the entire school year and bonus - have her overnight babysit for a week while the parents are away.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Let her babysit a colicky child.


Or show her a video of an actual birth. That should do the trick.
Anonymous
She really wants a puppy. She figures that if she says she wants a baby, you’ll easily let her have a puppy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:She says she wants a baby. Advice?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:She really wants a puppy. She figures that if she says she wants a baby, you’ll easily let her have a puppy.


Who gets a kid a puppy one year before they head to college? The dog won't even be fully trained when she leaves.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She really wants a puppy. She figures that if she says she wants a baby, you’ll easily let her have a puppy.


Who gets a kid a puppy one year before they head to college? The dog won't even be fully trained when she leaves.


No one does. That’s why the 17 year old is saying she wants a baby. She figures her parent will go against reason and get a puppy to shut down this baby talk. How is this twisted reasoning not clear to you? Ask for something crazy and overboard to get the “less crazy” thing.
Anonymous
Lol yikes. Show her a breakdown of costs for a child for 18 years
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Lol yikes. Show her a breakdown of costs for a child for 18 years


This is terrible advice. That won’t make any impact at all.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Let her babysit a colicky child.


Or show her a video of an actual birth. That should do the trick.

Yes! I was pregnant already when I watched a birth video and desperately wanted to get out of my situation.
Anonymous
Is she serious or passing? It was passing for me. I went into education. Been teaching for over a decade, haven’t given birth yet, still love tiny humans.
Anonymous
OP here. I am seriously concerned about this.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I am seriously concerned about this.


Why? Who is she hanging out with - are there a lot of teen pregnancies in your neighborhood/community? Is she dating? Do you know him?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I am seriously concerned about this.


Why? Who is she hanging out with - are there a lot of teen pregnancies in your neighborhood/community? Is she dating? Do you know him?


OP here. No teen pregnancies in our community (at least not publicly or at school). She is not dating that I know of.
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