are second husbands/wives hotter than the first one or not?
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Anonymous
| Is there a pattern? |
Anonymous
| Depends on the size of their bank accounts.. |
Anonymous
| Depends on the circumstances. People.generally affair down. |
Anonymous
LOL. This! |
Anonymous
| Mine is hotter, but more importantly, he’s not abusive. |
Anonymous
| Men are visual, women are for stability |
Anonymous
| Depends on why the first relationship fell apart IME. I know several women who married dadbod teddy bears the second time as a reaction to their first husbands. |
Anonymous
| WTF “hotter” lol. Ladies, no need for the men to objectify, commodify and rank us, we do it to ourselves. |
Anonymous
This made me smile. I've been dating a guy like this after divorce. He's the best. |
Anonymous
Ha maybe we are friends then! Beauty is in the eye of a beholder. I have another friend whose brother just left his wife, and mother of his two kids, to get back together with an ex girlfriend. The sister is most angry because, in her view, the ex is “fat and ugly.” We all like what we like though... |
Anonymous
| No idea. We only have “firsts” in my family, for generations. |
Anonymous
I love super helpful posts like this. “Where can I find a good lasagna recipe?” “No idea, I haven’t eaten anything processed in 30 years” “My kid screams non-stop in her car seat. What should I do?” “No idea, all my children were perfect angels and never yelled or talked back” “My mom is BPD and verbally abuses me. How can I get her to stop?” “No idea, I had a great relationship with my mom and miss her every day” |
Anonymous
| For wealthy, powerful men, generally yes, but for everyone else it depends. |
Anonymous
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Anonymous
Wealthy powerful men don’t date particularly hot women. Examples: Gates, Bezos, Musk. |