Dating a party guy
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Anonymous
| Recently started dating this guy, it’s been about two weeks. Everyone we hangout with his friends it becomes an all night party. Enjoy his energy and outgoing personality but how do I relay to him I want more one on one time? He does drink heavily as do I so no animosity against the party life. Need some advice on how to ask without coming off attention seeking or needy. |
Anonymous
| Break up. You're not compatible and he won't change. |
Anonymous
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I'd bail. This is who he is, and two weeks in you have very little invested. I had a bf like this and he'd never gonna change.
Instead of trying to change guys into who you want, immediately rule out the ones who don't fit your criteria. Kinda amazed you put up with this. He sounds clueless. Dates shouldn't be "hanging out", and a guy who takes a first date to hang out with friends isn't relationship material. |
Anonymous
| How old is he? 20s, its normal and even he probably knows he'll have to slow down. 30s and he's a man child |
Anonymous
| OP here. He is 36. Does well for himself, smart outgoing tech guy. |
Anonymous
| How did you meet this guy? Why are you hanging out with his friends after only 2 weeks? |
Anonymous
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This guy would hold ZERO appeal for me.
Almost partying and getting drunk at all night parties??? |
Anonymous
| *Almost 40 (not partying) |
Anonymous
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I know this can be a hard decision op. Good Luck with it...If you are in a light mood and have a sense of humor see below..
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_tO9dA2syYM |
Anonymous
We met on a boat party few months ago, he was causally dating another girl. We recently ran into each other at a mutual friends place, mentioned he is single now. We really hit it off and vibe well. He has invited me to hangout and meet his other friends roughly everyday. The friends seem to be involved in a hardcore work hard play hard lifestyle. Every night seems to be another hangout that slowly turns into a party or place where everyone is invited. Never seems to be one on one time with the two of us. |
Anonymous
| This is behavior that says a lot about his capacity to connect. It's not good |
Anonymous
Do you have a physical relationship? This sounds kind of friend-zoney. You could try asking him to dinner, or making dinner, but I doubt things will change. |
Anonymous
| Failure to launch. Loser. |
Anonymous
| Yes, amazing physical connection. He’s very affectionate with me around his friends. It’s not a friend zone situation. |
Anonymous
OMG funny. |