Jennifer Dulos - Connecticut mom of 5 missing

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Anonymous wrote:I also wonder about the sloppiness of the disposal - like they obviously did a great job hiding the body - then to just haul the bloody clothes off into a random dumpster and bring your trackable cell with you? WTF?

Panic, I'm guessing.

But wouldn't HIDING A DEAD BODY also incite panic?

Maybe it was very messy and panic and regret set in. He would have totally gotten away with it if not for the videos of the trash. Without that he would have been in the clear. But one thing led to another. The very damning evidence was the truck seats. But he could have gotten rid of that if he wasn’t under the microscope. Thankfully the videos recorded him dumping the trash. A lot of evidence in them.

I was under the impression those bags were never recovered. What was in them?

There were some bags recovered that had bloody items such as sponges, zip ties, a shirt and bra. Maybe other stuff I can't remember.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have so many questions that will now be unanswered.

Why didn't he just dispose of the murder related refuse with the body? Clearly the body was disposed of so no one could find it, then you get all sloppy with the trash? Makes no sense.

If Jennifer was really afraid of him, why didn't she have some cameras on her property? They are cheap, and you get notifications when a human is spotted on your property on your cell phone. And if someone attacked you at least it would be caught on camera. I am poverty level compared with her and we have survellance inside and outside our home.

He left his cell when he went to New Cannan but took it when disposing of murder refuse? WTF? Who does that?

How did he get in the garage? I didn't see a notation on the police thing noting forced entry. Was the door unlocked? Did he have a key?

Why plan this on a friday before a holiday then use garbage bins that won't be emptied until at least Tuesday?

What magic did this guy weave that women kept falling for him? Even as he faced murder charges?

Where are all of the people who knew them singly and as a couple? There are very few accounts of personal impressions of these two. I would have expected ex girlfriends with "Fotis scared me" stories to be climbing out of the woodwork.

Why on earth would you have 5 kids at that age, with someone you barely knew, and who you claimed was angry and threatening? Given that 2 sets of twins was likely the result of fertility treatments, there was probably no oopsies.

STOP...JUST STOP. THIS IS VICTIM BLAMING AND IT MAKES ME SICK.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have so many questions that will now be unanswered.

Why didn't he just dispose of the murder related refuse with the body? Clearly the body was disposed of so no one could find it, then you get all sloppy with the trash? Makes no sense.

If Jennifer was really afraid of him, why didn't she have some cameras on her property? They are cheap, and you get notifications when a human is spotted on your property on your cell phone. And if someone attacked you at least it would be caught on camera. I am poverty level compared with her and we have survellance inside and outside our home.

He left his cell when he went to New Cannan but took it when disposing of murder refuse? WTF? Who does that?

How did he get in the garage? I didn't see a notation on the police thing noting forced entry. Was the door unlocked? Did he have a key?

Why plan this on a friday before a holiday then use garbage bins that won't be emptied until at least Tuesday?

What magic did this guy weave that women kept falling for him? Even as he faced murder charges?

Where are all of the people who knew them singly and as a couple? There are very few accounts of personal impressions of these two. I would have expected ex girlfriends with "Fotis scared me" stories to be climbing out of the woodwork.

Why on earth would you have 5 kids at that age, with someone you barely knew, and who you claimed was angry and threatening? Given that 2 sets of twins was likely the result of fertility treatments, there was probably no oopsies.

STOP...JUST STOP. THIS IS VICTIM BLAMING AND IT MAKES ME SICK.

No it isn't. Your opinion isn't based on facts. You either didn't read or selectively read the post. The only point made that was critical of the victim was a legitimate question regarding the lack of surveillance. And I stand by that, because I am mystified as to why someone who was fearing for her life wouldn't have security.

[Anonymous]

Remind me what we or at least law enforcement thinks happened to her body. If they found clothes that means she was stripped naked, right? Why was that necessary and where is she? God rest her soul as I can’t imagine the horror.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have so many questions that will now be unanswered.

Why didn't he just dispose of the murder related refuse with the body? Clearly the body was disposed of so no one could find it, then you get all sloppy with the trash? Makes no sense.

If Jennifer was really afraid of him, why didn't she have some cameras on her property? They are cheap, and you get notifications when a human is spotted on your property on your cell phone. And if someone attacked you at least it would be caught on camera. I am poverty level compared with her and we have survellance inside and outside our home.

He left his cell when he went to New Cannan but took it when disposing of murder refuse? WTF? Who does that?

How did he get in the garage? I didn't see a notation on the police thing noting forced entry. Was the door unlocked? Did he have a key?

Why plan this on a friday before a holiday then use garbage bins that won't be emptied until at least Tuesday?

What magic did this guy weave that women kept falling for him? Even as he faced murder charges?

Where are all of the people who knew them singly and as a couple? There are very few accounts of personal impressions of these two. I would have expected ex girlfriends with "Fotis scared me" stories to be climbing out of the woodwork.

Why on earth would you have 5 kids at that age, with someone you barely knew, and who you claimed was angry and threatening? Given that 2 sets of twins was likely the result of fertility treatments, there was probably no oopsies.

STOP...JUST STOP. THIS IS VICTIM BLAMING AND IT MAKES ME SICK.

You clearly don't know what victim blaming actually is. One can point out that a victim did something unwise, that isn't victim blaming. When you say that they had it coming because of said unwise activity, that is victim blaming.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have so many questions that will now be unanswered.

Why didn't he just dispose of the murder related refuse with the body? Clearly the body was disposed of so no one could find it, then you get all sloppy with the trash? Makes no sense.

If Jennifer was really afraid of him, why didn't she have some cameras on her property? They are cheap, and you get notifications when a human is spotted on your property on your cell phone. And if someone attacked you at least it would be caught on camera. I am poverty level compared with her and we have survellance inside and outside our home.

He left his cell when he went to New Cannan but took it when disposing of murder refuse? WTF? Who does that?

How did he get in the garage? I didn't see a notation on the police thing noting forced entry. Was the door unlocked? Did he have a key?

Why plan this on a friday before a holiday then use garbage bins that won't be emptied until at least Tuesday?

What magic did this guy weave that women kept falling for him? Even as he faced murder charges?

Where are all of the people who knew them singly and as a couple? There are very few accounts of personal impressions of these two. I would have expected ex girlfriends with "Fotis scared me" stories to be climbing out of the woodwork.

Why on earth would you have 5 kids at that age, with someone you barely knew, and who you claimed was angry and threatening? Given that 2 sets of twins was likely the result of fertility treatments, there was probably no oopsies.

STOP...JUST STOP. THIS IS VICTIM BLAMING AND IT MAKES ME SICK.

You are probably confusing this poster, who asks reasonable questions, with the nut job upthread who has a vendetta against the Farber family.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I also wonder about the sloppiness of the disposal - like they obviously did a great job hiding the body - then to just haul the bloody clothes off into a random dumpster and bring your trackable cell with you? WTF?

Panic, I'm guessing.

But wouldn't HIDING A DEAD BODY also incite panic?

Maybe it was very messy and panic and regret set in. He would have totally gotten away with it if not for the videos of the trash. Without that he would have been in the clear. But one thing led to another. The very damning evidence was the truck seats. But he could have gotten rid of that if he wasn’t under the microscope. Thankfully the videos recorded him dumping the trash. A lot of evidence in them.

I was under the impression those bags were never recovered. What was in them?

There were some bags recovered that had bloody items such as sponges, zip ties, a shirt and bra. Maybe other stuff I can't remember.

The police also recovered the envelope with her license plates in it, that Dulos was seen on camera putting down a storm drain in front of Scotty's Bakery on Albany Ave.

[Anonymous]

Also, his DNA was found insider her new rental home (where she was murdered), a home he had supposedly never been inside.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Also, his DNA was found insider her new rental home (where she was murdered), a home he had supposedly never been inside.

Meaning what? He had been there or something he had touched had been there? It's pretty weak evidence of anything.

[Anonymous]

I don't think the victim blaming poster understands how hard it is to escape an abuser and how confusing it is when you are in it and the person can also be quite charming. You want to protect your family and convince yourself what you experience isn't real. The most dangerous time is when you actually leave which is shown by research and by this particular story as well. Why didn't she leave sooner? She probably knew there was a good chance it would end like this. Why did she have so many kids with him? He may not have shown the full entent of his abusive personality by then. Stress sets off the crazy. At the time she was having babies they were supported by her father and she had the kids quickly.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Also, his DNA was found insider her new rental home (where she was murdered), a home he had supposedly never been inside.

Meaning what? He had been there or something he had touched had been there? It's pretty weak evidence of anything.

It’s evidence that he’d been inside the home without the knowledge or permission of any of the occupants. Pleas explain.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, his DNA was found insider her new rental home (where she was murdered), a home he had supposedly never been inside.

Meaning what? He had been there or something he had touched had been there? It's pretty weak evidence of anything.

It’s evidence that he’d been inside the home without the knowledge or permission of any of the occupants. Pleas explain.

No, it's not evidence of any such thing. Transference is a thing. Yes, I know you want to find him guilty but don't suspend critical thinking.

https://phys.org/news/2015-10-easy-dna-contaminate-crime-scene.html

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, his DNA was found insider her new rental home (where she was murdered), a home he had supposedly never been inside.

Meaning what? He had been there or something he had touched had been there? It's pretty weak evidence of anything.

It’s evidence that he’d been inside the home without the knowledge or permission of any of the occupants. Pleas explain.

No, it's not evidence of any such thing. Transference is a thing. Yes, I know you want to find him guilty but don't suspend critical thinking.

https://phys.org/news/2015-10-easy-dna-contaminate-crime-scene.html

He murdered her and disposed of the body with precision. Everyone knows this! Why do you insist he is innocent?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, his DNA was found insider her new rental home (where she was murdered), a home he had supposedly never been inside.

Meaning what? He had been there or something he had touched had been there? It's pretty weak evidence of anything.

It’s evidence that he’d been inside the home without the knowledge or permission of any of the occupants. Pleas explain.

No, it's not evidence of any such thing. Transference is a thing. Yes, I know you want to find him guilty but don't suspend critical thinking.

https://phys.org/news/2015-10-easy-dna-contaminate-crime-scene.html

He murdered her and disposed of the body with precision. Everyone knows this! Why do you insist he is innocent?

I insist his guilt has not been determined.

Second, posters here can't seem to decide if he was a sloppy hack or a criminal mastermind. You can't have it both ways. He disposes of the body "with precision" but then goes through the local area leaving a trail of incriminating evidence? Pick one consistent story.

[Anonymous]

He was a sloppy hack who thought he was a criminal mastermind. He murdered his wife. Case closed.