Dating a party guy

[Anonymous]

Party Animal!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does his name start with D? I think we dated the same guy. LOl
Last month I met a guy like that. On our second date, out of the blue, he introduced me to his friend. He's 36 also. He likes to party and stay up late at night every weekend. Every time he wanted to invite to any plan, it would include his friends. To me, it was a little weird for a new relationship. I called to quit. I took it like he wasn't 100% interested to get to know me.

Ooh. She said earlier it does start w/ D!!!!!!

Oh, I missed that part! I didn't read the whole thread.

[Anonymous]

There’s a reason he is 36 and single. If you want to casually date great, but this dude will never settle with you. Raise your standards.

[Anonymous]

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A question to clarify, other posters are inferring he is using you for sex. But if you guys are never alone, when does the sex occur?

Boat orgy.

Typical weekend on the Georgetown waterfront

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Does he live in a group house with a few other guys who like to play beer pong and act like they're still living in a fraternity house? If so, then you definitely need to move on.

No, he is very successful, actually. Owns his own home in DC Proper. He is a consultant and started his own side company.

Pp poster here! My two-cent we dated the same guy. Does he live in U street?

PP, where did you meet him? [/quote]

At a cafe
He's white, very tall
His name starts with D
He's very affectionate, even in front of his friends. He makes you feel like he's crazily in love with you and will call you babe from the first date.
His dog's name starts with H
Lives in DC
He's a consultant and just started his own company.
He can't literally live without his friend. He can easily attend 3 events/parties in a day (that includes weekdays too)
He's a homeowner. Selling his condo.
I felt that he wasn't the person for me. So I ended thing. Is the same guy?

Not the OP. Had a friend who dated this guy. If it’s not an open relationship he will dump you. Don’t walk, run!

[Anonymous]

It's too bad the last page disappeared. The OP came back and said it wasn't the same guy, and she and her friend were going away for a weekend together.

[Anonymous]

How old are you, OP?

If you are in your 20s, I would be fine with this. If you are older and looking to settle down, I would not invest too much into this relationship.

This whole lifestyle seems irresponsible in the middle of a pandemic. Boat party. Partying all night at doctors houses. Going away with friends.

I’m married to a surgeon. There are some residents and attendings who definitely still party. Not sure what they are doing during covid.

[Anonymous]

He's not dating you. And he doesn't want to. If he wanted to, he would spend one on one time with you. He enjoys your company and mostly wants to hook up. End of story. I don't think its personal though...this is probably just where he is at right now.

Also, enjoy COVID. With this kind of behavior and the cases tending the way they are, if you keep this up, its a matter of time before you get it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's too bad the last page disappeared. The OP came back and said it wasn't the same guy, and she and her friend were going away for a weekend together.

Hahaha, it was totally the same guy and she knew it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's not dating you. And he doesn't want to. If he wanted to, he would spend one on one time with you. He enjoys your company and mostly wants to hook up. End of story. I don't think its personal though...this is probably just where he is at right now.

Also, enjoy COVID. With this kind of behavior and the cases tending the way they are, if you keep this up, its a matter of time before you get it.

+1. You're fun companionship and someone to go home with at the end of the night, but not his girlfriend. If that's ok with you, carry on. If looking for your future husband, move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's too bad the last page disappeared. The OP came back and said it wasn't the same guy, and she and her friend were going away for a weekend together.

Hahaha, it was totally the same guy and she knew it.

I think so too

[Anonymous]

OP Here! People still posting on this thread?! Thought it had faded out. The last page was deleted so here...

Clarification, not the same bro as the PP's listed. As stated, the guy I'm "dating" does not own a condo but townhouse not near the location as the other man. Thankfully no dog as I am allergic. Plus guy would have been called out on his BS!

I'm 28, about to be 29. Already had Covid at some point with no symptoms but carry the antibodies. As for the guy I'm "dating" think I was overly nervous felt this thread held some value with being new to the dating scene here in DC. Thankfully the feedback was helpful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP Here! People still posting on this thread?! Thought it had faded out. The last page was deleted so here...

Clarification, not the same bro as the PP's listed. As stated, the guy I'm "dating" does not own a condo but townhouse not near the location as the other man. Thankfully no dog as I am allergic. Plus guy would have been called out on his BS!

I'm 28, about to be 29. Already had Covid at some point with no symptoms but carry the antibodies. As for the guy I'm "dating" think I was overly nervous felt this thread held some value with being new to the dating scene here in DC. Thankfully the feedback was helpful.

Already had COVID, of course you did, because you can't stop partying for long enough to think of others you may have exposed. Thanks for being part of the reason none of us can get back to normal...also, antibodies to COVID are not necessarily durable. Jury is out on T-cell response. If you were asymptomatic, your immune response is likely...not strong.

[Anonymous]

You can still give it to others unless you’re testing negative. Herpes however is forever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You can still give it to others unless you’re testing negative. Herpes however is forever.

Sorry to hear about your STD issue. Hearts!