HS Party with Alcohol... Death

[Anonymous]

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You're still not answering the question.

You appear to be correct. Who cares? No one.

Well, no, actually, I care. And I am probably not the only one, but maybe I am. I am wondering what your motivation is, to pursue LOCK THEM UP LOCK THEM UP LOCK THEM UP through 61 pages and almost 3 months of a thread on DCUM.

What is your motivation for this?

Lots of posters have said these killings are sure to continue, until party hosting parents are punished with a little jail time. What else do they care about? Nothing, sadly.

Your motivation, please. Not other people's motivations. Your motivation. What is your motivation?

Besides a fondness for asking rhetorical questions and casing aspersions on other people's motives, which DCUM certainly does give full scope for.

[Anonymous]

21:59 seems to think he can intimidate posters. He may carry on with his ridiculous demands for posters to identify themselves. I think they have anger management classes for people like him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Respect the dead kids please.

Which dead kids?

This crash in Silver Spring in 2011?
http://www.wusa9.com/news/article/197734/435/Desaleen-James-Shares-Her-Story-and-Video-from-the-Drunk-Driving-Crash-That-killed-Her-Two-Friends

Or these kids from 2012?
http://patch.com/maryland/bethesda-chevychase/vigil-held-for-young-man-woman-killed-on-jones-bridge-road

Or this kid from 2014?
http://www.wusa9.com/story/news/local/2014/08/30/3-people-injured-in-md-accident/14862269/

Or these kids from 1995?
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/local/longterm/library/magazine/drinking060798.htm

Let's talk about alcohol prevention and teen driving.

And about the parents who supply the alcohol.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know the facts here, but usually the "adult" that provides the alcohol is just someone barely over 21 or it is a liquor store that couldn't detect a fake id, rarely is it a parent.

In either case, I think that person, if found guilty, should go to jail too.

The police reported the facts, and you know it. The adult was the parent at the party crime site, his home.

I thought the police said the adult was present when they arrived but the could not verify if he was present during the party. Also, the police didn't say anything about who supplied the alcohol.

Just saying, it is not typical for a parent to supply, the usual source is kids a few years older or fake IDs.

[Anonymous]

or another kid the same age who has a connection to an older kid to buy it. Same works with weed. It isn't some scary drug dealer, it is some kid that they probably knew from elementary school who has a connection.

[Anonymous]

To the pp who continuously posts about the "parent host providing alcohol and venue and allowing teens to drive home," you could be wrong on every "fact" and you could be right -- we haven't seen a conclusive report (and even then it would be up to a judge or jury to find criminal liability) -- but one point you're 100% blind to: If you think that the majority of teen alcohol is provided by parents, you are clueless.

[Anonymous]

There are many posters who know that parent providers of alcohol need jail time consequences, if they are to reconsider their reckless (literally!) behavior.

This is what I know. Lots of diligent parents will call the parents of a kid hosting a party to verify there'll be no alcohol drinking and parents will be home.

Here's what they need to do. Call the home the evening of the party after it's started. Ask to speak to the parent, to thank them for inviting your kid, and you'll be late, but you're on the way.

Here's the shocker now...
No parent is at home. These "cool" parents will lie right to your face about being home during the party.

They will stock the bar and leave for the night, or better yet... the weekend.

Just try it, and see for yourselves how it works.

[Anonymous]

http://www.wusa9.com/story/news/local/potomac/2015/09/18/sources-parent-party-led-fatal-n-potomac-crash/72414462/

[Anonymous]

OMG. The hosting party parent is Kenneth J. Saltzman of North Potomac, MD. a very influential big time lawyer. The arrogant one of this thread? Only admin can verify, as he's been successful in having certain posts removed.

Saltzman and drinking driver, Ellis, will be charged in October.

I am sick to my stomach with the revelation of who "chaperoned" this deadly party. Was there no mother at home? Divorced?

This is devastating.

[Anonymous]

Why would it matter if they were divorced? (Just curious)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why would it matter if they were divorced? (Just curious)

In spite of the fact that so many kids now have divorced/separated parents, it's still typically an added hardship for kids to have to deal with that kind of family mess. You can research the stats if you like.

Don't know if the Saltzman girl had divorced parents or not. But I just can't imagine a responsible mother allowing that kind of party, seeing the drinking, then waving good night to the kids as they drove off in their cars.

When your kid says certain parents are cool, is that what they mean?

[Anonymous]

Washington Post said they got a copy of the police report and that the parent knew drinking was happening at the house, saw the beer coming in the door.


https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/education/we-felt-invincible-new-report-details-deadly-teen-crash-party-that-preceded-it/2015/09/18/be2947ce-5d77-11e5-b38e-06883aacba64_story.html

[Anonymous]

These are educated parents. Can someone please explain what they might have been thinking? Were *they* too drunk to behave like parents?

On that note, even though all parents probably say, "Call me if you need a ride home," perhaps the kids know their parents are also drinking, so what's the use?

[Anonymous]

I am just so sad for all those involved. I don't know why I clicked on the link to the recent story. It just made me feel worse. Mostly for the families of the deceased boys, but their friends, the driver, the passenger that survived, even the hosting parent that should have done some things differently. Very very sad.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No one is actually saying anything on this thread. I am close to individuals you are referencing here and I find it very strange the way so many people are speculating on this.

You seem to be new to this site, or have you not read the entire 61 pages of this thread? Anonymous posters speculate about every. single. news story they care about. Hence, the wild success of DCUM.

Since you're saying you're close to the referenced individuals on this thread, I take it that means the driver and/or the party host parents. You don't need to say if you think anyone who breaks the law should have any consequences. But perhaps if there were small consequences for small offenses, there wouldn't be these two dead boys today.

Do you seriously think this was the first time breaking the law for any of these people?

I know for a fact it is not.

This is what should be so sad. Why didn't anyone curb the criminal activity sooner than now?