Do women seriously have salary requirements when dating?
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Anonymous
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LOL. When I married my DH, his salary was 60k! I'd never have met him if I had hang ups about salary or jobs.
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Anonymous
| Is this post for real? You know that 60K is above the average salary for a person in the US? |
Anonymous
It’s all about the COL where you are. Around here, 60K doesn’t get you very far. |
Anonymous
| I never really "dated around", but the general recommendation I gave to my single friends is that the men's salary should not be lower than 80% of her base salary. |
Anonymous
Interesting. My recommendation to my single friends was to focus on their own careers and not rely on a man to provide for them. |
Anonymous
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Do guys really have cup size and weight requirements when dating?
Some people are jerks, most people aren't. Everyone probably is a jerk in some way about something, so of course these women exist. Doesn't mean its a good thing or that you have to give them any attention for it. |
Anonymous
It's below average for college-educated men in DC who are 25-34. |
Anonymous
| I think it’s pretty naive to not care at all about the income or income potential of your spouse (no matter your gender or the gender you prefer to date). I always cared. So did the men who dated me. |
Anonymous
| I had an education requirement. It translated into high salary. |
Anonymous
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Not only does it depend on the col, but the age group.
23 yr old man making $60K is fine. 35 yr old man still making $60k in high col, I would think twice. Not because I'm greedy (I'm actually quite frugal and had more saved than my much older DH when we started dating), but because money is the one of the top reasons why couples fight. If you start a family with this person, more than likely the woman will become the default parent, and the woman will struggle to be the default parent and work a high paying job, not to mention the money stress. I would advise moving to a lower col area if this is the case. DH and I both went to no name state univ, and I grew up lower income, so it's not like we come from a privileged elite background. |
Anonymous
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Men who dated me cared for several things ..
My looks My education and my career goals My temperament, personality My good name and my family |
Anonymous
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No scrubs.
DH and I met in college. He was really hard working, had a great degree and was driven. It all translated into a good salary. |
Anonymous
Modest year kids out of college in professional jobs make more than this. |
Anonymous
| No. But I met my husband while we were still in law school. |
Anonymous
Yeah. I had no salary requirements but I wanted someone smart, hard-working, responsible (ambitious sort of -- he had to have some goals). DH was a lowly non-tenured prof not making much of a good salary when we met. I (in biglaw) made triple what he did. Now it's roughly equal. |