What happened to this California family?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Who goes on a hike that long with a baby? It’s such a strange plan. Can anyone explain this? I was the mom who always had the kids at home for naps and most meals, so it does not compute. Still, this is absurd for anyone, right?


Not all moms do that. My kids spent more than half of their naps in a carrier or in the car.
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Anonymous wrote:Apparently two deputies had to spend the night at the site after the bodies were discovered to make sure no one would tamper with the site. I can’t imagine staying overnight even with another person with me for support.


Why? They work crime scenes 24x7?


At a hazmat site?

Brave men.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:The baby and dog were with the last standing parent. She wouldn't leave her baby with an ailing dad. You might leave the dog to guard the sick person, but you wouldn't leave the baby. You also can't hike carrying a baby on your hip. You can easily trip and drop it. A man might carry a baby on his shoulders but that's not very wise because you could lose your grip with sweaty hands. You have to put it in the carrier.

Maybe the baby and dad were still alive when she tried to get to the car, and she thought it better to go unburdened. I don't know what I would do in that scenario, but I trust my husband with my children.


It's not about trusting the husband! It's about recognizing that a tiny human life is not sustainable in that heat and trying to save your child if your spouse is stroking out.


No, you don't understand. These posters will gain super mom powers when they pick up the baby. Powers that will enable them to sprint 1.5 miles to the car while carrying a 20lb baby. After spending at least 2 hours in the sun and already walked 6.5 miles.

Thank you. Let’s hear more from these mothers who 100% know how they would handle a situation in 105 plus degree heat on a hike that went wrong and lasted several hours beyond what was intended. Tell us how you would have carried the baby (and maybe dad and dog too) up the 1400-2000 ft incline 1.5 miles to the truck while likely suffering from heat exhaustion. I think we could all learn from your knowledge.
Anonymous
The cops aren’t gonna say it was heat stroke until they have the toxicology results. They ran tox for a reason and this wouldn’t be a 60 page thread if the cause of death were obvious. I think I was likely heat-related but clearly something about the scene led the cops to suspect there might be more to the story. Could be undisclosed details or could just be the fact that all 4 of them died in the same area and same loose timeframe. I don’t think that’s weird but clearly lots of people do.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Who goes on a hike that long with a baby? It’s such a strange plan. Can anyone explain this? I was the mom who always had the kids at home for naps and most meals, so it does not compute. Still, this is absurd for anyone, right?


I hiked with all of my kids. Even as infants in a carrier. But not in that kind of heat, and not on trails I didn’t know. My babies napped comfortably in a chest carrier when they were tired. No issues sleeping, napping or eating while being out and about. Babies and toddlers love hiking in the correct environment.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I’ve been following this thread with interest since the beginning but may have to bow out. It’s all just so horrible. If this is what happened (dad unable to push on - whether heat stroke or toxic algae or aliens or whatever - and then mom trying to save them all on her own) they were truly in an impossible situation. You can’t leave the infant behind with her incapacitated dad. You’re too weak to carry the baby out and uphill yourself. You can’t sit down next to them and do nothing. Just awful.

NP here. I think that's just it. People are arguing that it's unimaginable for the mom to leave her baby (to defend one theory or another) aren't realizing that in a situation so intensely stressful, physical and emotionally--and perhaps disorienting with the onset of heat stroke--the mother may well have taken off on her own as the best shot she thought she had, either to find help for herself only, or help for her baby/husband/dog.

Some things that could have made their hike (even downhill part) take even longer than expected (resulting in their uphill climb being pushed later into the heat of the day?):
1. The baby's presence would have delayed them a lot, even beyond being a load to carry: Few 1-yr olds will be content to stay put in a carrier for 2, 3, or more hours straight. The parents might have had to interrupt their hike as she got fussy, to take her out of the carrier for a bit. Even just giving her a drink would involve a couple of minutes' pause. These breaks could have happened repeatedly in the course of a several-hour hike, adding a lot of extra time even from the initial point of the hike. The baby may have even needed a diaper change that they did on the trail. (Seems inconvenient to do on a trail, but if a kid is smelly/uncomfortable, parents would do a change quickly and make it work.) As the child got more and more uncomfortable in the heat, the need to calm the baby may have also caused them to pause more.
2. Since the trail does go down by the river, it's possible that the family may have tried to cool off, or let the dog cool off, in the river. Even if they weren't harmed by toxic algae blooms (see #4 below) this again would slow them down and throw off their intended timing.
3. The mines may be ruled out as a cause of fumes/death, but is it possible that the couple were curious to find mines and explore a little? Because the mines are disused and likely overgrown, maybe the couple didn't locate any (because in there they could have cooled down, I suppose), but wasted some time looking for them.

Other conditions that I don't think have been teased out as much as they could be:
4. I don't know the details behind the toxic algae theory, but I suppose one factor arguing against this has been that the family had water in their packs. But it's not hard to imagine that maybe one or all of the party drank some:
--(i) maybe the dog did go in the river, and drank it (if a hot canine came near a cool-looking river, wouldn't it make a beeline for it, and of course drink?); maybe it started to get ill after a short while, needing carrying (it'd explain why the dog was right near the dad) and thus adding to the couple's strain; and/or
--(ii) the couple decided to conserve their own water by taking drinks from the river.
--(iii) they decided to cool off the baby in the river (as in #2 above), and in the process, the baby got some water in its mouth, perhaps inadvertently or perhaps as an attempt to get the baby to get hydrated/cooled. I'd not let my 1-yr old drink from a river, but they could have been unaware of the dangers, felt the natural location made it relatively pure--especially if they felt that they'd desperately need to keep hydrated and that this need would justify the risks. (This, in fact, could have led all of them to drink from it, as in (ii).
5. Someone upthread mentioned that the mom might have been breastfeeding and therefore could have been more dehydrated. Many moms do breastfeed a child older than 1 yr old. This would have also delayed their timing.

I am wondering whether the possibility that they went into the river at some point is so compelling for the investigators that they are not eliminating the possibility that toxic algae exacerbated/contributed to the heat stroke. An article I briefly skimmed online mentioned that in the past, closing trails because of potential algae, or even just warnings of it, makes people steer clear and local businesses get upset if it's unproven. So the authorities could be wanting to see whether it's a contributing factor but being cautious.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Apparently two deputies had to spend the night at the site after the bodies were discovered to make sure no one would tamper with the site. I can’t imagine staying overnight even with another person with me for support.


Why? They work crime scenes 24x7?


At a hazmat site?

Brave men.


I'm sure they took precautions....

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Who goes on a hike that long with a baby? It’s such a strange plan. Can anyone explain this? I was the mom who always had the kids at home for naps and most meals, so it does not compute. Still, this is absurd for anyone, right?

This is what brings me back to my first assumption: murder suicide. Because who gathers the whole family together for a fatal hike in the middle of nowhere in obviously dangerous heat when you are an experienced hiker snd live there. Also the police not just saying “ died of heatstroke which would be obvious. There is more the police are not saying.


Who would go for a run in obviously dangerous heat? Who would got for a hike in Death Valley in obviously dangerous heat? There are at least three examples of similar stupidity.
Anonymous
Ok so no trees around to sit under, but about an old mine? I don’t know the first thing about mines but could they have gone inside an old abandoned mine to escape the heat? This is assuming they had the presence of mind and weren’t delirious from heat stroke. Were there any mines close enough for them to have rested for several hours and headed back to the car in the evening? I realize this wasn’t their plan when they initially went on this tragic hike.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Ok so no trees around to sit under, but about an old mine? I don’t know the first thing about mines but could they have gone inside an old abandoned mine to escape the heat? This is assuming they had the presence of mind and weren’t delirious from heat stroke. Were there any mines close enough for them to have rested for several hours and headed back to the car in the evening? I realize this wasn’t their plan when they initially went on this tragic hike.


I thought I saw upthread that they were only about a mile or so was it from the car. But if two well hydrated adults left home with baby and dog in tow, could they really not survive heatstroke? It’s not like they were wandering the desert for days. This is why I question heatstroke.
Anonymous
I don't think there were any mines that nearby to them. I've been in an abandoned mine. It was just a hole in the ground with a danger sign.
Anonymous
Heatstroke is not the same as dehydration and has a high fatality rate. The body is basically melting/cooking from the inside out. Those that do survive may have brain damage.

https://www.cnn.com/2017/07/24/health/heat-stroke-explainer/index.html#:~:text=Heat%20stroke%20places%20you%20at%20risk%20for%20permanent,fast%20strong%20pulse%2C%20headache%2C%20nausea%2C%20and%20feeling%20dizzy
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don't think there were any mines that nearby to them. I've been in an abandoned mine. It was just a hole in the ground with a danger sign.

I’m PP of 21:08, and I agree with your take. The other PP’s question is perplexing, sort of framed as “shouldn’t the couple have thought about and followed through with this potential emergency plan?’ (Eg hiding out in a mine shaft to stay cool). Maybe I mis-understood the other PP. But I think we can reasonably assume that the couple wasn’t approaching their hike in a way that thought through all the potential pitfalls, like scorching heat, so why would people expect that they were operating in a focused, smart survival mode when under stress. It’s hard to expect anyone to be. More to the point, it’s not about whether they could have saved themselves in some way. Their options, whatever they perceived them to be, ran out, sadly, and it’s a matter of understanding how it happened.

My point on the mines was that maybe they were initially part of the appeal, as in an adventurous aspect of the trail, so the couple may have dallied a bit searching for them early on. I agree that they weren’t likely to have used them (or been able to use them) for cooling off/shelter.
Anonymous
This article says a witness saw them heading to the trail early morning.
https://www.sfchronicle.com/bayarea/article/Chemical-hazards-on-trail-gunshots-ruled-out-as-16414619.php
Anonymous
It was in the 90s within an hour of their 8ish am start time.

It is always safest to NOT have a big, steep climb at the end. When tired or even with heat exhaustion, not heat stroke, a sprained ankle, etc, gravity pulling you really helps. That 2000 foot climb up the completely exposed switchbacks had to be brutal. The Google Earth view is worth a look. There is a reason LE called it an "aggressive" hike. I imagine they were carrying the dog by that point too.

Stuff of nightmares.
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