What kind of women do UMC well adjusted men find attractive?

[Anonymous]

I understand this may be a silly question but, humor me. I have observed that certain friends of mine have ended up with a very specific kind of guy. Some would call them "yuppies." From what I can tell these are their qualities:

- Come from a well-off background
- Have great careers where they are successful
- They are driven and motivated
- They are organized, thoughtful and have a plan for what they want in life and work
- Well adjusted individuals. They are functioning adults without any substance abuse or personality issues
- Put together. Dress in clean, preppy clothes; slim pants and button downs and "stylish" gym wear
- They have a great group of friends

I guess I am at a loss because I can spot these guys and am always interested but they have never shown an interest in me. Meanwhile two of my close friends recently became engaged to this exact kind of guy. I am envious as I am always approached by the messy artsy types who have lackluster careers, drink too much and have self esteem issues. What kind of woman should I aim to be to attract this kind of guy?

[Anonymous]

Gross.

Gold digger. You don't have it, honey.

It starts with class, a great education and a great career. Men like that value brains along with beauty.

[Anonymous]

Most people marry people who grew up in their class. Men who were raised UMC prefer women who were raised the same way, and vice versa. No, it's not something you can fake.

If the money is what matters to you find a guy who made his money yesterday. Those men are happy to date the women who grew up LMC.

[Anonymous]

The kind that have rich parents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most people marry people who grew up in their class. Men who were raised UMC prefer women who were raised the same way, and vice versa. No, it's not something you can fake.

If the money is what matters to you find a guy who made his money yesterday. Those men are happy to date the women who grew up LMC.

I am not LMC. I grew up UMC. I was socially awkward and had anxiety issues so I did not make a lot of social connections among my peers.

[Anonymous]

Skinny, young and attractive

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The kind that have rich parents.

Neither of my friends had rich parents, although they both work in UMC professions currently.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most people marry people who grew up in their class. Men who were raised UMC prefer women who were raised the same way, and vice versa. No, it's not something you can fake.

If the money is what matters to you find a guy who made his money yesterday. Those men are happy to date the women who grew up LMC.

I am not LMC. I grew up UMC. I was socially awkward and had anxiety issues so I did not make a lot of social connections among my peers.

So what's stopping you from making those connections now? Are you attractive and do you have a decent job?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most people marry people who grew up in their class. Men who were raised UMC prefer women who were raised the same way, and vice versa. No, it's not something you can fake.

If the money is what matters to you find a guy who made his money yesterday. Those men are happy to date the women who grew up LMC.

I am not LMC. I grew up UMC. I was socially awkward and had anxiety issues so I did not make a lot of social connections among my peers.

So what's stopping you from making those connections now? Are you attractive and do you have a decent job?

I would say I am probably a 6 on a scale of 10. I am skinny fat and do not put a lot of effort into my looks or style. I work as a program specialist for a non profit. I am not a professional rock star but I have worked for prestigious organizations.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most people marry people who grew up in their class. Men who were raised UMC prefer women who were raised the same way, and vice versa. No, it's not something you can fake.

If the money is what matters to you find a guy who made his money yesterday. Those men are happy to date the women who grew up LMC.

I am not LMC. I grew up UMC. I was socially awkward and had anxiety issues so I did not make a lot of social connections among my peers.

So what's stopping you from making those connections now? Are you attractive and do you have a decent job?

I would say I am probably a 6 on a scale of 10. I am skinny fat and do not put a lot of effort into my looks or style. I work as a program specialist for a non profit. I am not a professional rock star but I have worked for prestigious organizations.

So you're not attractive, you don't have a good job, and you have social issues? I know this sounds harsh, but of course men aren't going to be lining up to take that on. Would you date you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most people marry people who grew up in their class. Men who were raised UMC prefer women who were raised the same way, and vice versa. No, it's not something you can fake.

If the money is what matters to you find a guy who made his money yesterday. Those men are happy to date the women who grew up LMC.

I am not LMC. I grew up UMC. I was socially awkward and had anxiety issues so I did not make a lot of social connections among my peers.

So what's stopping you from making those connections now? Are you attractive and do you have a decent job?

I would say I am probably a 6 on a scale of 10. I am skinny fat and do not put a lot of effort into my looks or style. I work as a program specialist for a non profit. I am not a professional rock star but I have worked for prestigious organizations.

So you're not attractive, you don't have a good job, and you have social issues? I know this sounds harsh, but of course men aren't going to be lining up to take that on. Would you date you?

Probably not.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most people marry people who grew up in their class. Men who were raised UMC prefer women who were raised the same way, and vice versa. No, it's not something you can fake.

If the money is what matters to you find a guy who made his money yesterday. Those men are happy to date the women who grew up LMC.

I am not LMC. I grew up UMC. I was socially awkward and had anxiety issues so I did not make a lot of social connections among my peers.

So what's stopping you from making those connections now? Are you attractive and do you have a decent job?

I would say I am probably a 6 on a scale of 10. I am skinny fat and do not put a lot of effort into my looks or style. I work as a program specialist for a non profit. I am not a professional rock star but I have worked for prestigious organizations.

So you're not attractive, you don't have a good job, and you have social issues? I know this sounds harsh, but of course men aren't going to be lining up to take that on. Would you date you?

Probably not.

So fix it Take it step by step, start with small improvements.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most people marry people who grew up in their class. Men who were raised UMC prefer women who were raised the same way, and vice versa. No, it's not something you can fake.

If the money is what matters to you find a guy who made his money yesterday. Those men are happy to date the women who grew up LMC.

I am not LMC. I grew up UMC. I was socially awkward and had anxiety issues so I did not make a lot of social connections among my peers.

So what's stopping you from making those connections now? Are you attractive and do you have a decent job?

I would say I am probably a 6 on a scale of 10. I am skinny fat and do not put a lot of effort into my looks or style. I work as a program specialist for a non profit. I am not a professional rock star but I have worked for prestigious organizations.

So you're not attractive, you don't have a good job, and you have social issues? I know this sounds harsh, but of course men aren't going to be lining up to take that on. Would you date you?

Probably not.

Start with some easy fixes! start some kind of exercise routine... a daily walk, yoga video. You will feel so much better about yourself, and you'll find that your clothes start to fit you better and look better, even without changing your style.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most people marry people who grew up in their class. Men who were raised UMC prefer women who were raised the same way, and vice versa. No, it's not something you can fake.

If the money is what matters to you find a guy who made his money yesterday. Those men are happy to date the women who grew up LMC.

I am not LMC. I grew up UMC. I was socially awkward and had anxiety issues so I did not make a lot of social connections among my peers.

So what's stopping you from making those connections now? Are you attractive and do you have a decent job?

I would say I am probably a 6 on a scale of 10. I am skinny fat and do not put a lot of effort into my looks or style. I work as a program specialist for a non profit. I am not a professional rock star but I have worked for prestigious organizations.

So you're not attractive, you don't have a good job, and you have social issues? I know this sounds harsh, but of course men aren't going to be lining up to take that on. Would you date you?

Probably not.

Start with some easy fixes! start some kind of exercise routine... a daily walk, yoga video. You will feel so much better about yourself, and you'll find that your clothes start to fit you better and look better, even without changing your style.

Does OP even have a job? Start with going back to school if you don't have good creds and getting a good job.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gross.

Gold digger. You don't have it, honey.

It starts with class, a great education and a great career. Men like that value brains along with beauty.

The only person displaying a lack of class in this thread is whoever posted this.