Out of the blue email
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Anonymous
| Just got out of the blue email from someone I had a relationship with 8y ago. Both married. “Misses talking.” How to respond? |
Anonymous
| You block them. |
Anonymous
Walk away. |
Anonymous
| Don’t. |
Anonymous
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I would not respond. If you feel you need to, I might just say, "I'm happily married. Let' leave the past in the past. I wish you well."
and that is it. |
Anonymous
Back away. Slowly. 
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Anonymous
Has this kind of thing happened to others here? I was so surprised, did not expect AT ALL. |
Anonymous
He and his wife are having troubles, he's looking to cheat. It happens more than you think. WALK AWAY. |
Anonymous
Yep. And it really depends on the relationship previously and why there was no contact for 8 years. I'd be fairly skeptical of his motives and would keep it very light if you do respond. |
Anonymous
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It can only go one of two ways, which both end badly.
1. You re-unite with past relationship and burn your marriage to the ground. Likelihood you can co-exist with a friend and fan the flames while married 0% 2. You meet and it's not everything you thought it would be. Total disappointment calculates to be 100% |
Anonymous
| I wouldn't respond. |
Anonymous
| Ignore |
Anonymous
| If you were both single it would be different answer |
Anonymous
OP: she wants to cheat on her husband with you. Block her out completely. |
Anonymous
| Ignore and block any other response just leaves the door open for trouble. |