are second husbands/wives hotter than the first one or not?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No idea. We only have “firsts” in my family, for generations.

I know families like that. Generations of spouses who can’t stand each other, cheat, and abuse. But they think divorce is awful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For wealthy, powerful men, generally yes, but for everyone else it depends.

Wealthy powerful men don’t date particularly hot women. Examples: Gates, Bezos, Musk.

French presidents do. E.g. the potato head who banged Segolyne Royal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No idea. We only have “firsts” in my family, for generations.

I know families like that. Generations of spouses who can’t stand each other, cheat, and abuse. But they think divorce is awful.

Yeah. Ok

Big happy family. But you obviously have lots of dysfunction and bitterness to be so triggered.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No idea. We only have “firsts” in my family, for generations.

I know families like that. Generations of spouses who can’t stand each other, cheat, and abuse. But they think divorce is awful.

Yeah. Ok

Big happy family. But you obviously have lots of dysfunction and bitterness to be so triggered.

Yeah. Every single person on my husband’s side of family (except him) is divorced. They are all the most bitter and unhappy clan you have ever met. Everyone has a grudge and step kids and multiple bf/spouse/gf misery and issues. Nobody gets together for Holidays or even funerals.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For wealthy, powerful men, generally yes, but for everyone else it depends.

Wealthy powerful men don’t date particularly hot women. Examples: Gates, Bezos, Musk.

French presidents do. E.g. the potato head who banged Segolyne Royal.

The question as posed is "hotter tyan the first" and generally soeakinh yes.

[Anonymous]

Than, speaking

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No idea. We only have “firsts” in my family, for generations.

I love super helpful posts like this.

“Where can I find a good lasagna recipe?” “No idea, I haven’t eaten anything processed in 30 years”

“My kid screams non-stop in her car seat. What should I do?” “No idea, all my children were perfect angels and never yelled or talked back”

“My mom is BPD and verbally abuses me. How can I get her to stop?” “No idea, I had a great relationship with my mom and miss her every day”

+1000-million-trillion.

[Anonymous]

Diana - the most beautiful woman ever
Camilla - a horse reincarnated as a shriveled old lady.

I don't think Charles even wanted to marry up as he always had low aspirations in keeping with his low intellect. He just wanted to be a tampon for this horse's cult.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No idea. We only have “firsts” in my family, for generations.

I love super helpful posts like this.

“Where can I find a good lasagna recipe?” “No idea, I haven’t eaten anything processed in 30 years”

“My kid screams non-stop in her car seat. What should I do?” “No idea, all my children were perfect angels and never yelled or talked back”

“My mom is BPD and verbally abuses me. How can I get her to stop?” “No idea, I had a great relationship with my mom and miss her every day”

+1000-million-trillion.

The question was the dumbest and most ridiculous thing. It doesn't deserve any answer. It speaks to the intelligence of the one that asked it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are visual, women are for stability

Not for no 2.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know about hotter, but men are far more likely to marry someone significantly younger the second time while women are much more likely to marry someone older (compared to their first marriages). This info is based on studies.

Anecdotally, I notice women tend to remarry a more laid back, comfortable person while men focus more than women on appearance when remarrying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t know about hotter, but men are far more likely to marry someone significantly younger the second time while women are much more likely to marry someone older (compared to their first marriages). This info is based on studies.

Anecdotally, I notice women tend to remarry a more laid back, comfortable person while men focus more than women on appearance when remarrying.

Women for the win. Tells you something about priorities.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For wealthy, powerful men, generally yes, but for everyone else it depends.

Wealthy powerful men don’t date particularly hot women. Examples: Gates, Bezos, Musk.

But hotter than their first wives.

[Anonymous]

My XH traded way down with looks for his current wife but she’s absolutely loaded and doesn’t mind buying him all sorts of things so there’s the trade off. She’s also eight years younger than him.

My husband is way hotter than my XH. And more capable in a lot of ways. He’s four years younger than me.

[Anonymous]

Guy here. My 2nd wife was on a different planet, hotness-wise, from my first wife. I’ve been married 20 years to the 2nd and really don’t even like to think about having been married previously.