Have you ever been called ugly?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was voted ugliest girl in 4th grade and ended up modeling as teen and into my 20s. You don't have to accept the labels people give you.

I have a question. Where did some of you go to school that this kind of stuff was allowed in front of teachers. There was an ugliest girl superlative in your yearbook?? Wtf?

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Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.

It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.

LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.

ikr . Like eating a donut filled with tuna.

LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.

That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."

LOL, OMG that is horrible!

Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.

I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!

FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .

Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.

Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.

I've been called beautiful by both men and women, ugly by women only (twice in my life, ouch), and "unattractive at first" once by a man (and I suspect others felt it but didn't say it). What does that make me? Everyone has different tastes I guess....

Well, being called beautiful by women who are related to you doesn't count. If men call you beautiful, that doesn't count either, because they have ulterior motives. So I guess you are ugly like me, who also has been called ugly by two women. Sorry. We can be uggos together I guess! lol. (I'm totally kidding)

What if it's a gay guy? I've been called ugly by a woman and pretty by straight men but if a gay guy called me pretty what does that mean?

Hell yeah! If a gay man calls you pretty you can take that to the bank ! Getting compliments from gay men is actually the most accurate measure of your looks.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I was voted ugliest girl in 4th grade and ended up modeling as teen and into my 20s. You don't have to accept the labels people give you.

I have a question. Where did some of you go to school that this kind of stuff was allowed in front of teachers. There was an ugliest girl superlative in your yearbook?? Wtf?

Ugh really? Kids don’t show their asses in front of adults!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am fairly attractive if I groom myself and fairly unattractive if I am ungroomed.

I do have nice features and skin so no I have never been ugly. I think if I was called ugly by others and it was the general consensus, it would have made me very sad.

I think some women are hard to look at -Sarah Sanders, Kathy Griffith etc.

I think many women can become at least average with intervention. There are very few who don't reach the average mark with intervention.

Same here! I can look like a scary witch when home laying around but a super model if I want! As long as you have good skin decent features.

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Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.

It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.

LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.

ikr . Like eating a donut filled with tuna.

LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.

That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."

LOL, OMG that is horrible!

Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.

I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!

FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .

Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.

Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.

I've been called beautiful by both men and women, ugly by women only (twice in my life, ouch), and "unattractive at first" once by a man (and I suspect others felt it but didn't say it). What does that make me? Everyone has different tastes I guess....

Well, being called beautiful by women who are related to you doesn't count. If men call you beautiful, that doesn't count either, because they have ulterior motives. So I guess you are ugly like me, who also has been called ugly by two women. Sorry. We can be uggos together I guess! lol. (I'm totally kidding)

Members of my family? I'm a middle aged woman. No, I was talking about out in the world, not member of my family, LOL.

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Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.

It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.

LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.

ikr . Like eating a donut filled with tuna.

LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.

That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."

LOL, OMG that is horrible!

Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.

I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!

FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .

Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.

Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.

I've been called beautiful by both men and women, ugly by women only (twice in my life, ouch), and "unattractive at first" once by a man (and I suspect others felt it but didn't say it). What does that make me? Everyone has different tastes I guess....

Well, being called beautiful by women who are related to you doesn't count. If men call you beautiful, that doesn't count either, because they have ulterior motives. So I guess you are ugly like me, who also has been called ugly by two women. Sorry. We can be uggos together I guess! lol. (I'm totally kidding)

Members of my family? I'm a middle aged woman. No, I was talking about out in the world, not member of my family, LOL.

Oh I know, I was just teasing. The trolls of this thread were saying if a member of your family calls you pretty it doesn't count haha.

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Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.

It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.

LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.

ikr . Like eating a donut filled with tuna.

LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.

That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."

LOL, OMG that is horrible!

Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.

I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!

FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .

Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.

Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.

I've been called beautiful by both men and women, ugly by women only (twice in my life, ouch), and "unattractive at first" once by a man (and I suspect others felt it but didn't say it). What does that make me? Everyone has different tastes I guess....

Well, being called beautiful by women who are related to you doesn't count. If men call you beautiful, that doesn't count either, because they have ulterior motives. So I guess you are ugly like me, who also has been called ugly by two women. Sorry. We can be uggos together I guess! lol. (I'm totally kidding)

Members of my family? I'm a middle aged woman. No, I was talking about out in the world, not member of my family, LOL.

Oh ok then I’ll move you up a few notches.

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Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.

It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.

LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.

ikr . Like eating a donut filled with tuna.

LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.

That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."

LOL, OMG that is horrible!

Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.

I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!

FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .

Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.

Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.

I've been called beautiful by both men and women, ugly by women only (twice in my life, ouch), and "unattractive at first" once by a man (and I suspect others felt it but didn't say it). What does that make me? Everyone has different tastes I guess....

Well, being called beautiful by women who are related to you doesn't count. If men call you beautiful, that doesn't count either, because they have ulterior motives. So I guess you are ugly like me, who also has been called ugly by two women. Sorry. We can be uggos together I guess! lol. (I'm totally kidding)

Members of my family? I'm a middle aged woman. No, I was talking about out in the world, not member of my family, LOL.

Oh I know, I was just teasing. The trolls of this thread were saying if a member of your family calls you pretty it doesn't count haha.

Obviously you never heard of the term . A face only a mother could love ?

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Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.

It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.

LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.

ikr . Like eating a donut filled with tuna.

LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.

That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."

LOL, OMG that is horrible!

Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.

I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!

FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .

Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.

Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.

I've been called beautiful by both men and women, ugly by women only (twice in my life, ouch), and "unattractive at first" once by a man (and I suspect others felt it but didn't say it). What does that make me? Everyone has different tastes I guess....

Hmmm my ugly meter puts you at about a 2 on a scale of 1 to 10.. 10 being Hot.

LOL not sure how your meter works online but not to worried about it. One of the women who called me ugly was anorexic and the other was my mother. I've been called beautiful way more times than ugly. : )

[Anonymous]

Yeah, by my co-workers. Several of my students have told me the ESOL teachers gossip about my looks. I teach in a large county. Immigrant from a developing country.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yeah, by my co-workers. Several of my students have told me the ESOL teachers gossip about my looks. I teach in a large county. Immigrant from a developing country.

Jesus, I can't imagine gossiping about someone's looks. How stupid. Those women are idiots, PP. And your students shouldn't be passing that along to you, either.

[Anonymous]

Many times between ages 2 and 37. By my mother.

[Anonymous]

For me, the number and type of compliments (or insults) I receive is entirely dependent on my weight. Sad to say, but in my 20s I put on 40lbs and was able to walk through life as if I were invisible. After my dad died I lost so much weight that people started asking concerned questions. I was in my early 30s and the attention was unrelenting. I could have slept with a different guy (hot, wealthy, or both) every night of the week. And while I agree that my gay men friends were the most objective observers and complimenters, I also noticed that women became much, much meaner the thinner I got. To me, this is the surest sign that you are nice looking. (I generally get along very well with other women and it was never an issue when I was fat.)

In my 50s now and am back to being invisible again. It doesn't matter what I weigh anymore. 50 + thin or not thin = invisible (in general). And although I really enjoyed my 30s as a hottie and would not trade those memories for the world, I also really enjoy the freedom that comes with being 50 and not giving a sh*t.

[Anonymous]

Only by my mother- we are estranged

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Anonymous wrote:I was called ugly once in my teens/college by other girls and it's made me so insecure. Everyone else has called me pretty but I'm still shook up about two women I knew as a teenager. Wtf.

It depends. What were the circumstances when those girls called you ugly? Were they being serious or were you girls fighting or arguing? Also, if the “everyone “ who calls you pretty are related to you, I’m sorry but those really don’t count.

LOL this response started as nice but then got so bitchy so quick.

ikr . Like eating a donut filled with tuna.

LOL is that a phrase? Or did you make it up? I like it.

That response reminded me of the time I confided in someone that I was called ugly as a kid and she said "Well, pretty people don't really get called ugly."

LOL, OMG that is horrible!

Plus see my comment about Cameron Diaz. She was called ugly as a kid.

I know. And I was only called ugly by other girls, I have been called cute or pretty by multiple men (good looking ones too!) so I really think it's fine. But I was like what the f, who says that?!

FYI getting compliments from men really doesn’t count much because they have ulterior motives. Just sayin. I notice that a lot on FB. The ugliest girls possible getting all these crazy compliments on their selfies but only from men. .

Men find them attractive. That matters more than what some competitive women think of other women.

Sorry I’ve always valued a woman telling me I’m beautiful way more than a man! She doesn’t have any ulterior motives.

I've been called beautiful by both men and women, ugly by women only (twice in my life, ouch), and "unattractive at first" once by a man (and I suspect others felt it but didn't say it). What does that make me? Everyone has different tastes I guess....

Hmmm my ugly meter puts you at about a 2 on a scale of 1 to 10.. 10 being Hot.

LOL not sure how your meter works online but not to worried about it. One of the women who called me ugly was anorexic and the other was my mother. I've been called beautiful way more times than ugly. : )

Ouch! I’m assuming you’re overweight because overweight people think all thin people are Anorexic and if your mom calls you ugly well you’re pretty much ugly.