Dating a party guy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why the hell are you out partying every night during a pandemic? Let’s start there.

Boats and hos! Prestige worldwide!!

[Anonymous]

Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How did you meet this guy? Why are you hanging out with his friends after only 2 weeks?

We met on a boat party few months ago, he was causally dating another girl. We recently ran into each other at a mutual friends place, mentioned he is single now. We really hit it off and vibe well. He has invited me to hangout and meet his other friends roughly everyday. The friends seem to be involved in a hardcore work hard play hard lifestyle. Every night seems to be another hangout that slowly turns into a party or place where everyone is invited. Never seems to be one on one time with the two of us.

Now he’s “casually dating“ you. He probably “vibed well” with her too. Your outcome with this fella will be no different than hers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How did you meet this guy? Why are you hanging out with his friends after only 2 weeks?

We met on a boat party few months ago, he was causally dating another girl. We recently ran into each other at a mutual friends place, mentioned he is single now. We really hit it off and vibe well. He has invited me to hangout and meet his other friends roughly everyday. The friends seem to be involved in a hardcore work hard play hard lifestyle. Every night seems to be another hangout that slowly turns into a party or place where everyone is invited. Never seems to be one on one time with the two of us.

There’s your answer.

[Anonymous]

Exactly.

He is not dating you. He is a partier that will have sex with whoever is left over at the end of the party.

Sounds like you have been that girl.

Can't imagine a less appealing lifestyle.

(Not to mention, as others have said...who goes to parties during the pandemic? You two might be well suited for each other.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why the hell are you out partying every night during a pandemic? Let’s start there.

Doctors are the ones throwing these parties. Bet you didn’t expect that one. Shocking! I know.

There are stupid people in every profession.

These in particular may feel fatalistic because they are exposed to the virus every day.

What is your excuse for acting idiotically?

[Anonymous]

And it would be very unhealthy and unprofessional to party all night if you have to be a doctor the next day.

<<Alcohol Abuse Among Doctors
A nationwide study of substance use disorders in a large sample of physicians showed that alcohol is the most commonly abused substance among doctors in the United States.5 Data show 12.9% of male physicians and 21.9% of female physicians abuse alcohol, much higher rates than the 6.2% of the overall U.S. population aged 18 years or older with an alcohol use disorder.6 A 5-year cohort study of physician health programs found that alcohol was the primary substance of abuse for more than half of the doctors enrolled in these addiction support and monitoring programs.>>

[Anonymous]

Does his name start with D? I think we dated the same guy. LOl
Last month I met a guy like that. On our second date, out of the blue, he introduced me to his friend. He's 36 also. He likes to party and stay up late at night every weekend. Every time he wanted to invite to any plan, it would include his friends. To me, it was a little weird for a new relationship. I called to quit. I took it like he wasn't 100% interested to get to know me.

[Anonymous]

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A question to clarify, other posters are inferring he is using you for sex. But if you guys are never alone, when does the sex occur?

Boat orgy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does he live in a group house with a few other guys who like to play beer pong and act like they're still living in a fraternity house? If so, then you definitely need to move on.

No, he is very successful actually. Owns his own home in DC Proper. He is a consultant and started his own side company.

Pp poster here! My two-cent we dated the same guy. Does he live in U street?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does his name start with D? I think we dated the same guy. LOl
Last month I met a guy like that. On our second date, out of the blue, he introduced me to his friend. He's 36 also. He likes to party and stay up late at night every weekend. Every time he wanted to invite to any plan, it would include his friends. To me, it was a little weird for a new relationship. I called to quit. I took it like he wasn't 100% interested to get to know me.

Ooh. She said earlier it does start w/ D!!!!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does he live in a group house with a few other guys who like to play beer pong and act like they're still living in a fraternity house? If so, then you definitely need to move on.

No, he is very successful actually. Owns his own home in DC Proper. He is a consultant and started his own side company.

Pp poster here! My two-cent we dated the same guy. Does he live in U street?

PP, where did you meet him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does he live in a group house with a few other guys who like to play beer pong and act like they're still living in a fraternity house? If so, then you definitely need to move on.

No, he is very successful, actually. Owns his own home in DC Proper. He is a consultant and started his own side company.

Pp poster here! My two-cent we dated the same guy. Does he live in U street?

PP, where did you meet him? [/quote]

At a cafe
He's white, very tall
His name starts with D
He's very affectionate, even in front of his friends. He makes you feel like he's crazily in love with you and will call you babe from the first date.
His dog's name starts with H
Lives in DC
He's a consultant and just started his own company.
He can't literally live without his friend. He can easily attend 3 events/parties in a day (that includes weekdays too)
He's a homeowner. Selling his condo.
I felt that he wasn't the person for me. So I ended thing. Is the same guy?

[Anonymous]

Op, this is your (future) children's Father?
Is this who you want?
Don't your children desire better?
... so why date him? It's wasted energy. And just messes with your radar for finding a good choice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does he live in a group house with a few other guys who like to play beer pong and act like they're still living in a fraternity house? If so, then you definitely need to move on.

Kinda like US congressmen?😉😳