When to move into a sexual relationship?

[Anonymous]

When did you have sex with your husband or wife after meeting them? How long did you date?

[Anonymous]

Third date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Third date.

3 months.

[Anonymous]

4th date, dated 9 months

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When did you have sex with your husband or wife after meeting them? How long did you date?

Why?

[Anonymous]

about a year- wedding night.

[Anonymous]

3rd date

[Anonymous]

6 months but we were teenagers when we met/first had sex.

[Anonymous]

When both of you are ready to do so.

I know couples who slept together the first night they met, and are happily married. I know the same of those who waited a year or two until the wedding night, and everything in between.

[Anonymous]

Anytime you want?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When both of you are ready to do so.

I know couples who slept together the first night they met, and are happily married. I know the same of those who waited a year or two until the wedding night, and everything in between.

Those couples who hook up the first date then marry are weird. They hook up the first date without knowing if the other is infected or caring. Don't they realize how stupid their hookup date is and how many times the other has done it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When both of you are ready to do so.

I know couples who slept together the first night they met, and are happily married. I know the same of those who waited a year or two until the wedding night, and everything in between.

Those couples who hook up the first date then marry are weird. They hook up the first date without knowing if the other is infected or caring. Don't they realize how stupid their hookup date is and how many times the other has done it?

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Married 20+ years and have 4 kids. Not infected. I had done it way more than him. All good. Thanks!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When both of you are ready to do so.

I know couples who slept together the first night they met, and are happily married. I know the same of those who waited a year or two until the wedding night, and everything in between.

Those couples who hook up the first date then marry are weird. They hook up the first date without knowing if the other is infected or caring. Don't they realize how stupid their hookup date is and how many times the other has done it?

I don't follow. They have sex on the first date so they shouldn't get married? People who have sex after months of dating are all virgins or every single one of them get tested beforehand? Having one night stand means you have had multiple?

Explain yourself.

[Anonymous]

I think this is a different question asked in the middle of the pandemic, where more people are going to be taking it a bit slower than they otherwise would have.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think this is a different question asked in the middle of the pandemic, where more people are going to be taking it a bit slower than they otherwise would have.

You would think so, but no, no many people are definitely not taking it slow.