Truly remarkable. A Notre Dame grad quickly jumped in and AGREED with you. Then another, very politely, didn’t. And that constitutes defensiveness? To me it sounds like reasonably stated differences of opinion. You know, like you might expect to hear about your own alma mater if you cared to disclose it. |
DP: The defensiveness is the people who are sure everyone is "bashing" Notre Dame when they criticize it at all. I'm Catholic, have family at ND, and I have repeatedly been lumped in with ND bashers on this forum when I point out its weaknesses (even though I'm also pointing out its strengths--like the PP you're referring too). |
I am Catholic, and I grew upnin the regioHe school is also cult-like for football.n so I know what I am talking about. |
Put down the phone until you sober up is my advice. |
Several people responded very quickly, most of whom disagreed even though I specifically said it was a good school with smart, talented students. I was surprised because I literally led with "ND is a great school" and then went on to explain some relatively minor things I have found common to very recent grads. The responses seemed more defensive than was merited for a fairly complimentary post, particularly the person who immediately leapt in to explain that all ND grads are "brilliant" which is overkill and obviously not true -- all schools have a mean, even Harvard and Yale. I went to well-respected state university for undergrad and would be the first to offer or accept criticism of its shortcomings. I've actually offered those observations directly to the school's administration with whom I'm on good terms because of my position. I think it's important to be measured in praise for any school, and they all have flaws, including mine. |
I’m a different ND alum who also posted earlier in this thread. I think this is a fair criticism/observation of recent grads and I agree with the alum PP above. A recent ND grad would certainly show up on time, wearing appropriate clothes, and interact appropriately with leaders, but you probably would find quite a few who don’t seem “street smart” or worldly. They catch up, but those years in the ND bubble do seem to turn out that kind of kid (I admit I was one). This alone wouldn’t cause me to discourage others from going there, as most of my class has ended up being very successful, 15 years out, but it’s worth keeping in mind as one of many factors to consider. |
Yea, well, it's pretty obvious from how you write that you didn't go there . . . |
I bet you consider yourself ''worldly.'' |
I honestly don't know a single person who would choose Notre Dame over Cornell or Northwestern. Berkeley, either, for that matter. I can't comment on Rice because I don't know anyone from there and am not familiar with the school. |
This is what that person said, word for word: "Our organization actually seeks out ND grads (along with other top universities). We find the ND grads to be not only brilliant, but the easiest to work with..the least pompous. Just a personal experience." The opinion expressed -- that the poster's organization finds ND grads to be brilliant, easy to work with, and not pompous -- is just as valid and experience-based as your opinion that ND students are "immature." There's nothing over the top about it at all. You just happen to disagree with it. |
Oh my goodness ND is full of kids who chose it over Northwestern. I don’t imagine there’s a ton of overlap in people applying to Cornell vs Notre Dame, and probably really depends on what atmosphere the student would like. And I don’t really know much about Rice either. Berkeley is an interesting one… I suspect it depends on in-state vs out of stare. It’s got to be nearly impossible to turn down Berkeley at instate tuition. ND, more than most schools I think, is what it says it is. If you think you’ll like it there, you will probably love it. If you don’t get it, that’s totally fine. Not the school for you. |
I don't know...looks like some chose ND to me...
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Well ggodie for you, but your anecdote means nothing. Notre Dame, like virtually every other top school, is full of students who turned down admissions offers from other top schools. |
Parchment, for the 100th time, is not accurate. |
DP. Parchment may not be accurate, but it's more telling than some poster's personal opinion based on "everyone she knows." Notre Dame has many many students who turned down offers from all 27 of the schools on the other PP's list. Harvard included. |