Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

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Anonymous wrote:The news reports haven't said how good of a swimmer she was. That would be helpful to the investigation.


My recollection of attending public schools in VA is that there is swimming in 4th grade for PE and again in 10th grade.
The state of VA made the decision in the 1950s to build olympic size swimming pools in most of their public high schools. Hence, VA's strong representation in the olympic swim records.
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I don't believe that is true at TJ. I grew up in Northern Virginia and we did not have a pool. Some Arlington county schools do.
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Anonymous wrote:The news reports haven't said how good of a swimmer she was. That would be helpful to the investigation.


My recollection of attending public schools in VA is that there is swimming in 4th grade for PE and again in 10th grade.
The state of VA made the decision in the 1950s to build olympic size swimming pools in most of their public high schools. Hence, VA's strong representation in the olympic swim records.


This was not the case in FCPS but not sure about other districts.
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Yall stupid. Public school swim lessons have nothing to do with this. Thank god you’re not investigators!
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Anonymous wrote:Her friends really failed her.


By allowing her autonomy and giving her the privacy she requested?



I agree blaming the friends is uncool. They had no reason to think she'd do something dumb like swim in rough seas at night.


How do you know she *chose* to? Did reports say that? Eyewitnesses or video?


It’s you again. I went to McDonalds today. It’s logical to infer I chose to go there.

You’re not the feminist you think you are. Because something bad happened to this young woman, we don’t get to then decide it wasn’t the result of a decision she made. We don’t get to play women make decisions for themselves, but if something bad happened it must not be their fault.

There is evidence to indicate she chose to go in the water. There is zero evidence to support that any decisions made were not her own.


Look it's name calling poster thinking they know who someone is or if they are a feminist or not. YOU don't know what went on at that moment. Or were you at Riu for a McDonald's too?


I know that she drank at the bar for hours. Then went to the beach with her friends and two guys they met. I know she willingly went to the beach (on video), and her friends seemed the situation kosher enough to leave her and the guy and take her phone. I know the guy woke up hours later alone in the beach and stumbled back to hotel (on video). I know the friends thought she was with him, he thought she was with the friends. The only two people that will ever actually know what happened that moment are the two people that were there. No one else will ever know. Based on this fact, one has to infer from all of the other things we do know as a fact, that this was a terrible accident.

You can push the we don’t know argument as much as you want. But we do actually know quite a bit.


Yet you don't know what happened in the moments that actually need to be known. Good luck and may the family be okay.


Yes. As I said.

"The only two people that will ever actually know what happened that moment are the two people that were there."


No one knows if it was only the two people. Do you?

Do you know that she *drank* at the bar for *hours*? She was seen on a video footage at the bar drinking? For hours? Or she was at the bar for hour(s) having a drink or two? How do you know that there wasn't any activities that occurred at the bar (or even earlier that night) that led to the possible other things that took place at or near or elsewhere? You don't.
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Anonymous wrote:Not to be rude - but my tax dollars?


Our tax dollars go to pay the interest on the national date. Sorry to disappoint.
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Anonymous wrote:Do they serve liquor 24-7 at the resort?


Pages ago on this thread, a poster said bar in hotel lobby was open till 2am(??). Did they go have drinks from elsewhere that they consumed at the lobby after lobby bar closed? Was something wrong with the alcohol from outside if there was any alcohol from outside?


Usually there is also beer in the room minifridge, and some hotels in the RIU chain have alcohol dispensers (full bottles of rum and other things) on the wall IN each room. Access to alcohol after bar close would likely not be a problem.
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Anonymous wrote:Yall stupid. Public school swim lessons have nothing to do with this. Thank god you’re not investigators!


While swimming lesson will teach you basics and will give you confidence to swim, we are not talking about swimming at the Y pool in this case. Few have mentioned already that that water is tough for even the most advanced, source coast guards.
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Anonymous wrote:Her friends really failed her.


By allowing her autonomy and giving her the privacy she requested?



I agree blaming the friends is uncool. They had no reason to think she'd do something dumb like swim in rough seas at night.


How do you know she *chose* to? Did reports say that? Eyewitnesses or video?


It’s you again. I went to McDonalds today. It’s logical to infer I chose to go there.

You’re not the feminist you think you are. Because something bad happened to this young woman, we don’t get to then decide it wasn’t the result of a decision she made. We don’t get to play women make decisions for themselves, but if something bad happened it must not be their fault.

There is evidence to indicate she chose to go in the water. There is zero evidence to support that any decisions made were not her own.


Look it's name calling poster thinking they know who someone is or if they are a feminist or not. YOU don't know what went on at that moment. Or were you at Riu for a McDonald's too?


I know that she drank at the bar for hours. Then went to the beach with her friends and two guys they met. I know she willingly went to the beach (on video), and her friends seemed the situation kosher enough to leave her and the guy and take her phone. I know the guy woke up hours later alone in the beach and stumbled back to hotel (on video). I know the friends thought she was with him, he thought she was with the friends. The only two people that will ever actually know what happened that moment are the two people that were there. No one else will ever know. Based on this fact, one has to infer from all of the other things we do know as a fact, that this was a terrible accident.

You can push the we don’t know argument as much as you want. But we do actually know quite a bit.


And based on the amount of time they were drinking, he may not even remember what happened.


He told several stories to LE.


He probably doesn't remember and panicked at first.


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Also what would they be accusing him of exactly? Killing her somehow, and doing what with the body? Throwing it in the ocean? (most people would know the cause of death could be determined once the body is recovered). Or disposing of it how, exactly, in a foreign country where he does not know his way around or have a vehicle? Not likely. Or the talk about him being part of a human trafficking ring etc….is pretty far fetched unless there is something about his background that raises a red flag or suspicion.
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Anonymous wrote:Yall stupid. Public school swim lessons have nothing to do with this. Thank god you’re not investigators!


While swimming lesson will teach you basics and will give you confidence to swim, we are not talking about swimming at the Y pool in this case. Few have mentioned already that that water is tough for even the most advanced, source coast guards.


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I don’t see how her swimming skills are even relevant unless it is on an extreme level end (like she supposedly could not swim at all, or was an Olympic level swimmer or experienced beach lifeguard or something).
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Anonymous wrote:Do they serve liquor 24-7 at the resort?


Pages ago on this thread, a poster said bar in hotel lobby was open till 2am(??). Did they go have drinks from elsewhere that they consumed at the lobby after lobby bar closed? Was something wrong with the alcohol from outside if there was any alcohol from outside?


Usually there is also beer in the room minifridge, and some hotels in the RIU chain have alcohol dispensers (full bottles of rum and other things) on the wall IN each room. Access to alcohol after bar close would likely not be a problem.


It should have been known by those travelers not to drink any of those rum from dispenser stuff. Maybe they didn't drink it. hope they knew.
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Anonymous wrote:Her friends really failed her.


By allowing her autonomy and giving her the privacy she requested?



I agree blaming the friends is uncool. They had no reason to think she'd do something dumb like swim in rough seas at night.


How do you know she *chose* to? Did reports say that? Eyewitnesses or video?


It’s you again. I went to McDonalds today. It’s logical to infer I chose to go there.

You’re not the feminist you think you are. Because something bad happened to this young woman, we don’t get to then decide it wasn’t the result of a decision she made. We don’t get to play women make decisions for themselves, but if something bad happened it must not be their fault.

There is evidence to indicate she chose to go in the water. There is zero evidence to support that any decisions made were not her own.


Look it's name calling poster thinking they know who someone is or if they are a feminist or not. YOU don't know what went on at that moment. Or were you at Riu for a McDonald's too?


I know that she drank at the bar for hours. Then went to the beach with her friends and two guys they met. I know she willingly went to the beach (on video), and her friends seemed the situation kosher enough to leave her and the guy and take her phone. I know the guy woke up hours later alone in the beach and stumbled back to hotel (on video). I know the friends thought she was with him, he thought she was with the friends. The only two people that will ever actually know what happened that moment are the two people that were there. No one else will ever know. Based on this fact, one has to infer from all of the other things we do know as a fact, that this was a terrible accident.

You can push the we don’t know argument as much as you want. But we do actually know quite a bit.


Yet you don't know what happened in the moments that actually need to be known. Good luck and may the family be okay.


Yes. As I said.

"The only two people that will ever actually know what happened that moment are the two people that were there."


No one knows if it was only the two people. Do you?

Do you know that she *drank* at the bar for *hours*? She was seen on a video footage at the bar drinking? For hours? Or she was at the bar for hour(s) having a drink or two? How do you know that there wasn't any activities that occurred at the bar (or even earlier that night) that led to the possible other things that took place at or near or elsewhere? You don't.


Likely the bar staff, her friends, and/or any other patrons would have provided this info to the police already. They would’ve had at least a general idea of how intoxicated she was or wasn’t.
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Anonymous wrote:Do they serve liquor 24-7 at the resort?


Pages ago on this thread, a poster said bar in hotel lobby was open till 2am(??). Did they go have drinks from elsewhere that they consumed at the lobby after lobby bar closed? Was something wrong with the alcohol from outside if there was any alcohol from outside?


Usually there is also beer in the room minifridge, and some hotels in the RIU chain have alcohol dispensers (full bottles of rum and other things) on the wall IN each room. Access to alcohol after bar close would likely not be a problem.


It should have been known by those travelers not to drink any of those rum from dispenser stuff. Maybe they didn't drink it. hope they knew.


You’d think so, but college kids and free booze? I wouldn’t be too hopeful. Beyond all of that, most of these resorts would have a convenience store or something on site that sells booze & other items. Or often there are convenience stores down the street in these areas where they could buy alcohol and other things.
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Anonymous wrote:Yall stupid. Public school swim lessons have nothing to do with this. Thank god you’re not investigators!


VA failed to teach kids how to swim drunk. I blame the moral majority for not allowing the government to do its job!
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Anonymous wrote:OMG her friends went on a day trip without even looking for her?!

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14485901/amp/joshua-riibe-sudiksha-konanki-dominican-republic-missing.html

Have a bad feeling about this huge guy, could be another Natalie Holloway.

Claiming she was not seen out of water and that she was, which is it? If he saw her after the water, where is she?!!!


Well, her "friends" aren't much better.


We need to do a better job teaching kids how to identify who your friends are and how to be better friends. I feel terrible for this family. Tragic.


Who are you to judge that?


Well, let's see...They hadn't seen their friend since around 4:00 a.m. and didn't know where she was in a foreign country but thought they'd just go on a day trip?!


How were they going to reach her if 1. She didn't have her phone on her, 2. Or they tried reaching her but she didn't pick up maybe because they thought she was still sleeping or with that guy? 3. Things werent known at time of them going on a day trip? Didn't read all the reports to know if any of those questions were answered.


Was the guy known to them on that trip prior to that night? One of the young woman's friend could have stayed with her tho on the beach (being a better friend). Does anyone actually know what occurred before the friends left to go back to the hotel and her staying on beach?


No. Friend's job was to tell her why this is a bad idea and to inform resort desk that she didn't come back at night before going for the scheduled trip. She wasn't required to put herself in danger at night at beach in a foreign country with a drunk male.


Kids go to places like DR to be irresponsibly drunk and for casual hook ups. With that implicit understanding, one's friends will not stand in the way of actualizing that goal.
Sorry, DR is not Disneyland.



Exactly. I think a number of posters on this thread did not have traditional American college experiences.


Plenty of people on here let their kids go to beach week or have parties where they serve alcohol. A kid is sitting in Arlignton county jail right now after killing his friend from a drunk driving accident whole being so completely hammered and “supervising” a freshman high school party.


Most parents DO NOT CONDONE this. I never did. My adult sons are very successful and never felt the need to get wasted. As my son is in medical school this is frowned upon.


You don't know everything your children do. I am a very successful female adult, went to an Ivy, got great grades and never caused my parents any trouble. I didn't even drink for most of college. However, I made a ton of stupid naive mistakes in college that could've turned out poorly if things happened differently.


Yes, but you are an American. Sudiksha’s parents are culturally Indian and were raised in India.

In India, good girls (ie - the upper caste / intelligent girl), would never behave in such a fashion. What would happen if a girl were to behave in this way and word got out? The whole family could be dishonored by such shameful behavior. People talk you know.

No. Sudiksha is a good girl, as father has already stated.


If she's such a good girl, what's up with all those selfies of her in tight clothing, or scantily clad or looking to show cleavage?
This girl's parents may be culturally Indian, but she didn't seem to be given that she was engaged in what I consider slatternly American college girl behavior by going to some poor country that has nothing else going for it but notoriety for drunken spring break escapades.
It wasn't like she was in the DR for anthropology studies or looking to help the self-imploding Haitian nation next door.


You are SO sexist, and out of touch with modern times.

A woman can wear whatever she likes. That communicates zero about what she wants and what she has consented to.

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